Hi all, I'm having some girlfriend problems and thought I'd come here for advice. My ex-girlfriend and I dated for 3.5 years, and broke up earlier this year. For a couple weeks after we broke up we still hooked up and saw each other frequently. Then all of a sudden she became very very distant. It turns out she was dating someone else (and actually living with him) but didn't tell me. About 1.5 weeks ago she calls me crying saying she loves me and is leaving him for me. She comes over and we have sex for the first time in months and I thought we were more or less back together. I was willing to overlook the other guy temporarily to try and get our relationship back on track. We spent Friday and Saturday nights together and had a good time. Now all of a sudden she tells me "she needs to get over me" and that "she doesn't want to work on things right now." She's been struggling with her identity and I think she does need sometime to learn about herself and what makes her happy but she is so inconsistent with me it is incredibly painful. Also, her tendency to immediately jump to other guys (not just for hookups but for dating and relationships) makes it very hard to simply "give her time." Any thoughts here would be appreciated. I also know that I probably need to just let go but we had a great and very intense relationship so it's not that easy. She was my gf and my best friend. As related to LPSG, the night she came over last week the first thing she did was grab my cock and say god I missed your big dick. She played with it for hours before we had sex and just help saying over and over how she loved it big. I'm not huge (7.5" by 5.5") but that sure felt good to hear. Of course, it was nice to know that I was much larger than the other guy but certainly weird.