What is too kinky for you?

[rtg]

Anything involving scat, blood, scratching, choking, food lol, or that would actually hurt me, or the type of bdsm where I'm controlled

 

[TexanStar]

I'm more opened now than when I first got started with all of this. The first woman I was with asked me to do some relatively tame stuff that I was too shy for at the time but really wouldn't raise an eyebrow now.

I can echo those saying no poop stuff, but I think you have to go looking for that kind of stuff. It doesn't seem like it's common that you'd be with someone and they're just like "PINCH A LOAF ON ME!"

I dated a woman who kept giving obvious hints that she wanted to be raped by me and physically hurt (esp biting). I could do that with someone I was married to if they were into it, but it was way too serious a fantasy to explore with someone I was dating casually.

 

[TexanStar]

food lol

No food at all? Or just no food on you? Like what if they suggested they go down on you while you enjoy a homemade ice cream sundae?

 

[693987]

No food at all? Or just no food on you? Like what if they suggested they go down on you while you enjoy a homemade ice cream sundae?

Not "too kinky" for me, but combining food and sex are not a thing I enjoy. I've dabbled, but I would rather focus on the BDSM or sex or whatever, as their own thing.. and enjoy my food as its own thing. Sploshing, in a very specific environment could be amusing, I think. But in general, food + sex = please no, for me.

 

[rtg]

No food at all? Or just no food on you? Like what if they suggested they go down on you while you enjoy a homemade ice cream sundae?

What fade said. Too sticky too lol. But it just reminds me of that episode of Seinfeld where George goes for the trifecta and combines sex, tv and food. And ends up eating a salami sub or something while they are at it. No thanks haha.

 

[TexanStar]

Not "too kinky" for me, but combining food and sex are not a thing I enjoy. I've dabbled, but I would rather focus on the BDSM or sex or whatever, as their own thing.. and enjoy my food as its own thing. Sploshing, in a very specific environment could be amusing, I think. But in general, food + sex = please no, for me.

I think the most I've done is a bit of goofing around with some marshmallow fluff on one occasion.

It's not something I'm into (sex mess is fine, but being sticky w/ food is annoying sensation for me), but if my partner was really into being fed strawberries while blindfolded or something I could accommodate

 

[TexanStar]

What fade said. Too sticky too lol. But it just reminds me of that episode of Seinfeld where George goes for the trifecta and combines sex, tv and food. And ends up eating a salami sub or something while they are at it. No thanks haha.

Hot!!!

 

[693987]

I think the most I've done is a bit of goofing around with some marshmallow fluff on one occasion.

It's not something I'm into (sex mess is fine, but being sticky w/ food is annoying sensation for me), but if my partner was really into being fed strawberries while blindfolded or something I could accommodate

Ice cream, whipped cream, honey, strawberries... Just nah... Too cold, too sticky, I don't want to ruin my sheets, and depending on what is going where, there is a potential to throw off my internal chemistry, which no... I'd rather enjoy a lovely meal or tasty snack or whatever before or after, rather than during.

 

[Wave85]

What fade said. Too sticky too lol. But it just reminds me of that episode of Seinfeld where George goes for the trifecta and combines sex, tv and food. And ends up eating a salami sub or something while they are at it. No thanks haha.

in terms of food... sushi on a naked female body works for me... I could feed strawberries or grapes like TS - use an ice cube maybe with a blindfold... but I don't even know what most of the things are that people are listing in this forum lol

 

[pengucat]

Food play is fun but uhhh make sure you keep pH in mind if youre fucking a girl...

 

[rtg]

Hot!!!

Bahaha that's the one!

 

[TexanStar]

Food play is fun but uhhh make sure you keep pH in mind if youre fucking a girl...

Well, to each their own, if it's too much for someone, it's too much

It just made me laugh cuz it was like "No violence, no blood, no fisting, no strawberries, no choking"

 

[jdoe86]

Anything involving scat, blood, scratching, choking, food lol, or that would actually hurt me, or the type of bdsm where I'm controlled

Had a gf who wanted me to fuck her with a cucumber. She had her own garden and this thing was huge (from the pic she sent me). I didn't get a chance to use it on her, but she said she masturbated with it and hurt her pussy (scratched her inside). So I'd say not a good idea.

 

[DuffyW]

scat, blood, sounding, extreme clamps, needles, saline.

 

[fieldsb4]

Nothing painful or dealing with blood. Anything else I am totally open to and have had some interesting experiences

 

[weho48]

this can certainly kill one's appetite

 

[Scarletbegonia]

May I breathe life into this fun thread?

No bodily waste, meaning no fluids aside from cum.

Food is a no go. Interestingly, I read an astrology page that said not to try food play with Virgos because all we will think of is clean up. They were not completely wrong. (Infections, yo)

Blood, needles, psuedomedical. Nope, nope.

I'm no longer interested in thirds. Can't concentrate, just egotistical enough to want to be the center of attention.

Lasting pain. Something quick and in the moment? I'll roll with that.

DimDoms. Oh, gads, the DimDoms.

 

[chrisrobin]

guys who need artificial stimulants to get them up and going....you either want to fuck with me or not, just don't fuck dosed up

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

If it has potential to land one of us in the trauma center, or on a two-week script, or in therapy......then, no.

 

[Phil Ayesho]

Nothing that can cause permanent harm, and preferably nothing that will leave marks that I can't cover up with clothing at work.
And of course no pooping on me (luckily I've never met anyone that wanted to do this)

Other than that you can be as rough as you want with me, just keep in mind that I bite back

What is sounding? I could do a Google search but I'm scared, do I even want to know?

Sounding is sliding ( usually) a perfectly smooth polished and round bar of surgical steel up your urethra.
Lubed of course. And sliding it in and out as you masturbate or are masturbated.

Generally, it involves starting with a slender sound, and gradually working your way up to ever thicker sounds to stretch out your urethra, and for more intense stimulation. You can sound just the length of your dick- or further- all the way up into your bladder if you have long enough sounds with the necessary bend in them.

They are medical devices used by urologists to try and open clogged, scared or otherwise damaged urethras... but used sexually, they can be amazingly hot and pleasurable.
At first use, it will feel painful or very uncomfortable to stick something up your urethra... but that is mostly just nerves and bad technique. Once you get use to it... its purely pleasurable and you only feel mild pain or discomfort when you size up.


Some guys get carried away and keep on stretching their urethras until they can stick index fingers and larger objects all the way up their dicks.

I spent about 4 years sounding and loved it and would recommend it highly to those curious. However, the one thing to be aware of is extremely good hygienic practice- I sterilized my sounds before and after every use... the last thing you want to do is shove any kind of bacteria way up your urinary tract.