What is a slut?

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  1. galaxus

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    I hate that word. Its thrown around to easily

    If a women proclaims that she enjoys sex, she's a slut.

    If a women does something a lil freaky in bed, she's a slut.

    If she actively looks for love/a man/for sex rather than just wait for it/one, she's a slut.

    Can't we get rid of this word? (rhetorical question)
     
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    don't think much refer to women as a slut based on what you mentioned above.

    Women are usually known as sluts when they go around and is easy. If I can pass a girl I fucked last night to you and you fucked her the next day too, the girl is slut. So the word do exist, guys can be slut too. and I'm one of them.
     
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    what i really hate about the word is that so many idiot men assume all women should like the label. like calling me a dirty slut should turn me on. instant turn off.
     
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    Slut is a word that jealous, unhappy people who aren't getting any invented to call people who are secure, happy and getting some. :tongue:
     
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    In the provrbial addage, "Take a lemon and make lemonade". men are actually just as slutty as women, but take the word and use to your advantage. Sure im a slut and love it. I have fun, am retired, do as i please, when i please. All men like to use little endearments, thank you pet, hi slut, good girl, Men really dont know the art of diplomacy when it comes to expressing themselves. A relative a great big he man, lets his wife do his emails cause he cant express himself. So dont take to heart, too much of what a man says until you can get past, your own feelings of inferiority.

    Men are plain and simple, women very complex. So look at things from their perspective, walk in their shoes for just one day. For most women that will be enough. GOD gave them a mandate, go forth and multiply! its hard wired into their brains. So its like you trying to bale out the atlantic ocean with a thimble, sitting in a supertanker.. Aint never gone`to happen..

    Hope this helps you understand and go on in life.
     
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    A slut is a woman who will have sex with anybody...apart from you.:wink:
     
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    HaHa!!! That is so true. That is a term a man likes to call a woman that he knows is having sex with other men but just not him. HA! You hit the nail on the head with that one! :wink:
     
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    Guys can be sluts too, just no one ever calls them one
     
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    Yeah they can be, but the difference is they like to be called one. :cool:
     
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    I also find it odd that women use this term about other women.
     
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    See, this is something I tend to feel I'm alone in the world about.

    To start, I'm a super, bleeding heart, liberal. But I tend to feel sad when people have sex simply for fun, with someone they have no emotional connection to. I think sex is the greatest connection between 2 people, only 2nd to a mother and child. So when I see a slut, male or female, i tend to think that way.

    but in all honesty, it's not my life. I'm in no position to choose how someone else lives. and I'm not gonna hold it against a women I might fall in love with who might have use to be a slut.

    But I think I'm the only guy on here who WANTS to wait a few months before having sex, because my intention in a relationship is for the long run.

    so, everyone else is a slut except for me :p
     
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    Well, you are actually a minority. There are not alot of men out there like you. If there are alot of men like you then they do not express themselves. I just know that it seems many men find it a compliment to be called a slut, but when a woman is called a slut it is hardly a compliment.
     
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    A slut is a slit, just a little wider...
     
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    what's the difference between a slut and a bitch? A slut fucks everyone, a bitch fucks everyone but you. old joke but seemed appropriate.
     
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    A slut is somebody who has had more sex partners than you.

    A prude is somebody who has had fewer sex partners than you.

    Each time you have a new sex partner, you get to adjust who is in the sex and prude categories.
     
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    some girls go to the club every weekend...take home a guy once every month...thats 12 guys a year....imo that = slut
     
  20. TheRam

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    It's a woman who enjoys sex and loves having cock in her nasty pussy and she'll do it with any guy.
     
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