What is it that makes us want to touch ourselves?

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  1. sgtrock

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    Obviously it feels good and I think I can understand why but when does start and why? Looking back I think I may have actually started getting somewhat stimulated by touch and by thought as an eight year old maybe ten. I remember the gambit of images that could cause a stir were varied from the SEARS catalog to those old playboys that we used to find that Dad had hidden in the house. It was also simpler than that too. I remember getting pretty turned on by a girl in cutoff jeans with long hair, innocent yet so damn erotic. Could it have been the times? The later sixties early seventies or the repressed sexual atmosphere growing up Catholic in an Italian American family, Catholic school, being an altar boy, talk about guilt. Yes everyone has heard about how quilt trips are imposed by Jewish parents notably their mothers on their kids well I would have to say Italian mothers can be equally as bad. They use shame, fear, the church, family, the neighbors it is all there to make you feel so bad about what ever indiscretion you purportedly done. Try getting caught masturbating, if lightening didn’t kill you, your dad or God would, add to this Dad would tell you that your dick would fall off if you kept playing with it.

    Some how with all this you still grew to enjoy touching yourself and playing with yourself until you shot your hot white globule in the toilet on your bed sheets, in your hands or across your belly and groin. Even though I was taught by the priest that I could go blind or by Dad that it would fall off it’s still here and I have good vision too.

    If I had to describe it to someone who has never done it what would I say? As an adult it is different a little bit more complicated than when I was a pre-teen or adolescent. No longer will a SEARS’s catalog (they no longer send them out anyway) cut it or even get me excited and although the Victoria Secrets catalog is hot it just doesn’t cut it anymore. Those innocent movies we used to see as kids in the drive-in with our girlfriends hoping it would help us get in her pants just don’t have the same impact today. Porn really isn’t what it used to be either. I get turned on it seems by different stimulus today. After I work out I am so fucking horny most of the time it is all I can do to get home to get off without becoming noticeably aroused. Having been clean-shaven all over since I was a competitive swimmer I get a lot of stares in the sauna or steam room in the gym and although I am not a homosexual it is a turn-on to know they are checking me out. Instead of porn I like to use sites like LPSG and Cam4 for sexual stimulus and I love to pull myself off to an audience. With LPSG you get more regular viewers who you might get off for more often since it appears there is a smaller audience but on Cam4 you don’t get cut off just because you’re a FREE member.

    I get excited too at the beach sometime after lying out in the sun and rinsing off with the public shower ridding my body and suit of unwanted sand and oil. When I catch someone looking no matter what their sex I get excited and love to tease and flash them more and more until I know their watching my every move. In my own backyard I can layout a natural and do so often sitting in the Jacuzzi or just getting some sun. Nothing is more exciting than knowing a nosey neighbor or yard man or pool guy is checking me out.

    I love to touching myself and my smooth skin with no unwanted hair watching as the blood fills my shaft and it begins to grow and bob up and down with anticipation or rubbing the head of my swollen cock either with hot suntan oil or the first droplets of pre-cum until it is shinny and sensitive to my touch then I love to pull down and up on my cock. Standing or on my knees playing and touching my self and my cock until the excitement takes over and I cross the threshold of excitement, sliding in and out of my hand simulating fucking or rubbing against my hand or a pillow until I can feel it building. Then before I know it the cum shoots out in rapid-fire spurts either in my hand or across my body or on the floor or ground (yes I love to jack-off outside too).

    So again I don’t know how I would explain it to someone who doesn’t do it or never has and maybe it would be better to demonstrate instead.

    In closing though I would like to know when do most women consciously remember being their first time and what was it that could cause them so much excitement that they succumb to playing with their wet pussies. If they still do it why and how often do they?

    Now I admit to having a very active sex life, having sex several times in a week and currently I am seeing two different women each has a different relationship with me too. One is single and one is separated pending a divorce. One is closer to my age the other is in her late twenties. I love sex with someone or by myself.

    What is it and why do we masturbate I don’t know how to answer it but it feels so damn good…

    :rolleyes:
     
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    Pleasant read - thank you for sharing. :)

    From what I'm told I've always been a sensual being. When I was a child I had a blanket I would lug around with me everywhere. I would fold up the corners of my blanket into a fine tip that I would then lightly run on my lips, cheeks, neck, the insides of my wrists, elbows, arms and thighs. Again I was really young - 2 years old. When my mother first told me this I couldn't believe it. I was in my mid-twenties at the time, and I was actually having a conversation with her about my insatiable sexual hunger and how I was beginning to wonder if maybe I was a sex addict. She started laughing and proceeded to recounting the story. I'd been doing this for as long as I could remember and never thought anything of it, I just had no clue it had been going on for THAT long. The only motivation for that gesture was physical pleasure... at the age of 2!!

    I also started playing with myself (almost innately) at a very young age, around 7 years old. I can't recall anything particular bringing this on except for the discovery of my clitoris! :151:
    From that moment on, save for a 3 year period in my life where I purposefully did not orgasm or engage in anything sexual (not even thought), I have played with myself on a daily basis - often numerous times a day.

    Interestingly enough, my turn-ons haven't changed much over the years. Granted they've evolved to more complex places, but the roots remain the same.
     
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    I've never gotten turned on touching myself because I know it's me doing the touching so that doesn't turn me on, I've always thought this made me weird. I need a man's touch to even get that little man in the boat throbbing LOL!!!
     
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    I like to touch myself.
    I like to be touched by others.
    I like for my mind to wander when I am being touched..
     
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    wow, and here I thought I was the only one who beat it as a kid to the Sears catalog (bra section)...

    I think generally people are more or less sensuous. How is it some people can subsist on nasty fast food burgers while others crave and seek out the most tender filet? No different than some people who get by on passable sex once or twice a week just to take off the edge while others are constantly seeking out the height of pleasure whether by their own hand or from others.

    I think it's a matter of being more in touch with the senses. I love food, music, sex, nature... all those things that reward those who take the time and effort to appreciate it and savor it. Appreciation of the human body... it's form and function... falls into that as well. From a rather young age I was literally in touch with my body - exploring it and finding those places that 'felt good'. Everthing from the inner thigh to the small of the back to the more typical places which I eventually found and proceeded to rub raw throughout my youth.

    yes, I still run across people who don't masturbate but by and large it isn't a sexual frigidity but a sensual one. it's about not being afraid to be fulfilled by the senses...
     
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    you horny little buggars... beating it to the bra section (hahhahahhaha)

    I Love it~~~
     
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    I sometimes "adjust" when I'm in public and constantly tug on it when I'm at home. It's a habit I don't even notice anymore (my wife doesn't mind either).

    Probably the only thing that sucks in a clothing optional resort is the fact that it's second nature for me to tug when I'm naked... and I can't!
     
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