I sometimes think I might be in love, but I don't know whether it's just a crush. I'm so confused. I've never felt this... emotional... before. onder: I'm 25 and I was really interested to read one of Dee's threads in which he said that certain emotional drives don't kick in until a few years into adulthood. Advice from experienced members on how to tell the difference would be appreciated. I just don't feel I can discuss this with anyone close to me.