What is it that attracts you to a black man

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I recently started going to gay clubs and I have noticed that the majority of men that come up to me are white and in regular clubs white women are always feeling me up and comparing me to black celebrites that i look nothing like


This goes for both women and men I was just wonder what is it that people of another race find attractive about black men
 

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Possibly the naive and uninitiated want to find out if you actually taste like chocolate. Throw them a curve by putting a couple of dashes of vanilla extract behind your years and then see what happens.

Personally, as an old Gabacho, I've always lusted after Latinos and Blacks. It's just the way I'm wired. But I've never been motivated by size.
 

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Media brainwashing perhaps? Black men are often portrayed with white/Asian women but black women are rarely depicted with white/Asian men. Black men are heavily promoted.
 

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I'm not only attracted to black guys, and never really gave skin colour much thought until I dated a black guy a few years ago. But I found the contrast in our skins so sexy, his big black hands cupping my white breasts for example... the thought of that still makes me tingle.
 

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As a rule I am not attracted to Black men, but I have been very attracted to and had great sex with individual Black men. The hottest was a 19 year old very dark skinned guy who was 6'3, 220, 31 inch waist and 8.5" of cut manhood. I swallowed every ounce of his jizz happily!
 

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Chiaroscuro strikes again. Who knows... I like both. There is beauty in both ends of the spectrum and many places in between...


I remember being called exotic in my youth. :smile: Nowadays, I am old...and exotic doesn't factor in there. Hehehe. I miss those days.

And I am friggin' happy that a few young Mormon guys and a straight married dude all had man crushes on me. But reality is a bag of infinite damns. :mad: I haven't messed with any of them. I think that I am fine with that.

I just want to be happy...I don't know if I want another relationship with another man or a woman for that matter. No hate on the sexes.

I am really spiritually worn out. I really don't tolerate any abuse at all. So. That is where I am at-- that crossroad. And leaving peeps alone. :frown1:
 

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I never liked anybody who was as light as I was so I only dated boys/men
{back in the day} who were much darker than me.
Consequently back then black men mostly wanted those who were very light skinned
so it worked out great for me!
I never saw nor understood the attraction to white guys then.
I still hate blue eyes on white people.
C.B.:saevil:
 

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I never liked anybody who was as light as I was so I only dated boys/men
{back in the day} who were much darker than me.
Consequently back then black men mostly wanted those who were very light skinned
so it worked out great for me!
I never saw nor understood the attraction to white guys then.
I still hate blue eyes on white people.
C.B.:saevil:


I had some interesting high school experiences.
I had much success at being hated by dark and light skinned black women.
And I didn't even disrespect them or anything.
I also had much success at not being liked by white kids, too.
Sad.
I never disrespected them either.

Lesson learned that people don't give respect.
Not to me. Not to anyone. Not even Rodney Dangerfield.





 

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I never liked anybody who was as light as I was so I only dated boys/men
{back in the day} who were much darker than me.
Consequently back then black men mostly wanted those who were very light skinned
so it worked out great for me!
I never saw nor understood the attraction to white guys then.
I still hate blue eyes on white people.
C.B.:saevil:

*cry*:eek:uch:
 

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I never liked anybody who was as light as I was so I only dated boys/men
{back in the day} who were much darker than me.
Consequently back then black men mostly wanted those who were very light skinned
so it worked out great for me!
I never saw nor understood the attraction to white guys then.
I still hate blue eyes on white people.
C.B.:saevil:

**whimper,,,sniffle**:frown1:
 

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I'm not attracted to "black people" per se'. I'm attracted to handsome and beautiful people with attractive personalities. They can be any race. I have seen extremely attractive people of all races. Probably one of the most beautiful girls that I dated in high school was a girl of African American heritage.

To the OP, unless those people that you speak of had a fetish for dark skinned men, maybe you're just very attractive and they saw that?



I like blue eyed dudes. :frown1: I just don't have the pussy...

:damnit1:

:tragedy::crying:

40% of me doesn't mind :wink: :wank:
 

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I had some interesting high school experiences.
I had much success at being hated by dark and light skinned black women.
And I didn't even disrespect them or anything.
I also had much success at not being liked by white kids, too.
Sad.
I never disrespected them either.

Lesson learned that people don't give respect.
Not to me. Not to anyone. Not even Rodney Dangerfield.

I am so sorry for those awful experiences Invisi.
I also went through damn near the same thing in later years
as you did. Those women were simply snobby stupid
bimbo's who probably have six kids a piece
and are terribly unhappy now. I hope!:biggrin1:

OCMuscleJock Re: What is it that attracts you to a black man
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Originally Posted by cigarbabe
I never liked anybody who was as light as I was so I only dated boys/men
{back in the day} who were much darker than me.
Consequently back then black men mostly wanted those who were very light skinned
so it worked out great for me!
I never saw nor understood the attraction to white guys then.
I still hate blue eyes on white people.
C.B.:saevil:


*cry*:eek:uch:

Countryguy63 Re: What is it that attracts you to a black man
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Originally Posted by cigarbabe
I never liked anybody who was as light as I was so I only dated boys/men
{back in the day} who were much darker than me.
Consequently back then black men mostly wanted those who were very light skinned
so it worked out great for me!
I never saw nor understood the attraction to white guys then.
I still hate blue eyes on white people.
C.B.:saevil:


**whimper,,,sniffle**:frown1:

Aww you guys. You're making me feel bad.:worried: :17:
I happen to know that you two OC MuscleJock and
Countryguy63 have the most spectacular blue eyes ever seen to grace the pages of LPSG!:yup:
If you were inclined to have me I wouldn't turn
either of you down! :no: :smlove2: :bj:
That being said can I interest you two in having a "go" with my husband?:yumyum::3some:
He looooves blue eyed men!
Sorry guys!

C.B.:saevil:
 
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Aww you guys. You're making me feel bad.:worried: :17:
I happen to know that you two OC MuscleJock and
Countryguy63 have the most spectacular blue eyes ever seen to grace the pages of LPSG!:yup:
If you were inclined to have me I wouldn't turn
either of you down! :no: :smlove2: :bj:
That being said can I interest you two in having a "go" with my husband?:yumyum::3some:
He looooves blue eyed men!
Sorry guys!
C.B.:saevil:

Ooh, now that's 2 offers I certanly wouldn't refuse :biggrin1:
I'm all better now :smile:
 

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I had some interesting high school experiences.
I had much success at being hated by dark and light skinned black women.
And I didn't even disrespect them or anything.
I also had much success at not being liked by white kids, too.
Sad.
I never disrespected them either.

Lesson learned that people don't give respect.
Not to me. Not to anyone. Not even Rodney Dangerfield.

I am so sorry for those awful experiences Invisi.
I also went through damn near the same thing in later years
as you did. Those women were simply snobby stupid
bimbo's who probably have six kids a piece
and are terribly unhappy now. I hope!:biggrin1:


You have psychic powers, gurlfriend.

Those women did get knocked up. One of those women REALLY hated me in high school. SHE HAS SIX KIDS!!!:eek: SIX KIDS and revolving door boyfriends.