What, If Anything, Is Stopping You Exploring Butt Play?

[Beanie]

Topic

 

[ronin001]

Having zero interest , is a good reason

 

[Hatt_101]

Having zero interest , is a good reason

What he said

 

[twoton]

I'm prevented by never thinking about it.

 

[Crowe]

I've always considered it being an exit not an entrance. I'm not into anal, regardless if it's female or male, just not my thing. So exploring it myself would also be out of the question.

 

[WilliamG]

It's my favorite stimulation. So nothing for me is stopping me.

 

[rawbone8]

I've explored it and so far it hasn't been rewarding. I'm a total hedonist so the possibility of added pleasure intrigues.

To date after prepping to be clean and lubed ready to share with a couple of lovers (women who were experienced with penetrative play) the result was either pain or an annoying feeling around the prostate as well as a complete deflation of my erection. I enjoyed the initial fingering and rimming, after that it just didn't get to a pleasurable pay-off despite all that prep. Solo play didn't work any better for me. Never say never, so maybe it's still in the future?

I did come away with a heightened level of respect for what my female partners who enjoy anal sex are able to bring to the table, and they usually tend to have orgasms when we play with fingering, toys or ass fucking. Other lovers have not had orgasms and have similar issues with pain and anxiousness.

 

[justahornyguy174]

Not having woman with a strapon I guess!

 

[ronin001]

Pcies! Geen ingang maar uitgang.
Voel ook niet de wens om het bij partner te onderzoeken.

En in ons geval vrees ik dat wij niet veel verder komen dan het topje

Translated into English as a public service advisory


Exactly! No entry but exit.
Also do not feel the desire to examine it with partner.

And in our case I fear that we will not get much further than the tip

 

[palakaorion]

Wife wasn't really into it. And frankly poop takes me right out of the mood.

 

[6inchcock]

Nothing. My asshole is just dead set against it and my brain sees no reason to veto the assholes objections.

Have you considered vagina play?

 

[rbi99]

I take it you are asking why some straight guys don't do anal. First off my size makes doing my wife anally almost impossible (we are not professionals!!!), second of all my wife definitely doesn't want to try it, third I'd probably cum before I could get in - if I could get in, and finally, the mess.

 

[Beanie]

Thank you guys for your responses so far, I hope to get more. Why I ask is because as a gay man I am biologically identical to you guys and receive SO MUCH pleasure from anal play and I was wondering if there are any ‘road blocks’ in your way to explore your body that way. I get so much pleasure from anal play and can make me cum without touching myself.

I just wonder why men don’t explore this treasure chest of pleasure and if it’s a psychological thing?

 

[Ddeet]

Translated into English as a public service advisory


Exactly! No entry but exit.
Also do not feel the desire to examine it with partner.

And in our case I fear that we will not get much further than the tip

 

[merc41]

A willing partner

 

[merc41]

Went to a professional fetish girl and she pegged the hell out of me for an hour. Well worth it she knew all the right buttons.

 

[merc41]

Again need a willing partner. Firm believer in Pussy Worship.

 

[Sagittarius84]

I think bi/gay/and exploratory hetero guys just need to comprehend that penetration just isnt a desired pleasure for a large swath of straight men and respect that, no different if said straight men tried to insinuate lesbian women just need the right dick or other phallic object to make their sex lives complete. Now if you're talking about removing the homophobic vibe from refusal of straight men to engage in buttplay, than sure, Im an ally...but i operate off of the broccoli metaphor: chock full of vitamins and nutrients, yet my body will not allow it's taste or smell to enter my without unpleasant physical side effects.

 

[Nosuportneeded]

It’s just a pain in the ass. No pun. Well, pun a little. Gotta be extra cleanly, harder to be spontaneous, not quite rewarding enough for me so far

 

[Beanie]

I take it you are asking why some straight guys don't do anal. First off my size makes doing my wife anally almost impossible (we are not professionals!!!), second of all my wife definitely doesn't want to try it, third I'd probably cum before I could get in - if I could get in, and finally, the mess.

Thanks for your response but my post is not relating to “doing anal”