What is the worst thing a man can be?

[dolfette]

Weak
no matter what any woman says, most women have been with a man at some point who was rude or cruel or even abusive
none of them have ever been with a man who was weak

weak is easier to spot and safer to leave.

 

[B_Dustydo]

"Mystery Meat In A Can" or unwanted, triple posts, I dislike SPAM!

 

[the_reverend]

i keep seeing this word "weak" bandied about around here...but there doesn't seem to be one solid definition of what it means to be a "weak" man, yet there's a lot of resentment aimed at women for not dating/staying with/sleeping with them. am i missing something? did the memo not reach my inbox?

(and DOES it really need three separate posts to say the exact same thing? lol)

 

[Principessa]

The worst thing a man can be is to remain a boy. (says a guy with a Charlie Brown avatar)

True! With that often goes being inconsiderate, selfish, and rude.

weak is easier to spot and safer to leave.

Amen! Weak men rarely ask girls out they just sit in the corner at the party or pub nursing their tom collins and wondering why nobody is talking to them.

i keep seeing this word "weak" bandied about around here...but there doesn't seem to be one solid definition of what it means to be a "weak" man, yet there's a lot of resentment aimed at women for not dating/staying with/sleeping with them. am i missing something? did the memo not reach my inbox?

Sorry dude, I sent out a mass TWEET last week before my cell died, maybe it did't go through.
You are weak if:
You were mommy's little boy. Everything your mother said, you did. You've become so jaded by this, that you no longer try to fight it, and simply accept that the women in your life will dominate you.

As a child, you watched Jem and The Care Bears , instead of G.I. Joe and Transformers .

You haven't realized it yet buddy, but you're probably playing for the wrong team.

As the youngest child, you only had sisters to look up to. Unfortunately, you didn't only get the hand-me-downs such as dolls and clothing, but your sisters also inflicted tormenting psychological abuse on you.

You have no backbone. Worse yet, you have no backup plan for when things go wrong.

(and DOES it really need three separate posts to say the exact same thing? lol)[/QUOTE] No, it did not need 3 separate posts.

 

[D_Ivana Dickenside]

A child molester. There is nothing worse than that.

Respectless, in all possile ways. No doubt.

QFT. i second both of these!

 

[the_reverend]

As a child, you watched Jem and The Care Bears , instead of G.I. Joe and Transformers .

what if watched all four of them? i just like cartoons...

As the youngest child, you only had sisters to look up to. Unfortunately, you didn't only get the hand-me-downs such as dolls and clothing, but your sisters also inflicted tormenting psychological abuse on you.

well...yeah, but to be fair, my sister was a lesbian so it was kind of like having the best of both worlds, the wisdom and torments of a big sister AND brother (plus, we have totally different taste in women, so there's never been any competition!).

so...you're weak if you were raised and grew up around strong women, enjoy multipe genres of animation, or people think you're possibly gay?

huh...what do you know? i'm weak...kind of okay with that, given the criteria. :biggrin1:

 

[invisibleman]

I think the worst thing a man can be is a coward

Cowardice when appropriate is acceptable. Every person in the world aren't superheroes or martyrs.

 

[Principessa]

the_reverend, IMHO Being weak has nothing to do with how much you can bench press. It's about not being a gullible wuss. Sometimes you have to plant your feet and take the hit. A wuss won't do that.:wink:

 

[invisibleman]

I think that the worst a man (or woman) can be is to be dishonest, cruelly manipulative, inempathetic, and rudely disregarding.

 

[the_reverend]

the_reverend, IMHO Being weak has nothing to do with how much you can bench press. It's about not being a gullible wuss. Sometimes you have to plant your feet and take the hit. A wuss won't do that.:wink:

indeed...which i learned from my mother and sister as much as my father. and that's pretty much the entire point of the Care Bear Stare right there. so i think we may need to redefine some of those criteria. lol!

 

[strutter2]

TheRob - it depends what you mean by weak. My notion of weak is a man who abuses, showing he has no confidence in his own masculinity at all.

I think what you mean is perhaps kind and shy? - A very underrated thing.

 

[Principessa]

I think that the worst a man (or woman) can be is to be dishonest, cruelly manipulative, inempathetic, and rudely disregarding.

OMG! How do you know my ex-boyfriend?!? Did you go to Temple University?

 

[D_Doewell Dadong]

The worst thing a man can be is a otter. I hate men who are otters, bastards

 

[D_Hepsibah Salmonbreath]

dead

 

[invisibleman]

disrespectful.

of women
{whore/bitch/just pussy}
of men...
{manwhore/manbitch/just manpussy--just bein' equal...:wink::biggrin1:}
of themselves
{don't agree with me when i'm wrong!}
of people in what they see as lesser jobs
{if you're rude to the waitress then i'm leaving}
I don't mess with people who serve me food. I don't hate waitresses or waiters. I EVEN tip 20 percent even for first-time offenders.
of people less physically attractive
{we'll all be saggy and wrinkled eventually}
Good luck on drilling that piece of advice into some of these men. :wink:

I am speechless. :smile:

 

[dolfette]

I am speechless. :smile:

i'll take that as a compliment. :smile:

 

[B_babydolly21]

Closed minded - Same as women.

It is the base trait for so many others, it leads to discrimination, being judgmental, hypocritical, bigoted, arrogant, insensitive, makes them impossible to talk to and even more impossible to spend time with.

I have to agree with you ...
And i wanted to respond to a guy... Money isn't everything for women at least when they are in love :wink:

 

[D_Ivana Dickenside]

i forgot to add rapists, pedophiles, human and sex traffickers, drug traffickers that kill people and stuff drugs inside their bodies, and men who beat animals to death. all of those things are just wrong.

 

[Gillette]

You are weak if:
You haven't realized it yet buddy, but you're probably playing for the wrong team.

I hope you're not saying gay men are weak. That would be stupid.
Nevermind, forgot who I was talking to.

No, it did not need 3 separate posts.

The Rob's triple post was probably due to the first posts not apearing to go through, as happens fairly often on this site. Note how each subsequent post was shorter as though he didn't want to type out the full thing over again.

 

[dolfette]

i forgot to add rapists, pedophiles, human and sex traffickers, drug traffickers that kill people and stuff drugs inside their bodies, and men who beat animals to death. all of those things are just wrong.

all lack of respect.
respect covers so much.