I keep hearing people talk about communication. What does it mean? Has it become a platitudinous mantra of those who fear the isolation of being misunderstood?
First, it is not always a good thing. Many organisations use communication to tell you what they want you to hear. It is a one way street and I know people who also think that this is communication. It is not.
I also know people who use communication to control (as above). I can think of one guy I know who has been lead to buy into this communication abuse and his partner now effectively controls him completely through it. I stopped some time ago discussing anything with him, because he just goes back and discusses it with Hitlerina.
Is it just me, or can I expect people who know me to understand what I may think of something without having to disect everything verbally? People who know me, know what I think usually, and can understand many other forms of non verbal communication. If you need me to always communicate verbally, you don't know me, so what are we doing in this relationship. Maybe this is why I always detested the lead character in Sex in the City. Yabber yabber yabber self indulgent egocentric meaningless horse manure.
That is what this rant is about, you can commune without verbal communication, some of us prefer that some or more of the time. I feel that some bully others into their chosen and now expected method of communication.
Communication fascists. :biggrin1:
First, it is not always a good thing. Many organisations use communication to tell you what they want you to hear. It is a one way street and I know people who also think that this is communication. It is not.
I also know people who use communication to control (as above). I can think of one guy I know who has been lead to buy into this communication abuse and his partner now effectively controls him completely through it. I stopped some time ago discussing anything with him, because he just goes back and discusses it with Hitlerina.
Is it just me, or can I expect people who know me to understand what I may think of something without having to disect everything verbally? People who know me, know what I think usually, and can understand many other forms of non verbal communication. If you need me to always communicate verbally, you don't know me, so what are we doing in this relationship. Maybe this is why I always detested the lead character in Sex in the City. Yabber yabber yabber self indulgent egocentric meaningless horse manure.
That is what this rant is about, you can commune without verbal communication, some of us prefer that some or more of the time. I feel that some bully others into their chosen and now expected method of communication.
Communication fascists. :biggrin1: