What is one thing that you wish men would do?

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Whether it be something that some men do for you, or something that none have done for you, what do you wish more men would do?

More dates? More compliments? More sex? More oral attention? More foreplay? Clean the house more? Be more conscious of his clothing style? Anything that you want more men to do.
 

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More manners. And more tactful. Don't talk about your dick/PS3/football team/kind of sex you like/how drunk you were last night/how hungover you are now. You are the official owner of a penis. We get it. But then i know you wouldn't talk about this stuff sweetie so this isn't for your benefit. :)
 

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This is a great question, I say more of all of the above.

More kisses and hugs for sure. I love hugs. I can stand forever and hug someone I love. More oral would always be a good thing for me. More looks from across the room. More scratchy man face against my skin. More back rubs, foot rubs, just more rubs please.

More time, this is probably the biggest thing I look for with a man. More showers together. More spur of the moment. More love, less bad moods. More lay in bed together for hours, less go, go, worry. Less cell phone, turn it off already. Less work. More let's just walk on the beach tonight and not go to the loud party full of drunk people. More quiet time together. More relaxed, less stuffy.
 

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Just more time together. We both go to school and he works at night so the only time we see each other is in the morning before classes and after he gets out of work late at night. Add to that sometimes part of the weekend he'll work. It really sucks, I miss him.
 

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I'm not speaking for my husband, because we're good about what I want/expect, and he's already ahead of me in that respect.

But for the other men that I come into contact with - show some respect. Plain and simple. Respect me as a person, not as a walking pair of hooters. The blonde hair is not an invitation to gawk and has no bearing on my IQ or common sense.

At the gym you may admire my stamina during cardio and even comment if you must. I already know that my outfit looks nice; that's why I wore it. I wear my hair in a ponytail because it's more comfortable to work out that way. Please don't tell me it hypnotizes you (I've heard that twice last week!).

I've already trained most of the contractors and subs I work with, but there's always a new guy who underestimates me so badly that it hurts to see him finally realize that I know my shit. In fact, it's damn embarrassing.
 

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This is a great question, I say more of all of the above.

More kisses and hugs for sure. I love hugs. I can stand forever and hug someone I love. More oral would always be a good thing for me. More looks from across the room. More scratchy man face against my skin. More back rubs, foot rubs, just more rubs please.

More time, this is probably the biggest thing I look for with a man. More showers together. More spur of the moment. More love, less bad moods. More lay in bed together for hours, less go, go, worry. Less cell phone, turn it off already. Less work. More let's just walk on the beach tonight and not go to the loud party full of drunk people. More quiet time together. More relaxed, less stuffy.

Everything Laidey said! This is perfect :smile:

Personally, I'd like to add: touching my hair. Stroking my face. I had one boyfriend who used to do it from time to time, and I found it really very sweet and intimate.
 

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Everything Laidey said! This is perfect :smile:

Personally, I'd like to add: touching my hair. Stroking my face. I had one boyfriend who used to do it from time to time, and I found it really very sweet and intimate.

Oh the hair! I am married to the first man who has paid attention to my hair like I wanted! Stroking, running his fingers through it, tugging it gently - men have no idea how much that turns me on!

And in the afterglow when his finger traces a path from my eyebrows to the tip of my nose and then gently touches my lips. DAMN!

He better be home soon!
 

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Oh the hair! I am married to the first man who has paid attention to my hair like I wanted! Stroking, running his fingers through it, tugging it gently - men have no idea how much that turns me on!

And in the afterglow when his finger traces a path from my eyebrows to the tip of my nose and then gently touches my lips. DAMN!

He better be home soon!

Yes!! And lucky you to have found a man who does it well :biggrin1:
 

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More manners. And more tactful. Don't talk about your dick/PS3/football team/kind of sex you like/how drunk you were last night/how hungover you are now. You are the official owner of a penis. We get it. But then i know you wouldn't talk about this stuff sweetie so this isn't for your benefit. :)
Haha, yea thats not my usual talking points with girls. Hopefully other gents are taking notes though.
I pondered this long and hard, and my answer in general is:

Learn the art of anticipation.
Interesting, this seems like it might take some time learning to adapt the anticipation to the person you are with, no? Or do you mean more about subtly leaving hints throughout the day about what you want to happen later that night?
Erm. My boyfriend in general? I can't think of anything. He does everything I want exactly how I want it without even trying or being asked to.

Men in general? I don't even know. Lol.
Well, how about this: Is there anything a guy does that drives you insane and you wish he would stop doing?

Thanks for the responses so far, very educational :)
 

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Well, how about this: Is there anything a guy does that drives you insane and you wish he would stop doing?

Thanks for the responses so far, very educational :)

Maybe I'm too even-tempered for this thread. Lol. No, there isn't. I accept everyone as they are. I trust that they are doing "the best they can with what they have". People are individuals. What doesn't work for me might work with another person. I don't see the point in wishing a person or group of person would act differently. I enjoy the dynamic.
 

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Maybe I'm too even-tempered for this thread. Lol. No, there isn't. I accept everyone as they are. I trust that they are doing "the best they can with what they have". People are individuals. What doesn't work for me might work with another person. I don't see the point in wishing a person or group of person would act differently. I enjoy the dynamic.
Fair enough response, everybody goes about life with others in a different way :) I think you and I are somewhat similar in this area. I know everybody is different too, and threads like this can give me ideas on things to try with a girl I am with to see if she likes it or not.
 

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I can't think of anything that I wish men would do. I generally like men. I find men really easy to be around.

I think all women wish their boyfriends would do more of the things they love (backrubs, hair brushing, etc) but I don't have many complaints.
 

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Everything Laidey said! This is perfect :smile:

Personally, I'd like to add: touching my hair. Stroking my face. I had one boyfriend who used to do it from time to time, and I found it really very sweet and intimate.

I briefly dated this guy, that was always brushing my hair back from my face. He and I would have a conversation and out of the blue he would reach over and tuck my hair behind my ear and sort of cup his hand along my jawline. I don't know that I can describe the way it made me feel, sort of shy and giddy/ full of butterflies.:tongue:
 
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