What is the deal between 'straight' men and transexuals?

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    why do some straight guys like trannys? i dont get it? anyone care to explain, not being judgemental or anythin.
     
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    best of both worlds? :biggrin1:
     
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    It can be a few things depending on the guy. I suppose it appeases a inner urge that they have supressed. If they feel "gay is wrong" They might like 'penis' however they don't want to deal with the "man" part of the equation. So it allows them to be with just the penis and the rest is a girl. Or it can be that they really just want to make another man so submissive to them they turn them into their "little man slut". There could be more complicated reasons. However these are the more obvious ones to me.
     
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    the idea of being a guy's "man slut" is kinda hott
     
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    It may be due to being attracted to women and not guys, but curious about cocks. Thus, as was said earlier, transsexuals can be the best of both worlds.

    I know that in my bi phase, I wasn't interested in men as people or for relationships, but more for physical body features. Perhaps the transsexual fetishists feel the same way.
     
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    My best friend in college had a TON of tranny porn on his computer. I used to rag on him all the time about it, (only in jest mind you, I'm not THAT guy) but I once asked him to explain it to me. His answer was pretty interesting.

    I'm paraphrasing of course, but he said that his biggest turn on was seeing women be pleasured. But womens sexuality is totally foreign. Who knows when they are feigning pleasure? So the allure of trannys is that you know exactly what they are feeling, and are therefore able to directly relate to the level of pleasure they may be feeling from whatever it is they are experiencing. I remember him saying,"What does a girl feel when she busts a nut? Nobody knows. But when they do (trannys), you know exactly what that feels like."
     
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    It's still as gay to me as two muscle daddies fucking the hell out of each other; but men will rationalize it and think somehow that it's not as "gay" as two "genuine" men.

    I remember years ago when I saw this butch mechanic type buying tranny porn in an adult bookstore. I didn't know much about the world in those days and found it "unbelievable." It was as if men like him could only buy straight or lesbian porn. Boy, I have learned a lot since those days.

    Most men have a little gay side: it often manifests itself in tranny porn or straight gangbangs, double penetration, double vaginal... Men are just too homophobic to watch the real man-on-man action.
     
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    I don't get it either. IMHO - I think that the straight men who are 'into' trannys are really bi-curious or gay. The fact many have breast implants and make-up to look like women is just a smoke screen that allows the straight men to believe they are really into women, :cool:
     
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    I feel sorry for the trannies with the hideously botched boob-jobs. What kind of discount quack doctor sews on a nipple 2 inches higher than the other?

    Why do these ultra-low body fat muscled-up trannies think they can pull off a C/D/DD cup? Does anyone think it looks good when 3/4 of the implant is below nipple level, not to mention the huge flat area between said boobs?

    What I REALLY want to know, is what in the hell is up with that inch-long-nipple-fetish?!?
     
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    I think some guys don't know the difference.
     
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    I would expect that many heterosexual males prefer watching a (feminine) M2F TS fuck a woman more so than watching a man doing the same. :eek:
     
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    I don't feel sorry for the lopsided-titted transsexuals in porn. There is at least a chance to correct some botched cosmetic procedures. And many could pass as female on the street.

    The people I really feel sorry for are the very UNconvincing transsexuals. They are trying so hard to look feminine and want it so much, but sometimes, no amount of money can buy the medical expertise to make it happen. There's only so much you can do with the wrong bone structure and body type.

    So they're left hanging in a limbo between male and female, nobody's fantasy partner.
     
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    Yep, I think it boils down to:

    "chicks" with dicks = good
    guys with fake tits = bad
     
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    Like I said before, often times the butch mechanic's dick is much smaller than the feminine artist (not that all artists are feminine). It's actually funny. The most masculine feature on a man is more emphasized on more feminine men?:eek:
     
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    Hmmm, I'll bite.

    I like transexual porn, but not gay porn. My favorite is actually the anime stuff, but I'll watch live tranny stuff as well.

    The fantasy is about a woman having a penis (even if the reality of what you're masturbating to is a guy imitating a woman).

    There's no wierd half-way-in-the-closet thing going on. I think it'd be fantastic if I was bi... I'd have had that many more opportunities for sex. But there's an appeal to the way that women look and smell and feel that's just not there with men.

    Anyways, as to why that fantasy is appealing... hard to say (I'll try though)

    I think on one level, I know what it feels like to cum as a guy. So in terms of getting off by living vicariously through what the woman is experiencing, in the case of chicks with dicks I could imagine what it would feel like for her to cum.

    On another level, especially with anime, there's a lot of implied loss of control over one's own sexual desire that's featured in the shemale stuff. Like women are capable of controlling their own lust, but you give them a guy's penis and they're just overwhelmed by raw desire and they find themselves doing things that feel so good physically that they can't stop themselves even though they don't want to be doing it emotionally.

    Plus there's the visual impact. Real pleasure and enjoyment and arousal is sexy. So much of what's out there in the way of women is fake. You can find some reality in the amateur stuff, but most of the professional stuff comes across as fake fake FAKE. Prosthetics / special effects aside, you can't fake getting hard and you can't fake cumming. So a fake woman cumming for real becomes much more sexy than a real woman who's faking an orgasm.

    Any of that make sense? Just my own personal interest in it. Someone else's may completely vary.
     
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    I appreciate your ideas. Interesting. A dick is still a dick, though, and a most masculine body part, whether it's on a woman or not. It just seems that men in general are attracted to cocks. It makes sense, considering they all have one.:biggrin1:
     
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    i like it, i don't know why i just do. gay porn to me is repulsive, but tranny porn is ok.

    does it make me gay. i don't think so, since i couldn't imagine fucking a guy. it may not seem rational, but not all human action is rational. :wink:

    it's kind of like men who have sex with men, and still claim to be straight. if they do, who is to say they cannot?
     
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    Sorta :)

    Again, only using myself as an example here, but I'll watch (and get off watching) the occasional vid which features only some guy jacking off (especially the heavy cummers). No women in sight, pretend or otherwise.

    The fantasy though, isn't being with that guy so much as it's being that guy. Imagining what it would be like to have a cock THAT big or shoot THAT much cum. Fantasy's fantasy, and I'm not always myself in them. A little visual aid is nice as a lead-in to whatever fantasies spring out of that scene and into my head.

    So I don't know that attraction is necessarily the right word. I'm not drawn to other guys (or their parts) in the way that I'm drawn to women, but there's an element to male sexuality that I do find sexy.

    Kind of hard putting it all into words. If you need me to ramble further just let me know and I can try to explain it better.
     
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    Good point! Sexual orientation is not always definable. We can't always put words to out sexualities. We shouldn't even worry about, but society...:rolleyes:

    Interesting point, too! And that doesn't necessarily make any man gay.

    I think men who love being men will naturally find their manliness or genitalia sexy, and when they perceive this in other men, they get turned on. I know I find other men erotic at times because I find my own manliness erotic.

    I personally love male strippers dancing for women, but not for men. My boner is not as hard when it's men dancing for men (still get hard, though). But I find male strippers very very sexy, but not in the way that I want to go to bed with them.
     
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    indecision
     
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