What is a Metrosexual?

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Dee, I understand what you are saying but to be fair . . . you're black, everyone knows most black people are born with exceptional taste in fashion. :tongue:

"Good God, I can't work that suit. All those buttons... would make me look Steve Harvey." (him and those g-d porcelain veneers) -- Stewie, "Family Guy"

LOL. Thanks, njqt.
 

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Yes, they are bisexual with a preference for men, but will date woman because of what society thinks is "correct"!


I'm more inclined to believe this particular view. i like to look good, but who am i looking good for? There's this saying "Women dress nice to impress other women." It's kind of the same with men. "guys dress nice to impress other guys" The guys who take notice typically are the gay guys who would be like "wow, he looks nice!" I'd be more inclined to say they're Bi-Sexual with a preference of men, but date women because it's the right thing to do.
 

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I'm more inclined to believe this particular view. i like to look good, but who am i looking good for? There's this saying "Women dress nice to impress other women." It's kind of the same with men. "guys dress nice to impress other guys" The guys who take notice typically are the gay guys who would be like "wow, he looks nice!" I'd be more inclined to say they're Bi-Sexual with a preference of men, but date women because it's the right thing to do.

What's the difference between a "Pretty Boy" and a "Metro?" Women, what's the allure of a "metrosexual" guy? Admit it, being outdressed everyday would get old to you. What if his walk is meaner than hers :laughing:

From a man's point of view, I take notice in all women. you don't have to be in your nicest jeans or skirt or whatever. You can be in sweatpants and a hoodie, if you've got a nice smile, and a nice booty, i'm going to introduce myself. And yea i've approached women successfully with my "whatever" boots on. They're like 10 years old, with more dirt and oil on them than an old engine.



SINCE we're on the fashion thing, what's the thing about Guy's shoes? I heard there's something you can tell about a guy by looking at his shoes...what exactly is that?
Women do not dress to impress other women!! TRUST ME on this one.
Sure you notice all women but who do you want to be seen with.
Tell me you view the pimply skank the same way you look at a hottie.
No one is saying that you can't get laid because you wear dirty boots.
I just hope you don't go to nice places with the shit kickers on.The neighborhood bar,ok.
Clean up well and go out just to see what happens. You will be noticed by both sexes. Their are some species that the male is very attractive.Peacocks, Cardinals,Lions and even fish.Nature made them this way to attract females.I do not dress for men TRUST ME but I don't dress for women either. I dress for me,because it makes a statment about me. Certain species show off their racks to attract females(much like LPSG members)and show strenght and masculinity. Females look for symetry in males.
 

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I Apologize in advance for the long reply.


Women do not dress to impress other women!! TRUST ME on this one.
Sure you notice all women but who do you want to be seen with.
Tell me you view the pimply skank the same way you look at a hottie.
No one is saying that you can't get laid because you wear dirty boots.

So...since you said "pimply skank" that makes me think you disregard a person because of their physical appearance. What in your opinion is a "hottie"??

I've dated some "hotties" as you put it and just about all ended up being dunces. It's like playing Madden. When putting together a person/player (in my case women) you only get so many points to put in any place(in my particular opinion). There's always a compromise for things. Having the best compromise is important to me.

There's also opposites too. Went on a date with this girl...not exactly pretty or sexy, but she had beautiful eyes. That's all she had going for her, though. I'm by NO means an expert, but I don't place HUGE emphasis on looks because, heck, you miss good women when you kick the ugly and average looking women to the curb. Combination is the most important to me.

Who cares what people think @ "who would you rather be seen with" The only thing i can't do is an incredibly large woman (300+lbs). I've tried it and though it's kinda entertaining, it's not sexually gratifying. Plus a girl that literally dwarfs her man in public (horizontally and vertically) is just weird.

Clean up well and go out just to see what happens. You will be noticed by both sexes.
I do. The only thing i need to do is freshen my shape up and put on some nice shoes and i'm "cleaned up" I dress business casual all the time LOL!

I do not dress for men TRUST ME but I don't dress for women either. I dress for me,because it makes a statment about me.
A statement to whom? the boogieman?? You're tyring to make a statement to general public, i.e. Men and Women. Question is for what? When i'm going to be somewhere glamorous i dress for success. Why? Because it's bad to stand out in a stuffy crowd. other than that it's pointless, i'm not going to see 97% of the people that see me "cleaned up" ever again. I have suits i wear for special occasions. I want to get to the point where i can wear a suit or a blazer/slack combination everyday LOL.

I want to wear stuff like that because i've always thought that particular style was cool. Not for anyone else, not to make an impression, but just because i like that look.

I feel as though if you don't take me as i am, you don't take me at all. Maybe that's just me.


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Please do not take my counterpoint as reproving good hygiene. Being Stinky is a NO NO! brush your teeth all the time. Brush/comb your hair. But don't spend 40 minutes picking an outfit/making sure your hair is "gelled" or combed right, making sure you've got plenty of lip gloss on just to go to the grocery store.
 

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I Apologize in advance for the long reply.




So...since you said "pimply skank" that makes me think you disregard a person because of their physical appearance. What in your opinion is a "hottie"??

I've dated some "hotties" as you put it and just about all ended up being dunces. It's like playing Madden. When putting together a person/player (in my case women) you only get so many points to put in any place(in my particular opinion). There's always a compromise for things. Having the best compromise is important to me.

There's also opposites too. Went on a date with this girl...not exactly pretty or sexy, but she had beautiful eyes. That's all she had going for her, though. I'm by NO means an expert, but I don't place HUGE emphasis on looks because, heck, you miss good women when you kick the ugly and average looking women to the curb. Combination is the most important to me.

Who cares what people think @ "who would you rather be seen with" The only thing i can't do is an incredibly large woman (300+lbs). I've tried it and though it's kinda entertaining, it's not sexually gratifying. Plus a girl that literally dwarfs her man in public (horizontally and vertically) is just weird.

I do. The only thing i need to do is freshen my shape up and put on some nice shoes and i'm "cleaned up" I dress business casual all the time LOL!

A statement to whom? the boogieman?? You're tyring to make a statement to general public, i.e. Men and Women. Question is for what? When i'm going to be somewhere glamorous i dress for success. Why? Because it's bad to stand out in a stuffy crowd. other than that it's pointless, i'm not going to see 97% of the people that see me "cleaned up" ever again. I have suits i wear for special occasions. I want to get to the point where i can wear a suit or a blazer/slack combination everyday LOL.

I want to wear stuff like that because i've always thought that particular style was cool. Not for anyone else, not to make an impression, but just because i like that look.

I feel as though if you don't take me as i am, you don't take me at all. Maybe that's just me.


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Please do not take my counterpoint as reproving good hygiene. Being Stinky is a NO NO! brush your teeth all the time. Brush/comb your hair. But don't spend 40 minutes picking an outfit/making sure your hair is "gelled" or combed right, making sure you've got plenty of lip gloss on just to go to the grocery store.
So in essence, your a metrosexual.:biggrin1::smile:I am not joking really!
Your edit describes a flaming homosexual.
 

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Metrosexuality comes naturally not thought about.Think Queer eye guys,then do the opposite.I know a few mans men that are metro and would never do the things other people think is metro.
 

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Metrosexuality comes naturally not thought about.Think Queer eye guys,then do the opposite.I know a few mans men that are metro and would never do the things other people think is metro.

ROFL

Like i said, I'm confused for "Gay" and "metro" quite a bit, but i'm not a pretty boy at all.

I grew up watching movies that showed the "good life" and that always intrigued me. I loved the stylish suits and nice cars. Miami Vice however...no! Hawaii 5-0?.......NO! :laughing:

I'd like to wear suits just because that always was something that looked great to me HAHA. Brushed teeth cause i HATE for someone to be in my face with stinky breath...SO annoying, so i try to treat people like i'd like ot be treated. Stinky is a No-No because running around smelling like a freshly cut onion burns my eyes, lol.