What has LPSG influenced you to do?

[8060]

The butt plug thing shocked me too because like you, I'm mostly a top. Someone mentioned the anal contractions that occur when you orgasm and I thought, why not, it's in my own home, no one else is around? So I got a butt plug and um, wow! The most intense orgasms--I shoot like twice as far and as much and it seemed like my butt was having it's own orgasm. It just takes some work and patience getting the whole thing going but much better than I ever thought it would be. Thanks LPSG!

Yeah, patience is a virtue with this. LOL

 

[8060]

Yeah UWS, I forgot to mention the awareness of straight guy issues as well and how glad I am that they have a place to interact with and chat with bi and gay guys. I think ultimately it helps to break down barriers.

I've been too scared to try the commando at the gym. The whole time at work I kept feeling like everyone was looking at my crotch and they knew what I had done...lol

That's why I went to the movie. It's dark and shit. Getting the ticket and popcorn felt like it took forever. I could see some people lookin' at my crotch and I was like, "I need to get my seat so bad." When other people are checkin' me out, that in itself turns me on, you know?

The interaction with straight men has shocked me here. In the past, I've been apologetic to straight men when I compliment them but here it's just us and that's cool. I mean who doesn't wanna hear that they've got a nice cock?

 

[HyperHulk]

I mean who doesn't wanna hear that they've got a nice cock?

Mormons? The Amish? The pope? jk:biggrin1:

 

[dudepiston]

I'm afraid mine aren't all as positive:

1. It's made me jealous of the great sex that other people are having, big-dicked or average or small.

2. I've learned that if one is living as his or her "authentic self" then one is happier. I'm jealous of those who can.

3. It's made me want sex that I can't have.

4. It's made me aware of what pervs most guys are, and that makes me feel cool and bonded to them, which we all need in life.:biggrin1:

5. It's occasionally give me extremely intense orgasms as I think about something I read here or pictures I looked at. =)

6. It's made me aware that my body will never - EVER - measure up to any kind of male ideal. I'm not giving up the gym but I'm just being realistic in my goals & ideas.

7. Inspired me to try butt plugs too. Didn't do anything for me until I got one that vibrates. Those are nice.....

 

[crescendo69]

I tried some L-Arginine (spelling) for increased semen to no avail.

I regularly visit x-tube, which I discovered on here.

I did a little grooming down there.

I found a few nice new jokes to tell.

I am still to afraid to meet someone that privated me - no pics, age, etc.

The site does wile away the hours, but it is fun.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

It added one new addiction to my life.....and exacerbated the other addictions i have.

 

[HamYai]

Might i also add that its encouraged me to watch way too much porn since discovering amateur porn sites.

Amen to that.

Reality Porn is incomparable to the fake, acted, money driven variety we've endured for so long.

LPSG can also be a little on the sleazy side and if there's one thing I love, it's a bit of sleaze (provided it's "Nice" sleaze).

Nice & Sleazy duz it, every time.

 

[D_Percival Puddleford Pukehorn]

ever since i joined LPSG i've simply been more of a whore and i've been in love with a certain someone's ass from LA

 

[HyperHulk]

I'm afraid mine aren't all as positive:

1. It's made me jealous of the great sex that other people are having, big-dicked or average or small.

2. I've learned that if one is living as his or her "authentic self" then one is happier. I'm jealous of those who can.

3. It's made me want sex that I can't have.

4. It's made me aware of what pervs most guys are, and that makes me feel cool and bonded to them, which we all need in life.:biggrin1:

5. It's occasionally give me extremely intense orgasms as I think about something I read here or pictures I looked at. =)

6. It's made me aware that my body will never - EVER - measure up to any kind of male ideal. I'm not giving up the gym but I'm just being realistic in my goals & ideas.

7. Inspired me to try butt plugs too. Didn't do anything for me until I got one that vibrates. Those are nice.....

I understand with those first couple points how frustrating that can be, and yet on the positive side, you have raised your awareness in a way that you know what is possible. You never know what life has in store for you and maybe there might be opportunities to move closer to what it is you want. It's a struggle for many to live their authentic self--there's so much vulnerability with that.

Also keep in mind there are many different types of the male ideal. Some think it's the muscled guys, some think guys with a stomach, some think guys with hair, some think guys with a certain skin tone--their is so much variety. What's most important is that you like who you are and let everyone else appreciate that.

 

[Primal_Savage]

In addition to the points raised by uwsswimguy and mplsingleguy, lpsg has helped me adjust to being bi-sexual after years of hating myself for being attracted to and engaging in sex with both men and women.

 

[HyperHulk]

In addition to the points raised by uwsswimguy and mplsingleguy, lpsg has helped me adjust to being bi-sexual after years of hating myself for being attracted to and engaging in sex with both men and women.

I can think of few things better that you could get out of this forum than developing a greater appreciation for yourself and shedding much of the negative baggage that has negatively affected your sense of self and your experiences. Proud of you mate.

 

[Smooth88]

LPSG has done these things for me.....

1. Made me more aware of my own sexuality and sensual nature.

2. Made me focus on my body a little bit more.

3. Taught me that gay, bi and straight men CAN coexist.

4. Made me pay more attention to grooming the penile area.

5. Help me to know that there are people who are just like me out there.

6. Help me to feel that I really do have a big willy.

 

[D_Ivana Dickenside]

since i joined LPSG i've finally learned to start accepting my body the way it is. i'm not as self concious as i used to be about having big boobs, hips, and thighs. i can also confidently say i've noticed more men tend to check me out in public because of my shape, rather than my friends who are stick thin.

 

[D_Ivana Dickenside]

To take pictures of my penis.

LOL i think you speak for most of the guys when you say that jimmy

 

[MattM8"]

-post pictures of my penis on the internet, something that I never thought I would do.

-It has made me feel better about my penis which I have for some reasons always been very self conscience about.

-Definitely made me much more comfortable with gay and bi men and listening to them speak about their private lives.

-overall in the past couple of weeks it's just been a very liberating experience.

 

[8060]

I'm afraid mine aren't all as positive:

1. It's made me jealous of the great sex that other people are having, big-dicked or average or small.

2. I've learned that if one is living as his or her "authentic self" then one is happier. I'm jealous of those who can.

3. It's made me want sex that I can't have.

4. It's made me aware of what pervs most guys are, and that makes me feel cool and bonded to them, which we all need in life.:biggrin1:

5. It's occasionally give me extremely intense orgasms as I think about something I read here or pictures I looked at. =)

6. It's made me aware that my body will never - EVER - measure up to any kind of male ideal. I'm not giving up the gym but I'm just being realistic in my goals & ideas.

7. Inspired me to try butt plugs too. Didn't do anything for me until I got one that vibrates. Those are nice.....

I have gay friend that has loved himself since the beginning of time. I never understood how he could do that. He wasn't my mentor in the gay life, but certainly an inspiration. I've been attracted to both sexes for as long as I could remember. As a child, I just thought I was a "freak" in a sexual sense. I fought it and fought it and fought it until I just got tired. Then when I was 20-years-old, my dad told me that he was bisexual. I was furious on the inside. All I was thinking was "it's your fault. It never was me." Then I let that shit go. I made the decision to just love me for me. I chose to announced my sexuality to the people in my life that claimed to love me. If they stuck around after I told them about myself, then I assumed that they loved me & always would. Those that didn't accept me, I figured that I didn't need them in my life & I dropped them. I can't think of one person that didn't accept me though. I'm still the same person that I always was just now they know that I'll suck the occasional cock. Haha. Everybody needs some good dick in their lives in my opinion, hahaha.

My male bonding has increased exponentially since their new awareness of me. I had to take myself outside of myself to introduce and meet people thru the private messaging. It's turned out well. I have good conversations with them all, even the 100% str8 guys. As far as your body goes, you can change that if you want. That's strictly motivation and good friend is always helpful. I had to get a plug that vibrates too. Lover's Lane, thank you very much. So, you keep your head up, dudepiston. You'll find your happy way like some of us have. You just have to be patient and willing to let go and love yourself more. Peace:wink:

 

[smudgey]

This site has taught me some very important lessons and inspired me to do some crazy things I'd never thought to attempt before...

1) Actually take pics and vids of myself and be comfortable about my dick, especially it's curve which I thought was odd (now I know better) and my ginger pubes (which I previously hated but some guys think is cool lol)
2) Shave my pubes (for some reason hadn't ever though of this before). Before it started to grow back and itch like hell, I had a great time jacking 24/7!
3) Try anal stimulation - I had always thought about it but didn't know how to go about it. Unfortunately I was really disappointed after all the amazing orgasms guys on here are having this way! It was great up until orgasm, and I came everywhere, but it was like the weakest orgasm I've ever had! (suggestions??)
4) Talk to my friends more bout masturbation and get to know all their dirty secrets haha.
5) Become more comfortable about my sexuality, as I never labelled myself bi before and was scared of that side of myself. Now I embrace it and watch plenty of gay along with straight porn and have better orgasms as a result!

I'm sure there's a bunch more stuff, but yeah my stay here has been awesome

 

[8060]

In addition to the points raised by uwsswimguy and mplsingleguy, lpsg has helped me adjust to being bi-sexual after years of hating myself for being attracted to and engaging in sex with both men and women.

This site has granted me to love myself more too, Primal Savage. That's such a hot title. Self-hatred is a killer and I'm so glad that you and I both have learned to "let that shit go." Everybody gets one life so ride this muthafucka 'til the wheels fall off. Props, Primal. Props to u!

 

[8060]

This site has taught me some very important lessons and inspired me to do some crazy things I'd never thought to attempt before...

1) Actually take pics and vids of myself and be comfortable about my dick, especially it's curve which I thought was odd (now I know better) and my ginger pubes (which I previously hated but some guys think is cool lol)
2) Shave my pubes (for some reason hadn't ever though of this before). Before it started to grow back and itch like hell, I had a great time jacking 24/7!
3) Try anal stimulation - I had always thought about it but didn't know how to go about it. Unfortunately I was really disappointed after all the amazing orgasms guys on here are having this way! It was great up until orgasm, and I came everywhere, but it was like the weakest orgasm I've ever had! (suggestions??)
4) Talk to my friends more bout masturbation and get to know all their dirty secrets haha.
5) Become more comfortable about my sexuality, as I never labelled myself bi before and was scared of that side of myself. Now I embrace it and watch plenty of gay along with straight porn and have better orgasms as a result!

I'm sure there's a bunch more stuff, but yeah my stay here has been awesome

Shaving is cool because it's like you have more cock to stroke which always nice. You should try holding your breath right before, during, & after busting a nut. The residual shakes are awesome. That might kick up your orgasm a little. Hold it for as long as you can. Breathing techniques during sex are unbelieveable. And porn of all types will never get in my book, peace:wink:

 

[B_Nick4444]

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