I'm flummoxed. It seems unobjectionable to premise that the conventional is boring -- almost by definition.
And if "alpha" is a code for conventional notions of manhood, then it seems to me that all the rest follows... all I'm sayin'...
Thing is, I really DON'T think that most people are as boring as the things they say. Too often, speaking goes on without anyone being present. I think that the chatter about alpha males is a good example of this. It's repeating a thousand and one Cosmo magazine stories... Isn't getting at the essence of the alpha male by pure subjective intuition a mechanism precisely for allowing culture to speak through you, to ventriloquize those thousand and one Cosmo articles?
In exactly this manner, I don't think that Chrys is necessarily boring at all. And for myself, I accept the charges of rude and insulting. And although I sincerely apologize for hurting anyone's feelings, I would still do it again simply because I think that what I said was very much worth saying.
As for Chrys's analysis of my rudeness -- in terms of cojones, feeling threatened, etc. -- I would refer you to the discussion on ventriloquizing Cosmo magazine, above. Heh.