What is it that attracts you to a black man

[OCMuscleJock]

I had some interesting high school experiences.
I had much success at being hated by dark and light skinned black women.
And I didn't even disrespect them or anything.
I also had much success at not being liked by white kids, too.
Sad.
I never disrespected them either.

Lesson learned that people don't give respect.
Not to me. Not to anyone. Not even Rodney Dangerfield.

I am so sorry for those awful experiences Invisi.
I also went through damn near the same thing in later years
as you did. Those women were simply snobby stupid
bimbo's who probably have six kids a piece
and are terribly unhappy now. I hope!:biggrin1:

OCMuscleJock Re: What is it that attracts you to a black man
Quote:
Originally Posted by cigarbabe
I never liked anybody who was as light as I was so I only dated boys/men
{back in the day} who were much darker than me.
Consequently back then black men mostly wanted those who were very light skinned
so it worked out great for me!
I never saw nor understood the attraction to white guys then.
I still hate blue eyes on white people.
C.B.:saevil:

*cry*uch:

Countryguy63 Re: What is it that attracts you to a black man
Quote:
Originally Posted by cigarbabe
I never liked anybody who was as light as I was so I only dated boys/men
{back in the day} who were much darker than me.
Consequently back then black men mostly wanted those who were very light skinned
so it worked out great for me!
I never saw nor understood the attraction to white guys then.
I still hate blue eyes on white people.
C.B.:saevil:

**whimper,,,sniffle**:frown1:

Aww you guys. You're making me feel bad. :17:
I happen to know that you two OC MuscleJock and
Countryguy63 have the most spectacular blue eyes ever seen to grace the pages of LPSG!:yup:
If you were inclined to have me I wouldn't turn
either of you down! :no: :smlove2: :bj:
That being said can I interest you two in having a "go" with my husband?yum::3some:
He looooves blue eyed men!
Sorry guys!
C.B.:saevil:

HAHAHA *blush* well thank ya' .... and to offer up yourself and your husband too ....now thats just gravy!

 

[B_dxjnorto]

Good skin is always attractive. I think white skin can be damaged more easily. All the old white guys with the big dark freckles and white spots where they take them off, and skin grafts. Like spotted dogs. I should take much better care of my skin.

 

[Principessa]

I recently started going to gay clubs and I have noticed that the majority of men that come up to me are white and in regular clubs white women are always feeling me up and comparing me to black celebrites that i look nothing like

This goes for both women and men I was just wonder what is it that people of another race find attractive about black men

Your secret is out! The cum of black men tastes like chocolate milk; and everybody loves chocolate milk. :biggrin1: :tongue: :kidding: Seriously, some people are just fascinated by the difference in culture as well as the contrast in skin color. I have never been attracted to a white man just because he was white.

LOL I have had white people call me exotic and once had a sales clerk at B. Altman in NYC ask me what country I was from. I looked at her like she was nuts and said 'Jersey.' Then corrected myself and said, 'New Jersey.' I didn't want her to think I was from the Isle of Jersey. :tongue: It's not like I was wearing a dashiki made of kente cloth either. I had just come from a job interview and was wearing a basic navy blue suit.

 

[D_CountdeGrandePinja]

grew up in Bed-Stuy, Brooklyn, NY - friends were all black and the attraction has remained - in fact, first JO opportunity was with then best friend - Robert - thanks for the memory of my youth.

 

[B_dxjnorto]

Mixed race is exotic. I'm from a generation when you automatically would try to size people up by race. I noticed I can't do that so much anymore. Things are changing fast. In another generation or two I'm hoping race will be a non-issue because you won't automatically be able to decide or assign what "race" a person is.

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

I love Black men because they know not to put their hands in my hair.
Even though naturally curly with no weave, there's just a cultural thing about hands in hair - unless I love him.

LOL I have had white people call me exotic and once had a sales clerk at B. Altman in NYC ask me what country I was from. I looked at her like she was nuts and said 'Jersey.'

If I recall your face shape, cheek bones and bit of a red undertone correctly, I would definitely say you could be be Bajan, Panamanian, or West Indian.

 

[Joseph]

I feel ashamed, but I do feel attracted to black guys, but overall those with darker skin get my attention.

 

[dolfette]

why ashamed?
i see it no differently to being attracted to blonde hair, slim waists or green eyes.

 

[Principessa]

I love Black men because they know not to put their hands in my hair. Even though naturally curly with no weave, there's just a cultural thing about hands in hair - unless I love him..

That doesn't bother me too much. They just have to understand that if we are going out afterwards I may need an hour to re-do my hair. That or get used to seeing me in a baseball hat. :tongue:

If I recall your face shape, cheek bones and bit of a red undertone correctly, I would definitely say you could be be Bajan, Panamanian, or West Indian.[/QUOTE] Really most people mistake me for Jewish or German? I kid, sort of. I have twice been asked if I was German in my life and the people were dead serious. Nope, believe it or not after a fair bit of research we found that we are American black (descendant of African slaves), Cherokee Indian (South Carolina branch) and Irish (County Kilkenny). Thanks for the compliment though! Bajan women are beautiful and Panamanian men tend to be pretty hot as well.

 

[B_dxjnorto]

I have twice been asked if I was German in my life and the people were dead serious. Nope, believe it or not after a fair bit of research we found that we are American black (descendant of African slaves), Cherokee Indian (South Carolina branch) and Irish (County Kilkenny). Thanks for the compliment though! Bajan women are beautiful and Panamanian men tend to be pretty hot as well.

This is another handy aspect of being multiracial/multicultural. You could be from anywhere. Kind of weird that we still want to make the assignation in our minds even though we are way off.

 

[Principessa]

This is another handy aspect of being multiracial/multicultural. You could be from anywhere. Kind of weird that we still want to make the assignation in our minds even though we are way off.

I always thought I looked sort of generically black American. :smile: I don't have any particularly striking features that would remind one of a specific country. Though I have been told that my nose and reddish skin undertones are indicative of my Native American heritage. When I was a child my mom teased me about having "thin, white people lips." And she wonders why I'm in therapy. :tongue:

FWIW: I have nothing against Germany or it's people. I love the food and riesling wines. Also, I dated a German guy briefly when I lived in Massachusetts.

 

[OCMuscleJock]

I always thought I looked sort of generically black American. :smile: I don't have any particularly striking features that would remind one of a specific country. Though I have been told that my nose and reddish skin undertones are indicative of my Native American heritage. When I was a child my mom teased me about having "thin, white people lips." And she wonders why I'm in therapy. :tongue:

FWIW: I have nothing against Germany or it's people. I love the food and riesling wines. Also, I dated a German guy briefly when I lived in Massachusetts.

hmmm maybe we're related... I'm German/Cherokee ... weird mix huh? Both sides of my family German with Cherokee ...so much that Grandmother on my moms side...well her dad was Chief of their tribe. I still have no clue to this day how she and my grandfather, who was a German figher piolet, met. They're both dead now..and when my mom was born, she was sent to live with a cousin who adopted her to raise her. Mom was 2.5 lbs when she was born and my grandmother was very ill and couldn't take care of her. So she was raised away from her brother and 10 other sisters ...and never asked when she got older. *rambling*

 

[Joseph]

why ashamed?
i see it no differently to being attracted to blonde hair, slim waists or green eyes.

Thanks, but since it's skin color, it makes me feel like a racist, I'm always so worried...

 

[dolfette]

Thanks, but since it's skin color, it makes me feel like a racist, I'm always so worried...

pc paranoia.

as long as you respect all as equal.

a straight man isn't sexist for only finding women attractive.

 

[invisibleman]

hmmm maybe we're related... I'm German/Cherokee ... weird mix huh? Both sides of my family German with Cherokee ...so much that Grandmother on my moms side...well her dad was Chief of their tribe. I still have no clue to this day how she and my grandfather, who was a German figher piolet, met. They're both dead now..and when my mom was born, she was sent to live with a cousin who adopted her to raise her. Mom was 2.5 lbs when she was born and my grandmother was very ill and couldn't take care of her. So she was raised away from her brother and 10 other sisters ...and never asked when she got older. *rambling*

I am in one of those Native American tribes that don't get any government reparations or casino munny. I am part Carolinian Siouan--Saxapahaw (related to the Sioux Indians). And you can see a lot of Native American influence in my family.

 

[Symphonic]

I'm black. I get no womenz. Something's wrong with your deductions.

 

[dolfette]

I'm black. I get no womenz. Something's wrong with your deductions.

yeah but you're a pissy bastard :smile:

 

[Symphonic]

yeah but you're a pissy bastard :smile:

Only on the internet... Then again that might be my problem to begin with. I hear women like jerks.

 

[B_dxjnorto]

"thin, white people lips."

Mostly true though. (Incessant ribbing of "Frank Burns" on M*A*S*H). I love full soft lips. It's amazing how much that one facial feature can vary.

 

[Rikter8]

For me:
1. Clear beautiful Skin usually
2. Nice butts & bodies
3. Change of pace from the "normal scene"

Plus...It's probably an infatuation for the women to see if the "old Rumor is true".

I've fiddled with lots of black guys - and Can tell you that size does not always reside to one race!