What has LPSG influenced you to do?

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Since I've been coming to this site, I've tried a couple things based on reading threads and curiosity. What types of things have you done that have been directly influenced by reading the threads here?

I have:
  1. Started watching guys at the urinals and locker rooms to see if they are really checking out other guys--haven't seen this yet
  2. Used a butt plug to see if it would give me an anal orgasm--it did
  3. Gone commando to work--was uncomfortable and made me self-conscious
  4. Looked into getting my foreskin back--way too much work
  5. Took a picture of myself wearing Hulk underwear--I think they're sexy:redface:
  6. Thought about finding a JO buddy but then realized I wouldn't be satisfied with just JO and I'm too old to deal with all the repressed drama
How about you? What have you started doing differently and how did it work out for you?
 

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now this is a fun posting. Thanks ! I really hope there is alot of fun postings and alot of contributions among the guys on this one... because friends place a major influence in our lives, don't they?

Hmmmmm.... it's kind of a difficult thing to actually answer:

1. Paid more attention to how guys at the locker room were acting in the steam room/sauna situations... if they were 'fidgety' or scratching their balls alot or using the edge of their towel as a forehead mop, thus flashing the guy sitting across from them... sometimes indicating that a CJ was desired.

2. I have been reminded to manscape more regularly/frequently as a result of hearing questions and personal preferences expressed regarding body hair

3. In general, I've treated all of my guy friends like horny bastards, knowing that whether they were gay, straight, BIC, etc. they all probably had shot a load in the last 24 hours. In other words, I revved up the male bonding/ sex chat when the genders were separated.

4. I have been more aware of goal-oriented flirtation, and have acknowledged it for what it is, instead of ignoring it or getting pissed off.

5. I've increased the number of edge/jo sessions I've had (after all it's healthier for the prostate, right?)

6. I've become more relaxed about fetish videos and concepts as it relates to a single JO session, knowing that it can be an interesting diversion to the normal mental script that I usually follow.

If this thread lives, I'll post more as I think of them...
 

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Thanks for sharing rawrs & mplsingleguy.

I guess I forgot to add one of the more obvious ones: learned that there are indeed guys my size and bigger. In real life I've only met 1 guy my exact size, 1 who was longer but not thicker and 2 who was thicker but not longer. It's good to know there are people who deal with some of the same issues I deal with on something most people can't relate to or talk about.
 

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Actually, LPSG encourages me to work out as well as accept my own body. All the good looking fit men here helped me realize that people are loveable in all shapes and sizes and the first real step to a confident persona doesn't lie on the outside.

Yes, I know it sounds like an elementary lesson, but it never really sunk in until I got so old. Gosh!
 

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Actually, LPSG encourages me to work out as well as accept my own body. All the good looking fit men here helped me realize that people are loveable in all shapes and sizes and the first real step to a confident persona doesn't lie on the outside.

Yes, I know it sounds like an elementary lesson, but it never really sunk in until I got so old. Gosh!

What a great thing to get out of this. That will improve your health, help maintain your energy levels younger and give you greater confidence. You're never too old for that. I just saw a news report about a 60 yo guy who started body building 10 years ago and just won his first professional body building title--he looked great. I'd love to be in his shape at his age, or any age.
 

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I used a butt plug. I was pleasantly surprised considering I'm a top. Then I went out to the movies commando. Some of the looks I got were priceless. I only did it once though because I don't think I hold my composure if I did it again. I thought about camming thing because that's seems popular around here but decided against it, I just wouldn't get anything out of that. I'd rather watch porn.
 

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LPSG has inspired a hell of a lot more sex in our house.

It helped me get more comfortable with my own body by posting pictures on my profile and most of all making amateur vids.

It has brought me out of my shell so to speak and enables me to enjoy my exhibitionist side.

Oh and wow there are a lot of big guys in the world!
 

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Great thread.
1-Ive become aware that there can be a real bond b/w str8 and gay guys, which is the single best thing. At least in this arena we can share things as MALES first & foremost.
2-have tried commando at my gym. Like the OP, it wasnt so comfortable to me. I like showing a bulge, but the exact outline of my cock was too obvious...partly b/c I get slightly aroused when I lift weights, esp bench press, for some reason.
3-become more aware, also like a few others, of glances and behavior in mens' rooms. I think it is true that str8 guys do it too, which I never imagined before.
4-learned that there are a lotta str8 guys who groom their pubic area. Just yesterday I showered with a muscular cop at the gym. he was shaved 100% smooth below the waist. Previously I would've assumed he was gay, but now I realize that's not necessarily true. Nice to look at just the same.
5-(not yet done but am gonna try) self-prostate massage method suggested by mplsingleguy. Ive always been intrigued by this idea, but have had trouble getting pleasure from my prostate (maybe due to tightness)....would like to overcome that.
 

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I used a butt plug.

The butt plug thing shocked me too because like you, I'm mostly a top. Someone mentioned the anal contractions that occur when you orgasm and I thought, why not, it's in my own home, no one else is around? So I got a butt plug and um, wow! The most intense orgasms--I shoot like twice as far and as much and it seemed like my butt was having it's own orgasm. It just takes some work and patience getting the whole thing going but much better than I ever thought it would be. Thanks LPSG!
 

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LPSG has inspired a hell of a lot more sex in our house.

It helped me get more comfortable with my own body by posting pictures on my profile and most of all making amateur vids.

It has brought me out of my shell so to speak and enables me to enjoy my exhibitionist side.

Oh and wow there are a lot of big guys in the world!

You've got beautiful pics and how great is it to add to the sex in your relationship? Nice.
 

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Great thread.
1-Ive become aware that there can be a real bond b/w str8 and gay guys, which is the single best thing. At least in this arena we can share things as MALES first & foremost.
2-have tried commando at my gym. Like the OP, it wasnt so comfortable to me. I like showing a bulge, but the exact outline of my cock was too obvious...partly b/c I get slightly aroused when I lift weights, esp bench press, for some reason.
3-become more aware, also like a few others, of glances and behavior in mens' rooms. I think it is true that str8 guys do it too, which I never imagined before.
4-learned that there are a lotta str8 guys who groom their pubic area. Just yesterday I showered with a muscular cop at the gym. he was shaved 100% smooth below the waist. Previously I would've assumed he was gay, but now I realize that's not necessarily true. Nice to look at just the same.
5-(not yet done but am gonna try) self-prostate massage method suggested by mplsingleguy. Ive always been intrigued by this idea, but have had trouble getting pleasure from my prostate (maybe due to tightness)....would like to overcome that.

Yeah UWS, I forgot to mention the awareness of straight guy issues as well and how glad I am that they have a place to interact with and chat with bi and gay guys. I think ultimately it helps to break down barriers.

I've been too scared to try the commando at the gym. The whole time at work I kept feeling like everyone was looking at my crotch and they knew what I had done...lol
 

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Since joining I have watched more porn, played with myself more, and started taking and sharing pictures of myself naked. I have also bought more sex toys.

I love that people have used this site to increase their healthy use and appreciation of themselves and their sex lives.:wink: