What is too thick?

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  1. FinnCorgi

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    I was wondering what would be considered too thick for a man's penis? As I understand it, with the exceptions of specially ordered condoms, magnum XLs are the ones with the most room for girth. It can handle a girth of 5.5 to 6 inches in circumference. It's not that much difference than other regular condoms that handle 4.5 to 5 inches circumference. When it comes down to it I have been doing PE and results feel swollen recently due to changes made to combat the cold climate. It is most likely temporary if I don't continue, but an extra girth is apparent as circumference is now past 6.5 at the base. Either I had done something while wearing the extender from cold stretch or warming up has developed this change in girth. Granted, I have always been +6 inches. But, this is different. My experience seeing other guys naked in person is limited and was wondering what is considered thick or too thick? I'd like to do it with a girl some day and the last thing I want is pain or discomfort. And with guys, I don't know how someone can get fisted, but I was having trouble with a guy who had 4.5 inch dick, both length and circumference. Aside from clamping with a gentle massage jelq to encourage blood flow every other day and typical jelqing routine it's all else I do, but it's just more recently I feel more "swollen" when I've concentrated on length for a year. What is going on? There isn't much information on girth as it is more length in studies. Are coke can cocks real or exaggerated penis balloons that been in a vacuum tube too long?
     
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    My experience that involves men is limited to threesomes and sex parties. Most men are not that thick not that I have measured them, I would say 4.5". On PE sites, the men have goals of 5" for girth, apparently girth gains are harder to achieve despite all the jelqing, Ulis etc. I think it strange as my flaccid penis is 5" in girth already and it looks small on my body. I measured my erect girth, it is 6". I have had no problems using that dick, it does grip well, but it doesn't cause pain or discomfort. A big girth on PE sites is 7". I doubt many will achieve that mark even me. Women when aroused can handle quite thick penises comfortably. As to Coke can size penises, well I am sure they exist, but it is genetic and I am not interested in finding these men. I am not up with Gay practices, my guess is those men who like to be penetrated learn to relax their sphincters, the external and internal sphincters, and accommodate those men with Mr. Ed's sized penis. I think fisting is probably sadomasochistic, pain is pleasure to those men.
     
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    Just for your info Fisting has noting to do with sadomasochistic pain. Pain in fisting means something is severely wrong. It has to do with relaxing your rectum and abit of stretching. the more you relax ( this takes practice and getting intune with your body) the more "open" one becomes and they can fit more girth easily with less pain. To some people , women and men find the stretched feeling from a larger girth individual more pleasurable others do not.
     
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    Say what you like. It is sadomasochistic to me. You can justify it as much as you like. But if you like it go ahead, no skin off...your foreskin. And by the way, I don't care what you think.
     
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    I don't think I'll be trying fisting, but know someone into it. Oddly enough he doesn't experience pain. There is a sensation completely different for him. When stretching he likes it. It's not for everyone just as anal sex. There are guys that get a full on orgasm from it while I feel like I need to pee. And that act was considered satomasochism at one time and still now from religious figures demonizing homosexuals. So, it's non-conforming to one's personal standards and sexual preference. Sadomasochism can be a 9-5 job and going home to 3 ugly kids you had with a woman who's inlaws are all assholes undermining your relationship.
     
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    The thickest guy in hetero porn is probably Shorty Mac who (I estimate) has a 7.5 - 8" girth cock. Very few female porn stars have managed to take him balls deep and their mouths don't get much past his glans. I'd say he's close to what is considered the upper limit of "too thick" for the average woman.

    Another girthy guy, Shane diesel who was measured at 7" girth, seems to have less problem fitting inside his co-stars' orifices.

    On an individual level the variations are huge, some women manage to sit on 10"+ girth dildos while others feel pain with 5.5 inches of girth but their vaginas will adapt since they're designed to allow a child's head to pass through.
     
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    Appearences are decieving. There's an interview with Shane who was advertising his dildo which they casted his member for the toy. He measured 7.5 length and only 5.5 inches in girth.
    https://m.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=382&v=jB4ydikahUI
    These are tiny women with dainty hands that handle his member. It's still a good size, but when it comes down to it the struggle to get it in is a lot of grunting and deep breaths for the camera. And as he mentions in the interview he says it is a close accuracy to his member. With Shorty Mac, who knows?
     
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    https://www.lpsg.com/threads/shane-diesels-actual-size-my-tears-of-joy.476311/

    His cock certainly is not 5.5" girth
    https://www.edenfantasys.com/sex-toy-reviews/dildos/shane-you-must-hear-this-a-lot-but-you-are-huge
    https://www.edenfantasys.com/dildos/realistic-dildos/shane-diesel-realistic-cock
    https://www.69adulttoys.com/SexToys/Toy.asp?ProdID=4169&stab=3

    Read the reviews of people who have measured it themselves

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    He got measured on film too
     
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    Well that goes to show that porn stars can't count very well. He could have corrected that mistake and the girl who said it couldn't read the packaging. And she certainly loved giving a performance of juggling dildos with Shane when she had two hands she operate herself. When she says five and a half inches he doesn't really react. And she seriously describes silicone lube as strong and slippery as it is something that is needed. I wanted to pet her on the shoulder she was having trouble using such big words.
     
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    My cock was 5.5" girth and it didn't look anything like this. :p

    It seems that there is an unwritten rule in the porn industry that pornstars don't talk about their actual size.
     
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    Yeah, it would have been safer and less of a head ache for her if she said it's circumference is as wide as the Milky Way, with a straight face with cow eyes. I don't think I can fit a 5.5 inch circumference dick in my mouth. I have a dildo I call Mr. Blue I honestly bought to practice oral sex with using flavoured condoms. I was having trouble fitting it in with my mouth fully open. My dentist said I have a small mouth. I'm considering getting an expansion done so I don't have to fold my tongue when I bite down all the time. As of now, a 6 inch girth would really be polishing my teeth. And forget your dick because I had trouble with the 4.5 inch circumference when a friend mounted me. Maximum effort.
     
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    Man, when you are at the dentist, you naturally won't open your mouth fully. It is a protective responses to having two ugly people hovering over your face with those torture chamber tools.

    It isn't the mouth that impedes the thick cock, it is the teeth. No one normal wants his dick chewed. As far as vagina sex, a really thick member should be able to penetrate, if you take it slow. Now I haven't seen in my party sex days a penis thicker than 6". Anyway where are those big thick cock guys? They seem a bit shy.
     
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    Ugly people? My dentist is a hot asian chick. You live in an ugly world friend.
     
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    Sex parties sound interesting. The closest thing I had to that was a cock comparison with friends. I was the thickest and longest, but it's interesting when you're at that age you see people naked for the first time. I have never known a woman's touch, but hopefully some day. As far is mounting a lover I only tried to initiate, but was stopped, pinned to the bed and he mounted me instead. He had a 4.5 inch girth and same measurement for length. Two excuses given were that I didn't have enough experience fucking and that mine wouldn't fit on account my first time with him hurt like a motherfucker when he went in slow. He wouldn't let me try. Yeah, it would seem I'm shy. Asking women out is harder then men. I just don't have the same trust for women in my life on account of the last two wanted me clipped and were really insensitive to my needs. Not to mention not leaving the room when the doctor examined me. Living on my own has been the best. Food tastes better, jerking off is more fun with no one walking in on me and learning to be ok with my own body is coming along as with being a massage therapist. The thing is about having a thick dick is one doesn't feel big. It's not anything when you compare a lysol spray can or a hebrew national frank in one hand and my cock in the other. I don't see the sexualization in inanimate objects. At least now I get the idea that 7 inch thickness is hard to come by. And a prolapse anus just isn't worth risking while testing one's boundaries in sex.
     
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    It's never too thick!
     
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    You would think, but there probably is a point at which you can be "too" thick. Many women are smaller "down there" and a wide penis can be too painful for them, and while most women with a size preference seem to prefer girth, it's all subjective. 5.5" is thick enough for most women and 6" --though it might drive some women absolutely crazy--could be too much for an equal number of them. Gol "
    Like most old myths and legends, there's a kernel of truth in the story of "Goldilocks."
     
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    True. I think over 7" girth might be stretching it. Pardon the pun.
     
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    Yes, 7" would definitely be stretching it. That is massive. But thankfully, there are about as many women who pine for that sort of girth as there are men who can provide them with it: very, very few.
     
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    Stretch me big boy stretch me.










    PLEASE!! LOL
     
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    Please leave.
     
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