Honestly, for all my life, I've been too scared to even be caught looking... let alone show the least bit of interest in checking out another guy.
However, with that having been said, over the last couple of years, I have gotten my courage being around this forum :wink: ..realizing that other fellas wonder too, about how they compare to the next guy. And so, I HAVE at least allowed my peripheral vision to assist me to try to catch a quick glimpse when (say) standing at a urinal. (I've stated before that I much prefer the personal privacy of a stall, but there are times when there's nothing available but a urinal.)
I guess much to my surprise, I am (gradually) believing (and accepting?) that indeed most men ARE typically much smaller in their flaccid sizes than we would ever believe around here. Yes...I'd say 2 to 3 inches seems to be what I'm able to "observe" at a urinal. Fact is, I hardly have EVER seen anything showing all that much when guys next to me are either "shaking it" or "tucking it" back in.
Seldom have I noticed a real "dangler" by our standards here in the LPSG.
Girth? I can't really say. I tend to think too, that anything beyond average (flaccid) girth isn't all that common either.
This forum, for all its good, really does influence our ability to comprehend the subject of "size" as it truly exists in the real world.