what is a girls reaction if you tell them you are a virgin & over 20yrs old

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  1. hot97

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    I am just cuirous as to what a girls reation would be if I told them I was a virgin:eek:
     
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    There's nothing wrong with that...so they'll be ok with it, I guess.
     
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    I reckon it would depend on the girl.

    Most of the girls I know would offer to help you work on that "problem". It's good to tell a girl if it's your first time having sex.
     
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    Based on your pics, I should think they would ask, "What are you waiting for?" and then offer to guide you through it.
     
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    That says a lot about the girls you know...
     
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    ... = your friends are sluts.
     
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    They are cool with it, my friends know and it's not like they are offering me some help. I don't need that either I think.
     
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    I don't know....

    I told my girlfriend that I was a virgin and at first she thought it was a line, then she said she thought it was hot and she was glad to be my first. I can't wait to fuck her in a week when we go to this hotel in dirty Jersey.

    I don't think the women I've told I was a virgin to thought it was that weird....they all wanted to have sex with me, regardless. I guess it just depends on if she is into you or not.
     
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    im 21 and a virgin. im waiting til marriage and ive never had anyone say anything negative about it!
     
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    I agreed to marry the last guy who told me that in person, actually. :biggrin1:
     
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    Good girl!But such a bad woman,I've seen your gallery!:eek:Are you trying to fatten him/us up for the kill?:smile:
     
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    Honestly I thought virgin till marriage thing got weeded out during the last couple of decades.
     
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    I thought it got weeded out in the 80s. Everybody was fucking then.
     
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    I can't say what a "girl's" reaction might be, but a WOMAN's reaction might be....

    "hey, little boy....want some candy?"

    :cool:

     
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    It was never really all that common. There was an extensive study released a year or two ago about sex before marriage. The statistics stretched back to the '50s, I believe, and about 70-75% of Americans have sex before getting married.
     
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    theres no reason to tell a girl that lol absolutely no reason at all very bad idea
     
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    I don't think you need to worry at all. From what I can tell, girls appreciate a guy that hasn't laid the whole town. And I'm sure whomever you find to take your virginity, that person will guide you willingly.
     
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    Isn't it commonly said though that many woman would be able to tell if a guy is a virgin? And if not, and if they're aren't "good", they may not get repeat encounters with the same woman anyway even if they lie.

    Well a guy can be experienced without having to be a manwhore. I do wonder though how many woman out there tend to avoid men who are virgins or inexperienced. I suppose you can't blame a person for "looking out for number 1," but I'm sure these guys greatly appreciate females who don't mind the whole virgin/inexperienced thing.
     
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    Less common now, innit? I think tho it's more upto the individual these days - ppl leave you to handle stuff the way you want to.

    Most girls i know would probably think it pretty sweet if they met a lad who was a virgin.

    Also, if it's your first time and you're really nervous you can last for ages anyway heheh
     
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    Why should you tell others that you are a virgin? If you are going to have sex with a girl it’s the best time to tell her that it’s your first time. She will help you. And if it’s her first time too it’s best if you take time and help each other. Talking about your feelings is very important.


    To the ones who want to stay virgin until their wedding I can only say that they forget the importance of knowing before you marry that you sexually can go on together. I’ve read in posts here, but also in private chats that a lot of men have a bad sex life. In my opinion it’s better to have some experience together before marrying.​
     
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