What is wrong with girls?! feedback needed.

[Tattooed Goddess]

At this point I have the opinion of a person that specializes in the field and works with the public of all demographic and backgrounds for over 50 years. I am more inclined to believe what he has been trained to notice and how to help a person with said issues. I didn't say I came up with that as an answer out of my own opinion. I just happen to trust someone who has a degree in the field than one who does not. It's as simple as that. Could he be fallible? Absolutely. We all are fallible.

 

[AlteredEgo]

At this point I have the opinion of a person that specializes in the field and works with the public of all demographic and backgrounds for over 50 years. I am more inclined to believe what he has been trained to notice and how to help a person with said issues. I didn't say I came up with that as an answer out of my own opinion. I just happen to trust someone who has a degree in the field than one who does not. It's as simple as that. Could he be fallible? Absolutely. We all are fallible.

Clearly there is much to gain from this person. That doesn't mean you abandon logic. It is 100% false to say that most people have a personality disorder. It simply defies both logic and linguistics.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I have no proof for either side of the argument.

 

[Masterpumper]

At this point I have the opinion of a person that specializes in the field and works with the public of all demographic and backgrounds for over 50 years. I am more inclined to believe what he has been trained to notice and how to help a person with said issues. I didn't say I came up with that as an answer out of my own opinion. I just happen to trust someone who has a degree in the field than one who does not. It's as simple as that. Could he be fallible? Absolutely. We all are fallible.

I'm curious: what is their degree in?

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Doctorate in Psychiatry from Yale. He also received his MD.

 

[Masterpumper]

Doctorate in Psychiatry from Yale. He also received his MD.

Exactly.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Would you rather him be a psychologist and not be able to prescribe any medicines? Do you believe all mental disorders can be treated with therapy or CBT?

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Actually forget that I asked that. At this point it's just becoming frustrating. It's not likely we are going to change either other's minds on the issue.

 

[sudcalifornio]

Any updates? masterpumper

 

[sexplease]

she may be
A) an attention whore or
B) ovulating or
C) all of the above

 

[docbrown2015]

I can't find a decent girl for anything.....

 

[sudcalifornio]

I can't find a decent girl for anything.....

be an asshole, chicks dig'em

 

[693987]

be an asshole, chicks dig'em

No, not all women like assholes. A hell of a lot do not. That's some poor advice and to give someone. Especially when they want a "decent girl".

 

[sudcalifornio]

No, not all women like assholes. A hell of a lot do not. That's some poor advice and to give someone. Especially when they want a "decent girl".

One thing is what they say, other is the reality...

 

[DaisyDoesIt]

be an asshole, chicks dig'em

Yup===we're really into mommies boys, man/children, assorted addicts and most morons, also.

 

[693987]

One thing is what they say, other is the reality...

And there is a pretty high amount of times you and other specific individuals on LPSG have been told by women, on here and probably elsewhere that that isn't true. You want a nice/good/whatever woman, don't be or behave like an asshole. It's like the guys who flash their cash to pick up women, then whine and complain, saying all women are gold diggers.

Myself, my female friends, and the women I know on here, none of us want an asshole. None of us want to be treated poorly. If we detect a hint of pick up artist bullshit, we are gone. Did some of them, even myself make a bad choice in the past? Yes, but it was a learning experience and I was literally only 18.

Complaining about likely naive women you encounter, or ones who actually like a life constantly full of drama, or like abuse are not likely the kind of women you want. Seeking women who like asshole behavior is a vicious circle, and this site is full of guys who complain about women being trash or gold diggers etc, when the common denominator is themselves.

Not only that, for you to claim a reality of the majority or all women liking a thing as though it is fact, when you post in Ask a Woman asking women for advice about a relatively basic thing... is amusing.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

be an asshole, chicks dig'em

Then you must be rolling in the pussy.

 

[TheRob]

Clearly there is much to gain from this person. That doesn't mean you abandon logic. It is 100% false to say that most people have a personality disorder. It simply defies both logic and linguistics.

it actually does not if you consider how minor something can be and qualify as a personality disorder. it would be crazy (forgive the pun!) to say the majority of people have MAJOR personality disorders tho. but you have to consider if someone works in the field, most people they work with have some type of disorder.

 

[TheRob]

So what went wrong? By the way she kept trying to impress me in our conversations (deep approval seeking) as after she said she was a model. I gave her a look that said "not impressed" with a lot of things she told me.

a few thing sstand out, perhaps she got tired of you treating her like shit
maybe she saw something on your FB that she could not abide (political post?)
maybe she saw a person on your friend list who she knows and absolutely can not stand or has had a sxual relationship with one of your relatives
in any event it would be better of her to have explained but the truth is if a woman notices a guy across the room staring at her it makes her uncomfortable, maybe it should have the same effect on guys.....

 

[TheRob]

She was working. It was dead. Only I was there...there was six waiters milling about cause it was not busy yet...

I know there are like over a dozen mor epages to read but, have you considered that now facebook says the person has 'accepted your request' when they see a msg from someone not ontheir friend list, it is possible you were never on her friend list to begin with. if you SAW on the little firend icon then yes