Hmmm just caught wind of this thread, had to think about my answers
Part 1: It started as a link from another sexually themed forum Im a part of. I got there looking for some insight from others as to the sexual frustrations I was(occasionally still am)facing with my now wife...after that it really served as an inconsequential space I could ask questions and make assertions about sex and relationships, gathering my thoughts and words before I had discussions with my now wife; I say inconsequential because such discussions with my wife often devolve into some emotional spite from her end...
Also, it's the women...I've always had primarily female friends and associates, and so have grown accustomed to speaking with them about sexually intimate or explicit things without any expectations..but with a jealous wife, for the implications and optics alone that doesnt really work in person for me, plus I wouldn't want to be tempted by a revelation of heightened sexual and emotional compatibility with a woman of whom I already obviously enjoy her company. So devoid of visual cues, interpersonal interactions, and all other things exclusive to personal contact that often create affinities..I simply converse in a platonic manner here to my hearts content and fear no implication or temptation.
Part 2: I don't know if I seek entry into the Think Tank, I cant help self attributing some arrogance to any reason why I would, but if the mindset and thought process I've put forth is deemed worthy of such a cabal, fuck yeah I wanna spot in the Illuminati, slide me right in between Professor X and Dr. Strange..lol