[quote author=Phoenix911 link=board=meetgreet;num=1082845666;start=0#13 date=04/25/04 at 22:36:12]Well that's the thing, you see she always says I'm big for her, and now I'm starting to think she says it too much, especially because I very often slip out of her while we're having sex, and we can't really even do it in some positions, even with her on top it very often slips out, and that can be frustrating as heck. So is it possible I'm actually small, or am I average? do guys with really large cocks have problems of slipping out during sex? [/quote]
It's impossible to know from the outside what the dynamics are in your relationship. But for what it's worth, my theory would be exactly the reverse of Horsehung's.
Penis size is typically a male preoccupation, and I suspect your partner knows you are concerned about your size and she wants you to feel good. Why not just accept the compliments she pays you, and throw away the ruler? And the tape.
For what it is worth, big guys do not in my experience slip out easily -- or at all -- during sex. But just a quick skim through the posts here will show that we have our own frustrations and can make difficult sex partners.
Good luck.