What is Sex?

[Gillette]

Specifically, what is sex to you?

Physical, emotional, mental?

Is it an experience that consumes you?
Is it an opportunity to hone/show off your skills?
Is it a bodily function to be sated?

Curiosity is killing this cat, only satisfaction will bring her back.

 

[B_Think_Kink]

With my gay friend... it is purely a mix of things...
1)defying his sexuality
2)trying new things to see how he reacts
3)release of sexual tension
4)a hidden agenda act, that he can't know I'm planning
5)one of many things that fucked up the friendship


Andrew:
1)build up to sexual verbal torture
2)dirty little secrets
3)another stupid thing I did...

 

[SoLowHung]

Seeing as how I have cum while only kissing a woman before I'd say it is a physical interpretation of a mental desire to share myself and please my partner.

All the rest is just cleaning my pipes to keep my mind clear and my organs healthy.

 

[abvavrg]

I think of it as spiritual, or as spiritual as something can be. It is physically the closest you can be to another person. So many connections are necessary for it to happen: movement, breathing, penetration (or not). All the senses are engaged, and it allows a full and complete experience of the other person.

It is an opportunity to make something feel spectacular and desired, and a chance to feel the same. It's a combination of extreme selfishness and extreme selflessness that nothing else can achieve. Sex tells you so much about a person, more than you might be able to learn through words.

 

[ddazndd]

I think it's a mandatory action among human beings that has as much of a significance as breathing.

 

[headbang8]

Yes, what is sex? It's been so long, I've forgotten.

 

[invisibleman]

SEX is

Meditative.
Life affirming.
Passionate.
Selfish.
Pleasurable.
What it is.
A learning experience.
Different to many.
Abusive.
Uneventful.
Funny.
Sad.
Compulsive.
Repulsive.
Positive.
Negative.
Ironic.
Behind good and bad intentions.
Burden.
Freedom.
Trouble.
Needy.
Independent.


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[Gillette]

Ironic.

That's one worth pondering.

 

[SpoiledPrincess]

It's the most fun I can have without spending money.

Seriously it's an experience that hopefully involves and consumes me totally, where I don't know where I end and he begins, where his pleasure is my pleasure and my pleasure is his. Where there are no boundaries and no taboos. It's wet, messy, stinky.

 

[teaseme76]

It's the most fun I can have without spending money.

Seriously it's an experience that hopefully involves and consumes me totally, where I don't know where I end and he begins, where his pleasure is my pleasure and my pleasure is his. Where there are no boundaries and no taboos. It's wet, messy, stinky.

Wait...you can have sex without spending money? I haven't figured out that trick yet. What's your secret?

 

[dreamer20]

Wait...you can have sex without spending money? I haven't figured out that trick yet. What's your secret?

What secret?

Always remember "First the money then the mechandise.":biggrin1:

 

[rob_just_rob]

Specifically, what is sex to you?

Physical, emotional, mental?

Is it an experience that consumes you?
Is it an opportunity to hone/show off your skills?
Is it a bodily function to be sated?

It's all of these things on different occasions.

Actually, scratch that - not all. It's never mental.

 

[SassySpy]

Specifically, what is sex to you?

Physical, emotional, mental?

Is it an experience that consumes you?
Is it an opportunity to hone/show off your skills?
Is it a bodily function to be sated?

Curiosity is killing this cat, only satisfaction will bring her back.

lets see if I can remember....... oh yes;

1st emotional- if theres no emotional connection, I will not, cannot, achieve an orgasm.
that therefore includes mental. If I am thinking about something else, its NOT going to be satisfying sex.

When I deeply care for someone, I show them in many ways, and one of those is sexually.

As for the need to be sated, the strictly physical need, I satisfy that efficiently a few times a day.:biggrin1:

 

[98264]

to me sex is sumthing that can be enjoyed by everyone , it shouldnt be forced, it can be meaningless or highly emotional
i think with boyfriends i value the sex and its a way for me to emotionally and physicall connect with them
with randoms its just for fun and to satisfy myself.
it does consume me or the thought of it , but its great when u have a partner who feels the same way about it

 

[D_Coyne Toss]

It is another way I have to love my girlfriend, and a way to express myslef.

It also relieves me from stress, and gives me some good time.