what is a girls reaction if you tell them you are a virgin & over 20yrs old

[AlteredEgo]

Good girl!But such a bad woman,I've seen your gallery!Are you trying to fatten him/us up for the kill?:smile:

LOL Those are my culinary school photos. You know, he did propose mere days after eating the first chocolate cake I made him from scratch. D'ya think it's connected?

I think some women would be disapointed to discover a man is a virgin, some intrigued, some excited, and some ambivalent. I think, Hot97, that you just have to be honest, observant, and do your best. I certainly would not encourage you to lie about your level of experience.

 

[Gl3nn]

... = your friends are sluts.

I was trying to be subtle, but...yeah. lol

 

[hard2swallow]

I was a virgin until my senior year of college thanks to a series of comedies of errors*. The girl was experienced but had no idea I was a virgin until I told her afterwards. I was ashamed of the fact and had been looking to fuck a girl since the age of about ten. So while I was ashamed, no one else really knew I was a virgin, or if they knew or suspected they never asked or commented about it.


*I can't explain but I'll sum up: I'm not fat or religious, and have had strangers tell me I look like a certain "hot" movie star. But I was molested for years, developed an atrocious illness in high school that led to ghastly treatment and surgery during college (but complete recovery afterwards and since), then fell in love with a girl with some form of painful sex syndrome which, coupled with my 8-9 inches, led to a semester of sleeping together with no intercourse. Life is sure fucking funny sometimes, ain't it?

 

[Archangelvega]

My girlfriend believed me until we had sex, she thought there was no way a virgin could do as well as I did. Actually before we did she tried to get me laid by other women so she wasn't my first.

 

[StraightKnob]

dunno? ill never have to be a 20 year old virgin

 

[pornographicpoet]

Personally....I think it depends on if it's a one night stand you're looking for (definitely not a good idea - I tried adultfriendfinder and mentioning it...no response other than from a gay guy who wanted to suck me off) but if it's in a relationship and she likes you I think she'll want to be your first. So depends on the context.

 

[hungcook]

well the reaction for me was damn you got some self control. but i was a late bloomer and didnt really fully care till 20 or so. but when I actually tr5ied it wasnt hard lol

 

[tigolbitties]

Must be gay...

 

[D_Hyacinth Harrytwat]

Lots of guys are still virgins into their 20s, so I wouldn't look at it as being weird. It's easy to lose your virginity, so I'd probably respect him a little more if he still had it that late into the game.

 

[morsecode]

Lots of guys are still virgins into their 20s, so I wouldn't look at it as being weird. It's easy to lose your virginity, so I'd probably respect him a little more if he still had it that late into the game.

nahhh..., really?

 

[D_Hyacinth Harrytwat]

nahhh..., really?

Unless you find yourself in a movie like "Superbad" :tongue:

 

[morsecode]

Unless you find yourself in a movie like "Superbad" :tongue:

I must be then, except it's not funny

 

[Hockeytiger]

I guess it would depend on your age. Being early twenties and a virgin not so big a deal really. Closing on 30 and being a virgin might give someone pause.

 

[D_Hyacinth Harrytwat]

I must be then, except it's not funny

Ah sorry, didn't realize you would rather not be a virgin. Really though, you must have good standards and/or morals if you've still got your V-Card.

 

[morsecode]

Ah sorry, didn't realize you would rather not be a virgin. Really though, you must have good standards and/or morals if you've still got your V-Card.

There is no need to apologize, it's not your fault, I was only kidding :redface:. It's just a combination of being extremely shy, not going out much, and not being in situations where interaction with women is involved. And of course, being ugly :biggrin1:.

P.S. :eck19:

in what situation can anyone use that thing??

 

[joel2061]

Yeah I shouldnt worry, with my ex I told her it was my first time, and she was really really kind about it. I was glad and sort of relieved.

Now the girl after that, when I told her I was a virgin, she was also really understanding, and let me spend the night over too.

Now the girl, last weekend, she was also really considerate too...