Originally posted by LeahCat@Dec 30 2004, 02:10 PM
thefrench_h, my father was a plumber so i got used to being around all manner of pipe fittings and tubings which, for all those who've been into a hardware store would know, come in assorted lengths and diameters. Saw and handled enough of those things as a kid to have worked up a very good estimate ability LOL .
I agree Zora. When you've got two rare breeds that compliment one another it does seem silly not to put them together. Still, Im doing my bit for the cause
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Hello Leah,-It was interesting to read your response to Hugelyhung's comments on penis size. When you stated that you had a very large vagina, and that you preferred a very long and thick penis, you automatically removed yourself from almost every man's list of women that he'd like to take to bed. I admire your honesty. For many women, admitting that they had a large vagina would be akin to admitting that they suffered from one of the "social" diseases. I can identify with you. Like you, I am also 5ft. 4in. In addition, I am somewhat slender. I joined this site because I hoped that I could meet at least woman who was also having to deal with a penis that was beyond the huge category. I guess Hugelyhung (I love that name) would call 12+ the Gigantic Category. I was rewarded with messages from several women who faced similar situations. However, as soon as I mentioned in one of my posts that the head of my bf's penis was beside his kneecaps (granted he's only 5ft. 6in.) I received one message after another from men wanting to know his dimensions when hard, and wanting me to send them a picture. I did e-mail a photo to 2 of the women, but not to the men, who were obviously interested in the penis, but not the person to whom it was attached,-- a situation my boyfriend has had to contend with throughout his long life. Some of the writers scoffed at his size, and were quite nasty in their comments to me. Not being a person to take insults lying down (no pun intended), I'll digress for a moment here before I write what I intended to write about vagina and penis size. One of my girlfriends (I'm 41. She's 40) is a medical doctor who spends more time involved in anthropology. When I told her about my bf's size, and about the record size that I had come across in my reading, she said that he's hardly got the world's record, far far from it, even though some sex manuals would have me believe otherwise. In her words, when you see the listing of a world's record, you take it with a grain of salt. She said that there are extreme cases of every physical abnormality that you can think of that may not be listed in any record book. So-called "records" are often the findings of one researcher, or one research group. With 6 billion people on this earth, far more abnormalities go unrecognized and unrecorded,-than recorded. When I mentioned that one journal listed the largest erect penis being 14 in. she just shook her head. She told me of a colleague of hers who had attended the autopsy of a young man in North Africa. His penis was " over a foot long and almost 12 in. around". This same doctor showed her photos of 2 African tribesmen who, through mechanical means, had stretched their penises to almost 24 in. Leah, it would appear that you're having a little more difficulty with width as oppposed to length. With me, the limiting factor so far has been length. I've progressed from 9 in. to close to 11 in about 7 months. I realize that it will be almost impossible to take all of it, but it won't be for lack of trying. I'm not sure that taking a few more inches will give me any more orgasms, or more intense ones, but although my bf has never mentioned it, I know it would make him happy. Leah, when a penis goes past the 11 in. mark, as happened to you, it almost certainly went under the cervix. I pick my gyno's brain every chance I get. Much of what she has told me has merely confirmed much of what my bf has said,-knowledge gathered from a lifetime of experience. I'm also on the internet in my spare moments. For a very very small number of women, the cervix does not represent the end of the vagina. First of all, in moments of extreme arousal, the uterus and cervix tend to recede upward to allow the penis extra room. This happens more in some women, less in others. For a vagina like mine, which I found out is very deep from top to bottom (as opposed to end to end) a penis, even an extremely thick one like my bf's, which is 10 in. around, is able to pass under the cervix into a deeper area known as the posterior fornix. My gyno can insert her whole hand with little resistance,-and her hands are large for a woman. When she commented that my vagina was unusually spacious, I said,"You mean cavernous". She just smiled. I realize now that my blah sex life during my 17 married years was probably partly my fault. No wonder I experienced very little friction from my husband's penis, which was quite a bit larger than average. For some women, the vagina is shallow because it runs in a more horizontal plane, and ends of course where the bowel is in front of the base of the spinal column, the coccyx. But for other women, the vagina runs on a more vertical plane, certainly not parallel to the spinal column, but that idea. Check an anatomy chart and it's easy to see that beyond the end of such a vagina there is only soft tissue until you reach the clavicle and upper ribs. So IF an extremely long penis was able to pass under the cervix, and IF the vaginal walls were ultra elastic, ditto for the ligaments holding the internal organs in place, in theory this penis could end up pressing into the diaphragm up in the chest cavity. The natural reaction is to say that the chances of that happening are non-existent. And of course it's almost certain that something would tear. However, I did read of a woman, apparently normal size, who was able to insert a dildo almost 17 in. Scary. My gyno reminded me that I can allow my bf to penetrate deeper and deeper as long as there are no sudden sharp pains. So far I have felt none. Perhaps it's been the same for you as well Leah. Alexia