What if he's sporting a huge tent for you....

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say at work... you both feel a vibe.. and you notice he puts his hand in his pocket....

How do you escalate the situation to be able to feel it?

Would you continue to stare like I did... and smile.... someone please share with me "the moves" to move it on from that point.
thanks!
 

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Um...walk up and put your hand on it?

Yeah, yeah, "sexual harrassment" and all that, but I don't know of ANY guy would would call foul at that, gay, mean, or otherwise. I think any guy would be flattered.
 

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Um...walk up and put your hand on it?

Yeah, yeah, "sexual harrassment" and all that, but I don't know of ANY guy would would call foul at that, gay, mean, or otherwise. I think any guy would be flattered.

Well, goldeneye, at least you acknowledge the problems and the possible accusation of sexual harassment.

Let's be a little more subtle and perhaps just take your index finger and yank at his pocket or belt loop closest to the zipper of his pants.
 

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You could just do the obvious, since it's obvious he's attracted to you ask him if he'd like to get together after work. For coffee, a drink a meal, etc. Then let things progress from there. What the 2 of you do outside of the worksite is your business.
 

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Hi bmw335. I agree that you should try to move it out of the office and then take it from there. If I find a woman attractive and realize she's staring at my bulge often it's a huge turn-on. Believe me, if there truly is a vibe between the two of you it won't be difficult to take it to the next level. He might enjoy and milk the attention and mystery for a little while though...:)
Have fun...Always!!! :smile:
 

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say at work... you both feel a vibe.. and you notice he puts his hand in his pocket....

How do you escalate the situation to be able to feel it?

Would you continue to stare like I did... and smile.... someone please share with me "the moves" to move it on from that point.
thanks!

from your pics, all you have to do is ask lol