What is the longest period you have gone without sex with another person?

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I went two years without sex or masturbating to see if I can do it. Don't ask why.
 

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The longest I've gone without sex was about a year.

I found the easiest way to cope was to put -A LOT- of my time into working.

As for the circumstances that turned me off, I broke up with my bf and after that I just didnt find anyone sexually appealing.

The circumstance that made it easier to become intimate again? I met a great guy who actually cared about me.
 

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Two years was the longest for me. I went through a rough period of low self esteem issues from being dumped by my fiancé at the time for another guy and also gaining a ton of weight in a short period of time.
 

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I went about 2 years during my transition between dating females to males.... During that time I dated both men and women (sometimes simultaneously) but never had sex with them. Handjobs and blowies, but never sex. And even before the handy/blowies I think it was about a year of being absolutely 100% single.

It's no big deal, it happens. Especially for those of us who don't go looking for it. The best kind of sex is the kind that looks for you :)
 

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Without question the longest period of time for me was the 14 years from birth to losing my virginity. But in recent years I have had some extended periods of celibacy, though not by choice. Being something of a hermit these days and living way out in the boondocks can easily cause me to go a month or more between flesh-on-flesh encounters.

How did you cope? ...

Mostly just took matters into my own hands.

... What circumstances turned you off about having sex? ...

Absolutely none!

... What circumstance made it easier to become intimate with someone once again?

Availability.
 

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longest has been 2 years since I became sexually active. The first girl I successfully had sex with, I accidentally bruised her cervix. I was so turned off by that experience I swore off sex for the rest of high school (and most of my first year at college).