I've learned that people with big dicks are really glad that they were blessed and that they think that guys with small dicks should be happy with what they have. Even though they speak highly of their endowment, they think that small guys who over play their smallness are weak, insecure, or are sissies. They think small guys should just accept their inferiority and feel lucky that they have a functioning penis, although they themselves are totally attached to their large penis to the point that it has become a major part of their identity and self concept (otherwise they probably wouldn't post pics and ask people to comment on it). Many also think that having a small dick is something to be ashamed of. For instance, the recent posting that asked the quesiton, "Have you ever been accused of having a small dick?" There is almost a sense that having a small or even average dick is equivalent to some sort of character flaw. Guys with big dicks clearly see the advantage and would not have it any other way. In fact, many want to have even a bigger advantage/bigger dick and a more publicly known advantage. Many are disappointed that their advantage isn't publicly known.
There are some guys on this site that truly seem to have experienced the dark side of having a large penis. However, the vast majority of posts seem to confirm that guys with large penises are glad they have them, look down on guys that don't and even buy into that having a small penis is bad, and are frustrated the more people don't know how endowed they are because they have to wear pants.
It has always seemed like one of the most unusual "support groups" ever. It's like having a support group for unusually handsome guys or a support group for attractive blonds with big tits.
I know this sounds like sour grapes since I am small to average (5.5) but you asked the question.
I'm not condemning all you lucky guys with the big units, but that's my honest perception after lurking and occasionally posting for a couple of years.
Whenever I've expressed thoughts like this, there usually is someone who says I'm being a sissy or uses my thoughts as confirmation that us small guys have issues and just need to get over them. I've heard that and anyone telling me that again will be predictable. I'm just answering the question honestly.
I know there are big guys who are able to see the world from another perspective and sometimes they express that point of view to me or on the threads. But I'm really amazed at the general agreement that it is ok to make fun of a guy with a small cock and that a small cock = character deficiencies especially when seeing threads or comments like:
Friend reveals his small girth on accident?
Ever been accused of having a small dick?
"The smallest one that I had an encounter with was 5.5 Inches, anything smaller that that gets thrown back just like a fish that is too small to catch."
"I doubt he was implying he has a big cock... more like he was covering up having a small one. Only a real idiot comes out with crap like that!"
"When I was college a group of us was watching a porn video. There was one guy in the video that had a really small cock - comic relief small. One of the other fellows in our group said "finally, a guy with a normal cock." Everyone in the coed group busted out laughing, as this guy was pretty much admitting to having a really small wang. Then, a minute later, the films star came into view. He was, of course, hung like a horse. One of the girls then chimed it "if any of you thinks thats normal, let me know." That got a bigger laugh."