I teach & coach in a public high school. It is mostly white upper middle class. The article I just read is so true...
I think you have to sympathise with people with "Unconventional" body shapes. As a black man with body hair and a power weightlifter build (no joke, I'm tank legs and robust arms). I'm pretty much a freak of nature before my face gets into it.
It is a shame in all respects that people can't have the confidence to be themselves without being seen as gay predators at the very least, or metrosexuals (that is, in denial).
Mind you, if you haven't got anything worth showing off, then there's nothing else to be said!