What I do when I take a female friend out.

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I am just wondering what the woman of the website would think if there gay friend did this for them. But everyone is welcome to talk.
So when I make plans to take my female friends out for the night I make sure to buy a single flower (there favorite) Then I will normaly take them out to dinner, not to fancy but not McD's or some place like that. I NEVER let them pay. Then depending on who I am with we might go see the new chick flick or minni golfing or just go walk. It all depends on what they like or feel like doing. Do you woman like having your gay friends treat you like this or would you rather us just be your "sister"?
 

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You give them their favorite flower each time you go out? :confused: That's overkill, IMO. If she's one of those needy faghags, that one could easily be misconstrued as, 'I'm the only pussy he wants!' :redface: You laugh, but I've heard way too many fatal attraction type stories where the guy was openly gay and the woman was straight but apparently stupid. :tongue:

I like when my gay friends open my door, pull out my chair and generally treat me like a lady. :smile: Straight guys often forget basic manners. :irked: Unless they're cowboys that is. :wink: My gay friends don't usually buy my dinner when we go out; but we always split a plate of fried calamari, and sometimes cheesecake depending on the restaurant, does that count? I do have one that sometimes buys me concert tickets thouh. Does that count? :confused:
 

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Why even go through all this trouble?? I don't even buy flowers for girls I'm actually getting laid from. At least not unless it's a special occasion.

I think you're just teasing them. You have low self-esteems it seems.
 

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Why even go through all this trouble?? I don't even buy flowers for girls I'm actually getting laid from. At least not unless it's a special occasion.[/QUOTE]
Pffftt! See, you are unfortunately the common straight man. :irked: :mad: The women you sleep with need to demand more and aim higher. :cool:

I think you're just teasing them. You have low self-esteems it seems.
I don't know about low self-esteem, but he is definetely leading them on and needs to stop, PRONTO. Otherwise one of these women may end up 'boiling his bunny' or whatever the 21st century equivalent is.
 

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Who has the money to blow on unimportant things like dying plants when you can buy a woman so much better things or nothing at all and just give her ginormous orgasms later on in the evening to make up for the lack of dying foliage..
 

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I only do this with with them if they are having a really bad time. Like death in the family, boyfriend troubles that sort of thing. I should have said that in my original post. It is only to get there minds off the bad things at the moment. Other wise yeah we will go to McD and she can pay. lol.
 

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You give them their favorite flower each time you go out? :confused: That's overkill, IMO. If she's one of those needy faghags, that one could easily be misconstrued as, 'I'm the only pussy he wants!' :redface: You laugh, but I've heard way too many fatal attraction type stories where the guy was openly gay and the woman was straight but apparently stupid. :tongue:

I like when my gay friends open my door, pull out my chair and generally treat me like a lady. :smile: Straight guys often forget basic manners. :irked: Unless they're cowboys that is. :wink: My gay friends don't usually buy my dinner when we go out; but we always split a plate of fried calamari, and sometimes cheesecake depending on the restaurant, does that count? I do have one that sometimes buys me concert tickets thouh. Does that count? :confused:

NJ, you gotta find a better class of men! You should always be treated like a lady!
 

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That sounds like a date-date to me. My gay best friend has paid for my dinner on occasion, and I pulled him aside to talk to him about it. He doesn't have to pay for me, he's not my date, in fact, his bf is almost always with us. He said he pays for me because I'm the only one of his friends who appreciates it. If you're trying to make her feel special, it's a great gesture, but what is your real meaning behind it?
 

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I was raised this way Serial Kisser, no meaning really. Was taught if YOU ask another to join you for dinner YOU pay. If they ask you to join them, they pay.
 

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I think that's just fine. My gay friends do that for me occasionally...and like you have said generally when I'm having a particularly bad time. On the other hand I have also done things like that for them.

Most of the time we're just two normal friends responsible for paying for our own things when we go out.