No, really if size will be given up for talent, what is that talent? Is the talent requirement different for each woman? Is it what is done, how it is done, the sequence, the time span, the hardship or is that the purpose of exploration? If a man fucks up the first fuck, is that it or does some unknown calculus factor in that promises increasing potential (learning potential)? What is that calculus? When you don't directly ask for what you want do you signal in some other way that a man should pay attention to (moan louder aka the "You're getting warmer technique.")? Ladies, incomplete answers kind of leave you at the mercy of porn, something to consider.