What is the age range for a Cougar?

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  1. naughty

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    Hey,

    With all of the discussion of the feline phenom, cougars I want more specifics. How old do you have to be? Is it any woman who likes significantly younger men? Do tell. To tell the truth with the exception of probably 2 guys all of the men I have dated have been younger and it was at their request! LOL! Remember girls, A wise older woman told me," ...get one with some fire power.Since we live longer anyway, you will die about the same time! "

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    According to Valerie Gibson, author of "Cougar: A Guide for Older Women Dating Younger Men," there has to be an age difference of at least seven years.

    http://www.sun-sentinel.com/news/lo...erwomen,0,6928852.story?track=mostemailedlink

    "A Cougar is a woman that is strong, knows her territory, and goes after her prey relying on experience to guide her. Cougars of the world are beginning to see that they are what men really want. Males seeking to spend time with Cougars are often called "Hunters" or "Prey". This is from a website out there that facilitates cougar meetings.

    http://www.gocougar.com/

    Wow, the things you learn online. :tongue:
     
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    Uh oh... Is Naughty on the prowl? ba dum bum!

    Sorry. I've been waiting to use that one since the first "cougar" discussion came up...
     
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    Watch it, Kiddo!

    "One never knows, do one?" - Fats Waller

    But then I have always been a carnivore....

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    Cougars, Naughty, not Black Widows. :wink:
     
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    Surfergirl,

    Read between the lines, honey. What exactly do carnivores do?:wink:

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    Ohhhh, figuratively speaking. I get it now. :tongue:
     
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    Wow... We're just finding out ALL about you tonight... That's OK. It's just us girls.
     
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    Actually sweetie,

    What you are finding out is that I like a snappy repartee... :wink:

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    I've heard of the term "cougar" when I was 34, and since that day I call myself a cougar. I guess it's starting when you're mid-30s, and reaches all the way up to 60's, 70's... I'm not in that age range yet, but I guess it ends with the day a cougar woman doesn't want to have sex anymore, or doesn't get any sex anymore. Is there such a day, ever?

    Talking about experience, well, currently I have some sex dates with a very young guy (yes, he's legal). He already has a fair share of experience, but I am still teaching him things, cutting the jewel. Should I mention that he just left two hours ago, and I still can't go to sleep?
     
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    It seems that the majority of veteran female posters on this board are Cougars. Is there a link between being a Cougar and an attraction to larger penises, or is it simply that Cougars place a higher value on good sex than most women do, and thus are perhaps more prone to hunt young, well-endowed men (not to say that sex would not be good with other men, but those men may have somewhat of a physical advantage)?
     
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    I think there probably is a connection. I think I do place a high value on good sex, but I think for me it also has to do with how I feel about pleasure. Lots of women (and men for that matter) feel guilty about pleasure-seeking. Perhaps I speak for cougars when I say I deserve to feel pleasure and to seek out the person and body part that will maximize it :tongue: . Personally I find younger men exciting for a number of reasons. Hard bodies, sexual vigor, eagerness to please, rigid erection, etc. And I enjoy larger than average penises because, mostly, I like the way it feels. Maybe the link between being a cougar and being a size queen is that a cougar doesn't apologize or feel guilty for having sexual wants and seeking them out.
    Good question. I hadn't really thought about that :smile: .
     
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    I'd say from at least 40 until they throw dirt over her.
     
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    Cougars also exude the attitude that sex
    is quite important on their list of priorities.

    For many women sex takes a back seat to
    almost everything else in their everyday life.

    For cougars, it's attitude, grooming, interest..
    when a guy talks to such a female, he knows
    he will get as good as he gives in the sack and
    often times more than his dreams ever imagined.

    Sex is a big deal and should be enjoyed as often
    as possible between two people if the chemistry
    is there.

    Another thing with this situation, a guy knows
    up front if the female is attracted to him, he
    doesn't have to jump through hoops to share
    her bed...just know how to please a woman
    and you will be invited back...
     
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    I don't know if there's a hard and fast number-of-years rule e.g., 7 etc. A 28-yo woman with a 21-yo guy, sure. A 44-yo woman with a 37-yo man? Maybe. A 72-yo woman with a 65-yo guy? I don't think so.

    The "Hollywood Rule" is for calcualating the leading lady's age with respect to the leading man, it works like this: leading man's age / 2 + 7 = leading lady's age. In other words, a 60-yo leading man would get a 37-yo leading lady. Think about it, you see it in a lot of films.

    So sauce for the goose...
     
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    I've never heard this phrase before! Been with a couple older ladies always willing to have my eyes opened further!
     
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    Ding ding ding! We have a winner!

    In terms of common conceptions, younger=more energy, big dick=easier time reaching climax. While these things are not always true, I do believe it has a lot to do with older women who are (finally) more aware of our own sexuality seeking what we've been lacking. Often social mores have left us feeling guilty about our sex drives so that we finally get to the point of just wanting to be greedy and indulgent with our lusts. You'll find many of us being somewhat defensive about it, but YOU try having shitty sex until you're 35 and then come talk to me. Men have no problem going for what they need, I think society as a whole will improve when women learn to do the same thing. I hope us old broads can get this message to the younger set though, why waste so many years?
     
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