What If Your Partner Developed A Weird Fetish?

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What would you do if your partner developed a weird fetish that you found gross and unappealing? Would it be the end of the relationship? Would you allow them to go outside of the relationship to get their sexual needs fulfilled? Would you just suck it up and go along with it?
 
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Well if you already state that this fetish will be unappealing and gross me out.

It will gross me OUT....

If your staying, it's under mean that you don't have enough self-esteem. Your willing to suffer instead of finding the right person.

Please can you formulate your question so it's not biased.
 

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Well if you already state that this fetish will be unappealing and gross me out.

It will gross me OUT....

If your staying, it's under mean that you don't have enough self-esteem. Your willing to suffer instead of finding the right person.

Please can you formulate your question so it's not biased.

The point of it is that it's a fetish that you don't like.
 

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Good question. [They] can perform without it, but [they] really need it done at least sometimes to truly feel sexually fulfilled.
Unless it was harmful in some way I'd consider indulging their fetish now and then if it truly made them happy.. as long as it stays an occasional thing and doesn't become a new obsession.

Personally I think sex, like most human interactions, requires consideration and compromise on all sides ;)
 
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Unless it was harmful in some way I'd consider indulging their fetish now and then if it truly made them happy.. as long as it stays an occasional thing and doesn't become a new obsession.

Personally I think sex, like most human interactions, requires consideration and compromise on all sides ;)
This is pretty much my answer.

As long as it’s not physically or psychologically damaging I’ll try it. I would focus on how much pleasure she is getting from it. Watching her cum is enough to get me fucking her lights out.
 

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Good question. She can perform without it, but she really needs it done at least sometimes to truly feel sexually fulfilled.
So longer as it's not on my non-negotiable never list, I'm willing to go along on occasion.

If she developed this fetish out of the blue and out of character, I'd be concerned about the impetus. Sometimes sudden personality shifts can result from trauma or organic disease.
 

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So longer as it's not on my non-negotiable never list, I'm willing to go along on occasion.

If she developed this fetish out of the blue and out of character, I'd be concerned about the impetus. Sometimes sudden personality shifts can result from trauma or organic disease.

..or just shifting tastes, desires, and an active imagination..
Whether we're talking about food, movies, music, books, activities or sex I enjoy things now that I didn't enjoy years ago ;)
 

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The key here is communication. Talk about your sexual desires. With my work as a gigolo, I have heard.my share of "out-of-the-ordinary" sexual requests.

There is no harm in experimenting; however, be honest with your feelings. If something does not feel right at any time, then say so - and stop.

Personally, I would not engage in anything that is either painful, degrading or dehumanizing.
 

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Almost anyone that's travelled outside of the west has likely done illegal things in bed :p

Aren't there even US States with old colonial laws still on the books, where anal sex is still illegal between same sex and opposite sex couples? :confused:
 
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Almost anyone that's travelled outside of the west has likely done illegal things in bed :p

Aren't there even US States with old colonial laws still on the books, where anal sex is still illegal between same sex and opposite sex couples? :confused:
Yep. While the Supreme Court has nullified most of those laws they’re still on the books.

Sodomy is illegal in Alabama, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Louisiana, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, North Carolina, Oklahoma and South Carolina. Three states specifically target their statutes at same-sex relations only: Kansas, Kentucky, and Texas.

In 2003, the case of Lawrence v Texas saw a same-sex couple prosecuted for sodomy for having sex in private. In a landmark Supreme Court decision, prohibiting private same-sex activity between consenting adults was ruled unconstitutional.