What have u learned from lpsg?

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yorkie the erection photo thing is so true! - mind you,you don't seem to have managed so badly - i love your pics (with apologies 4 the fact the interest is gay inspired....)
Thanks Dan (no apology needed,I appreciate every compliment!).
Yep,there's nothing erotic about getting the light right,making sure the camera's in the right position etc.By the time you press the shutter the cock has started to lose interest! :rolleyes: :smile:
 

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- there are virtually no nasty people in here...

Oh, no no no no noooooo....

There are people with major self-esteem issues, alcoholics/druggies/etc., people who thrive on drama, attention whores, attention whores-who-are-in-self-denial, and a whole lot of horndog jackasses on this site.

Basically... just like real life.

Surprising? Nah.
 

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Along the lines of what fortiesfun said, I've learned that sexual orientation is much more complex than we currently imagine it. I learned that through repeatedly reading posts from men who basically only desire to be sexual with female partners but who are also fascinated and even aroused by cocks -- especially their own, but often others too.

That shows that 'gay-bi-straight' or even the Kinsey scale don't adequately classify human sexual preferences. It also shows that there is a "narcissistic" element to human sexuality by which many people are turned on by their own bodies, independently of their desires for others. More than anything, it shows that we have just scratched the surface in terms of "mapping" sexual orientation and all the factors that go with it.
 

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that size really matters, a lot

That is strange considering that I've actually learned that having a large penis doesn't much matter. All the attention that gets paid to the men with the large member doesn't really change who that person is. I guess I'm trying to say that I've learned that personality, attitude, intelligence, and posting skills are way more important (to me) then a huge cock. Don't get me wrong, I like the big ones as much as the next person, but there is so much else that makes up the personality of a person besides their genetically pre-programed penis size.
 

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Along the lines of what fortiesfun said, I've learned that sexual orientation is much more complex than we currently imagine it. I learned that through repeatedly reading posts from men who basically only desire to be sexual with female partners but who are also fascinated and even aroused by cocks -- especially their own, but often others too.

That shows that 'gay-bi-straight' or even the Kinsey scale don't adequately classify human sexual preferences. It also shows that there is a "narcissistic" element to human sexuality by which many people are turned on by their own bodies, independently of their desires for others. More than anything, it shows that we have just scratched the surface in terms of "mapping" sexual orientation and all the factors that go with it.

Seconded. I found myself struggling with the gay/straight percentage scale when signing up - which told me I need to do some serious assessment. So for this member, my appearance here is more about learning than what I've learned. Seeing the reactions to threads, and sometimes the effort/passion used to express them, has reeled me in. And being able to see nudies of the posters changes the playing field entirely again :biggrin1:

Already touched upon several times: this is a place for folks who would not ordinarily speak the volumes they do on sexuality. For some, it's sorely needed, and for others, a goof. One wonders what our (my?) world would be like if we were all so free to converse.
 

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I have learned a lot---to appreciate all people more, that there truly ARE real downsides to having a big cock, that what is perceived as big or hung is all over the map, and that this site attracts some very increadibly complex, intellegent, and interesting people, who feel, think, and live passionately about their lives, how the world works, and their place in it. I've learned that size DOES matter to women, and that most prefer a bigger to smaller cock, but that even if they prefer it, they can't always handle it. And that a good lover is a good lover, and a bad lover is a bad lover, regardless of whether you are male, female, hung, average, small, gay or straight. I've learned that there are some increadibly selfish, egotistical, and shallow men with big dicks. And the same type with small dicks. And some intellegent, dynamic, interesting, giving, loving men who I would love to call friend, or even in some cases, partner, with big dicks. And the same type with small dicks. I've learned that everybody hurts, and has shit they have to deal with in life. I;ve learned that no matter what I think or feel, others will identify with it. And I find myself identifying with many on here. I;ve learned that we all share a common thread in our lives, that no matter where we come from, or do, or look like, or who we are, we are all human, and share the glories and the foibles of being human. And I've learned that no matter how much any of us feels alone, that at some level, we never really are--there is always someone out there to share a bit of your life with, and have a bit of theirs merge with yours. To quote a tag line from this site "Penis size matters--but not how you think it does"
 

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Since joining, two things have surprised me:
1. People are clueless about dick size. They see a 7 incher and think it's 9 inches, 8 inches and claim 12 internet inches. Girth is almost completely discounted which is strange. People are also clueless about maximum dick size and just how rare even an 8 inch dick is. Guys regularly come on here claiming to have cocks the size of my fire extinguisher.

2. I'm amazed at what men will do to their dicks to make them bigger. I had no idea how much silicone and pumping guys will do. They will spend hundreds of hours pumping and painful procedures stuffing their rods with silicone, both possibly ruining their dicks. In short, I'm amazed at what men will do for an inch.
 

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I have to say that I’m not a size queen nor have I ever experienced “big” (strange that I’m on this board then, right :confused:).

I have really enjoyed the time I’ve spent on this message board. I think that for the most part (with some exceptions mind you) the men and women of LPSG are honest :rolleyes: and open and that there really are few “stupid” questions. So what have I learned?
  • Tons about my own sexuality.
  • How to give myself a g-spot orgasm – WOW, thanks everyone!
  • That there are men out there who actually DO care about women and their feelings.
  • That there are men out there who could give a shit and just wanna fuck.
  • That it’s unfair to just label a person as “gay” or “straight” because for most of us there are varying degrees.
  • Ahem – that size DOES matter to a certain degree (my own little “experiment”).
  • Most importantly, that I really, really wanna try BIG (this is NOT an invitation for strange PMs and requests for webcam).
Cheers,
Sugar :redface:
 

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I am bigger than i thought
It is never advisable to brag, because it is always likeable to find somebody bigger
Comparing is fun and is a commoon thing among guys
Mentioning you are Italian turns some persons on
I should use Magnum XL (now I do)
Gay guys can give really honest opinons on size
My size might oblige to some foreplay
In chats you can meet persons interested in something different from sex
If a male celeb is goodlooking people tend to think (hope?) he is packing
Some celebs do really pack
There is a reason if sometimes i get stares at showers
I would never be able to cheat on my girfriend (I am too in love to do it, more a confirmation than a discovery)
If you are big you have to accept it and avoid to behave like you are average, because some things do really change
Italians surf the net a lot, and some get here
Porn star size is nothing unreachable
 

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I have only been here a relatively short time... but thankfully I have learned that members at lpsg have some pretty interesting and, at times, helpful things to share, and not just pics. Realizing this, I also become aware that all I have done here mainly is to share pics of (mostly just a part) of myself and not provide much else of myself that would be behind the images you are seeing... I am comfortable with my sexuality however, and it has been nice and somewhat reassuring to see that others here also understand and are tolerant of bisexuality. The feedback on the pics I've shared has also been enjoyable. But I am not just posting pics, I have and continue to read many of the threads here and have been in touch with some amazing (and HOT!) members (sorry if that last one may sound like a double entendre, it isn't). Through this, I have learned possibly to be more enthusiastic about my own God-given sexual ambiguity, the in between of desiring both men and women to various and changing degrees. I wouldn't change this part of myself for anything, and as long as we are being honest with each other, I'd say it is a blessing actually (life is what you make it after all). The world tends to support things that are believed to be connected, male goes with female, gay guy goes with gay guy, Hallmark goes with Happy Secretary's Day cards, etc. It is nice, then, to witness a site like this one in which other avenues are opened, where expectations are challenged and where new ways of constructive thinking are encouraged. I find it a little more difficult in "real life" to connect with open-minded bisexual or straight women that share my same high sex drive, but here things are radically different. I haven't learned anything life-altering from the site, but in a small way, I have grown a bit with it (stop thinking about the inches damn it) since being here. In all seriousness too, and with thanks to both the members and moderators, I think I have found some actual "lps" here at lpsg... not just for the "p" but for the guy attached to it. Oh and one other thing I have learned is that with all the talk about size here, for some reason the pics that I post with a ruler tend to get the smallest amount of comments... And some of the soft pics get the most.
 

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Things I have learned from LPSG:

I had no idea what a big penis really looked like before, or that there were so many!

Apparently all Italian men are hung like the proverbial horse :tongue:

Men with really big cocks do not constantly get sex :frown1:

A lot of men are happily married. :smile:

A lot of men hope to be happily married :smile:

Women have broken up with men for being too big :frown1: Sorry fellas

I had no idea so many men worried about their cock being large enough

Men obsess about their penis size especially the length

Women favor girth over length

There are still men who don't like to use lube and shun foreplay! :confused:

Some men never wash their cum rags :eek:

Most men know what and where the clitoris is

Bisexuality has nothing to do with ambivalence.

Men still think female ejaculation is pee :confused:

I find men who self-suck erotic
I'm not weird for liking anal sex

Most men really do want to please their partner more than themselves sexually!

I really LOVE men! :flirt: :05:

Most of you are truly beautiful, sensitive, intelligent, funny, charming, patient, and caring. I'm sorry that a few bad apples have made life difficult for the rest of you.

  • MYTHS WHICH NEED TO DIE! :wtf:
  • All Black men have huge cocks
  • All Gay men are sluts
  • All Gay men have anal sex
  • A lot of White Men still think Black Women have better or magic pussies. We don't , but it works to my benefit, so maybe I should shut up
  • Men who selfsuck are: weird, gay, ugly, bi
 

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I guess the things I learned here that stand out :wink: the most are the first ones I noticed after joining LPSG......

There are WAY more hung guys out there than I thought.
Who Knew there were So Many !......
:eek:

I expected offensive macho attitudes would go along with the big cocks, and was very pleased to see that was generally not true.
The men And women here are funny, polite, intelligent people.

I never knew about growers and showers, or the difference......
A grower's more like a surprise package....:smile: :eek:

Black men have Not cornered the market on being hung.

Some threads here and the galleries are far better at turning me on than any porn flick......
Well, ok...there are exceptions.....but it's more like parts of different flicks that do it for me.

A few threads are hilarious..... one silly one was about what sort of tricks does your penis do ?
After laughing so hard I almost fell off the chair......I replied "What ?!!...Hasn't anybody's cock held up the car while they changed their flat ?":smile:


I like loitering around at LPSG and just being in the presence of the Big Ones.....

There's more...but those are the first that come to mind.