What is a deal-breaker sexually with a woman?

[friskydawg]

I can’t see any of those crucial or even desired by me.
I can’t see the relationship failing by sex I expect multiple failures before impacting on sex which is exactly what the couple agreed.
I would want to have sex at least once for compatibility check.

I’m with you regarding a compatibility check. I have never understood and can’t grasp couples who don’t have sex before being getting married. It doesn’t make sense for a couple not to have at least a few runs around the track to see if there is compatibility sexually.

 

[Number 9]

No, not really. I’m a very go with the flow kinda person sexually. If one of us aren’t comfortable or “into” something I’m fine with that. I’m not looking to bend a woman to my will, well unless that is the fantasy she wants to experience.

On the other hand, I like to experience new things. The unexpected/unknown/loss of control can be a serious turn on so I enjoy new territory. I will say I’m not a fan of contracting hepatitis so….even though stimulating her ass is very enjoyable I’m never likely to do it by tongue.

 

[MASSIVEPKGO_CHUCK]

Prolonged kissing beyond foreplay usually gets the kibosh.
Then again, attention to hygiene and grooming on her part is a no-no as well; despite what a lot of people may think, shorn privates are 50/50 since a lot of them tend to prefer the bare skin, then again some like the follicles for a sign of maturity, tho the tuft of pussy hair with her scent is sometimes a plus.
Early and weak climaxes/cumshots really pulls the plug

 

[ifuckyourgfetc]

I just need a girl to be eager for cock and want to fuck and say what they like/want. If they can't do that, then why am I there right? Tell me you want my cum and where. Don't take a load in your mouth and spit it out like you didn't know it was coming. All you had to do was ask for it somewhere else. I hate when a girl sucks dick badly because she thinks she has to. Like anything in life, if you want to be good at something, then put in the effort. And if you don't like something say so... and then say what you DO like. This is part of why I like hotwife / couples / swingers. No girl ends up asking her BF/husband to share her if she doesn't want more dick. And a girl who wants more dick is my type.

And yeah, bad hygiene is nasty... in all people at all times. I don't like a lot of fragrance or makeup either, but you know... soap and water! haha

 

[ss7979]

I need tits and ass and a thin waist. Big tits or big ass but neither can be flat. Need to be healthy and cute or hot in the face.

needs to be DTF quick. I am not spending money to get to know a friend lol

 

[ifuckyourgfetc]

Prolonged kissing beyond foreplay usually gets the kibosh.
Then again, attention to hygiene and grooming on her part is a no-no as well; despite what a lot of people may think, shorn privates are 50/50 since a lot of them tend to prefer the bare skin, then again some like the follicles for a sign of maturity, tho the tuft of pussy hair with her scent is sometimes a plus.
Early and weak climaxes/cumshots really pulls the plug

Agree that too much hygiene is also a turn off. Smell of sex is a huge turn on for me. And razor bumps are nasty. Much rather have trimmed bush.

 

[deleted15723841]

For me it is when women have had too much to drink and get what I call lairy, a bit sleazy you know. It's not cool.

 

[1373263]

Poor hygiene- showering only goes so far. Re the hepatitis, a panel is usually a good idea if you are getting that serious.

 

[deleted817718]

Not giving blowjobs is a bit of a deal breaker for me especially the ones that want their pussy eaten, which i enjoy but its a two way street.

Not giving blowjobs is a bit of a deal breaker for me especially the ones that want their pussy eaten, which i enjoy but its a two way street.

Another one would be "daddy" stuff, its painfully annoying and just kills the vibe. Had this one 20yr old, smoking hot great in bed but she couldn't shut up with the daddy stuff and she'd do it in this annoying voice, only time she was quiet was when she was sucking cock

Not giving blowjobs definitely wasn’t a deal breaker for me. The last woman to tell me she doesn’t like giving blowjobs has been married to me for the last 10 years. She told me she hated doing them and I said I wouldn’t ask for them, just let her do them when she wanted to do it for me. Over a decade later and her mouth and my dick have never made contact

 

[Hungstraight]

it’s a tough question to answer, if a stunning 10/10 girl with a great body and an amazing personality came knocking, but wouldn’t give me a BJ, anal or whatever, it wouldn’t be a deal breaker.

On the other hand, an ‘average’ girl who didn’t swallow, do anal etc. would be less attractive to me as a long term partner.

It’s give and take to be honest, but in general, I wouldn’t choose a long term partner that didn’t swallow, wouldn’t let me cum on her face / butt / elsewhere on her body, wouldn’t do anal, or wouldn’t consider some light rough play.

 

[MilfBanger78]

I was chatting with and went on couple dates with a pretty hot chick and she said she doesnt give head. I didnt see the need to pursue it any further, thats a deal breaker. have talked to a few women like that. Not a chance with me.

I also am into threesomes from time to time. both with men or women, so they have to be open to the idea of that. Then I've had some women say they'd love to do a 3some with another man and myself, but would never allow another woman or couple. Thats a no-go with me... hit the bricks, toots.

Another would be if she doesnt like porn at all. I dont expect her to be a porn fiend like I am, but some women say they dont watch it all or its gross etc. Instant turn-off

 

[lapdog2001]

So are there any sexual acts that if the woman won't do it then it's a deal-breaker and you won't continue dating them? I'm thinking along the lines of swallowing, getting fucked in the ass, and rimming your ass. I'm sure there are more. And has a woman ever wanted you to do something that you won't do? I can't think of anything along those lines.

Like most of the replies above, consistently poor hygiene is definitely a turn-off and a deal breaker.

I've been fortunate in that the women I've been with enjoy foreplay, oral (both ways) and sex, of course. If I ever encountered a woman who just lay there, and did nothing, that would be disappointing, and probably a deal breaker. No sex, or infrequent sex would also be a problem at the start of a relationship. I don't mean sex on the 1st date, but zero interest in sex, even after dating for a while.

 

[deleted5700751]

i dont care if she swallows (its nice but no dealbreaker) but she should dfinitely give head. i love to give women head, and i really enjoy being fellated. if she doesnt want to then that's fine and that's entirely her perogative, but it means she's not for me.

 

[merc41]

I just need a girl to be eager for cock and want to fuck and say what they like/want. If they can't do that, then why am I there right? Tell me you want my cum and where. Don't take a load in your mouth and spit it out like you didn't know it was coming. All you had to do was ask for it somewhere else. I hate when a girl sucks dick badly because she thinks she has to. Like anything in life, if you want to be good at something, then put in the effort. And if you don't like something say so... and then say what you DO like. This is part of why I like hotwife / couples / swingers. No girl ends up asking her BF/husband to share her if she doesn't want more dick. And a girl who wants more dick is my type.

And yeah, bad hygiene is nasty... in all people at all times. I don't like a lot of fragrance or makeup either, but you know... soap and water! haha

AGREE 100 0/0. Enthusiasm and honesty

 

[notthatguy]

only 2 things are deal breakers with me.

1) anything to do with urine.
2) anything to do with shit.

 

[tobythecat]

I think like most guys answering here bad hygiene would def be a deal breaker.

If she don't swallow my load that's ok, if she don't do anal that's ok.

Plenty of other things we could do.

 

[deleted814719]

Poor personal hygiene and being overweight.

 

[ss7979]

I mean to be honest a woman who comes to bed with a “I won’t do this…” is a bad start. I get that some might be scared to do anal with me, but I won’t start there anyway. So for me it’s about attitude. I want a girl who is horny as fuck and begging to please me. Not some, “I do this but not that.”

 

[longstroke7]

Poor personal hygiene.

 

[8inchPole]

Ever since my ex swallowed, I only want that in a partner. She ruined it for everyone else:/