What is Normal during sex

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  1. Jayb1989

    Jayb1989 New Member

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    is it normal to have a guy cum inside u when ur having sex with him becase i am unsure whether or not to let him do it because i'm afarid i get an STD although he's clean?? :shrug:
     
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    if he is infact clean there is no chance of you getting a std BUT! you should NEVER EVER let a guy who you are just fooling around have unprotected sex, the only time it would ever be OK is if you are in a monogomus relationship with a man you trust and you KNOW is clean (and if you know you are clean yourself)
     
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    If you are unsure, well, thats what condoms are for. As Child of the Sun pointed out, you should only have unprotected sex with someone who you are 100% certain is clean, and you are 100% certain you are clean, and only when you are in a monogomous relationship with this person.

    Unprotected sex with somebody you havent been to the family planning clinec and gotten tested with is why STDs are spreading like wildfire.
     
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    It is important to point out that it doesn't matter if he cums in you or not, use condoms!

    LapDog :p
     
  5. DC_DEEP

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    Unless you are in a committed, long-term, exclusive relationship, have been for at least a year, and have been tested TOGETHER every 3 months for that full year, NO BAREBACKING at all, period. Don't let a casual sex partner cum inside you, don't let him stick his cock inside you, don't let him even put the head against your hole, without a condom.
     
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    and the verdict on unprotected BJs?
     
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    That's a matter of taste.
     
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    I agree with you 100% on that one... Just because he doesn't cum inside you doesn't mean you're not getting it inside you at all... It's called precum... You're a guy, you know about that... I got pregnant from precum, and if I can get pregnant from precum, you can definitely get an STD from it...




    That's a matter of taste.
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    Lapdog, I always seem to enjoy your puns...

    But seriously... while a condom for a bj would taste like rubber for a chick, it would protect you from getting an STD from her mouth (or, look into the flavored ones)... But at the same time, condoms are generally not used for oral sex... And, like lapdog said it's all a matter of taste...
     
  9. DC_DEEP

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    I mistrust the current "statistics" on STDs from oral sex. It only takes a tiny abrasion to provide inroads for HIV, and not even an abrasion for many of the others. Eating a tortilla chip or even brushing or flossing your teeth causes abrasions that you may not even notice - but trust me, they are there. While saliva does contain some tiny amounts of antibacterial agents, they are ineffective against STD organisms. You really don't want to take that chance, do you? I say the same rules apply for blowjobs that apply for anal (or even vaginal) sex. If you are not ABSOLUTELY certain (as in, you saw the lab reports) of a person's disease status, don't do any unprotected activities. I would even go so far as to include fondling his cock and then your own. It just is not worth it. The sad thing is, ALL STDs could be completely eradicated in my lifetime, if people were just simply a little more responsible. It won't happen, though.
     
  10. Jayb1989

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    ok thanks but now i got another question "how many sex partners SHOULD u have in a week?
     
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    who lives in the east 'neath the willow tree? Sex
    oh, at least 15
     
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    You specifically?




    NONE.
    Spare us all. Please.




    ...Seriously, you are joking, right? Either that or you're 12.
     
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    Waidaminute,waidaminute... Perhaps I was too harsh...


    Here, allow me invite you to join a recent thread of mine.

    It's a magical place where no question is too stupid to post to the entire world via the internet. I'm sure you'll fit right in.
     
  14. DC_DEEP

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    absinthium, my little wormwood wonder... you are just delightful. Having gotten to know you only through your posts, your nickname on here is perfect! Please, never change! By the way, I have tasted absinthe... a truly interesting experience.
     
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