What is it that attracts you to a black man

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    I recently started going to gay clubs and I have noticed that the majority of men that come up to me are white and in regular clubs white women are always feeling me up and comparing me to black celebrites that i look nothing like


    This goes for both women and men I was just wonder what is it that people of another race find attractive about black men
     
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    Possibly the naive and uninitiated want to find out if you actually taste like chocolate. Throw them a curve by putting a couple of dashes of vanilla extract behind your years and then see what happens.

    Personally, as an old Gabacho, I've always lusted after Latinos and Blacks. It's just the way I'm wired. But I've never been motivated by size.
     
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    I think darker skin is in general just beautiful (much nicer texture than white skin).
     
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    Media brainwashing perhaps? Black men are often portrayed with white/Asian women but black women are rarely depicted with white/Asian men. Black men are heavily promoted.
     
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    I'm not only attracted to black guys, and never really gave skin colour much thought until I dated a black guy a few years ago. But I found the contrast in our skins so sexy, his big black hands cupping my white breasts for example... the thought of that still makes me tingle.
     
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    Chiaroscuro strikes again. Who knows... I like both. There is beauty in both ends of the spectrum and many places in between...
     
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    As a rule I am not attracted to Black men, but I have been very attracted to and had great sex with individual Black men. The hottest was a 19 year old very dark skinned guy who was 6'3, 220, 31 inch waist and 8.5" of cut manhood. I swallowed every ounce of his jizz happily!
     
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    I remember being called exotic in my youth. :smile: Nowadays, I am old...and exotic doesn't factor in there. Hehehe. I miss those days.

    And I am friggin' happy that a few young Mormon guys and a straight married dude all had man crushes on me. But reality is a bag of infinite damns. :mad: I haven't messed with any of them. I think that I am fine with that.

    I just want to be happy...I don't know if I want another relationship with another man or a woman for that matter. No hate on the sexes.

    I am really spiritually worn out. I really don't tolerate any abuse at all. So. That is where I am at-- that crossroad. And leaving peeps alone. :frown1:
     
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    I never liked anybody who was as light as I was so I only dated boys/men
    {back in the day} who were much darker than me.
    Consequently back then black men mostly wanted those who were very light skinned
    so it worked out great for me!
    I never saw nor understood the attraction to white guys then.
    I still hate blue eyes on white people.
    C.B.:saevil:
     
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    i'm never attracted to 'black men'.
    i'm never attracted to 'white men'
    sometimes however i'm attracted to 'men'
     
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    I had some interesting high school experiences.
    I had much success at being hated by dark and light skinned black women.
    And I didn't even disrespect them or anything.
    I also had much success at not being liked by white kids, too.
    Sad.
    I never disrespected them either.

    Lesson learned that people don't give respect.
    Not to me. Not to anyone. Not even Rodney Dangerfield.





     
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    **whimper,,,sniffle**:frown1:
     
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    For now, I will watch porn. :smile:
     
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    I like blue eyed dudes. :frown1: I just don't have the pussy...

    :damnit1:

    :tragedy::crying:
     
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    I'm not attracted to "black people" per se'. I'm attracted to handsome and beautiful people with attractive personalities. They can be any race. I have seen extremely attractive people of all races. Probably one of the most beautiful girls that I dated in high school was a girl of African American heritage.

    To the OP, unless those people that you speak of had a fetish for dark skinned men, maybe you're just very attractive and they saw that?



    40% of me doesn't mind :wink: :wank:
     
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    Ooh, now that's 2 offers I certanly wouldn't refuse :biggrin1:
    I'm all better now :smile:
     
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    I think all men of all different races can be sexy. I don't just align myself with one race. What's the fun with that ?
     
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