What is wrong with me?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Kassokilleri2ff, Oct 4, 2008.

  1. Kassokilleri2ff

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    So the girl im talking to blew me off for her friends tonight. I was so pissed. Months ago we talked and she blew me off many times over a few weeks and I stopped talking to her. Now we are talking again, I saw her once and we had sex (yay).

    But we made plans to see eachother this weekend, she blew me off yesterday, she blew me off today. She says we can chill tomorrow but I don't know. Anyways thats not the point.

    I was so mad about it. Its not like I yelled or anything crazy like that, but she knew I was pissed. Is it wrong for me to be mad about this girl that I barely know ditching me for whatever reason? I mean, we don't know eachother very well, I shouldn't expect her to ditch her friends for me, but I really wish she would. I would gladly ditch my friends for her.

    Its wierd how I feel. Like, I'm bored, I don't feel like playing video games or watching tv. I just want to chill with her. I feel kinda crappy and I'm really happy whenever we talk. I think about her all day long lol. My stomach feels crappy and my chest is like uhgg. I'm not hungry. When she blows me off I just feel like shit. Its wierd, its like I'm depressed all day now untill I talk to her or whatever.

    Am I fuckin crazy? I always hear stories about crazy guys doing stupid shit. (like one guy locked a girl I know in her room with him while she was passed out drunk). I know I'm not that crazy, but I must be to some extent.

    I'm thinking of stopping talking to this girl. Why should I feel depressed all day? I barely know her! I know a bit about her, we have taked a lot but still I really don't know shit. Why is it that I feel so crappy? I don't like it at all. What is this? Like a classic case of obsession or something insane like that? I hate to think that I'm like the crazy guy. I'm tempted to stop talking to her (again) so that I can stop feeling crappy all day

    What do you all think? Kassokilleri2ff posting his life problems again! Crazy bastard! lol
     
  2. sam_solo26

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    She's probably using you and stringing you along. She doesn't respect you or your time. Move onto other infatuations man.
     
  3. D_Bob_Crotchitch

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    Haven't you had this same problem before? Maybe, you ought to stop hunting girls for a while and work on yourself. Work on your self-esteem. If you tell someone what they are doing to you is hurting you, and they don't stop, tell them to step.
     
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    Sorry Kass, that sucks. I know you've been pretty stoked about this girl, I would be too. So I understand how you feel right now. Sounds like she might be stringing you along though, sorry to say.
     
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    I agree with Sam, K. She's a cool chick. You already slept with her. Find something else to do. She lied to you...again, and you're just hangin' around waitin' for her so you can have fun while she's already out having fun.
     
  6. Kassokilleri2ff

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    I talked to her a bit last night, we were both drunk lol. She says she really likes me alot. She said she is always a pain in the ass to deal with. I don't know what to think. She says she wants to just take it slow, to not jump into a relationship. Its hard to figure out if I'm being an impatient prick or if she is being a using bitch lol. I mean she says she really really likes me alot. I don't feel too crappy today. I guess our talk eased my tension a little bit so I guess I can handle it for a little bit longer.
     
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    Relationship? relationship? We don't need no stinkin' relationship. Now take your panties off and bend over.

    And don't lie to yourself. You don't want to just hang out. You know damn well next time you just "hang out", You are going to want your cock to hang out too.

    She sounds like she likes to play games, and you don't. But you like play... so play the games anyways.
     
  8. lucky8

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    I think she doesn't want a boyfriend but still wants to fuck...give her space and let her call you when she wants, NOT A BAD THING
     
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    Yeah, an 8" cock isn't something you find every day. She may just want to do the FWB thing.

    In which case.... use the opportunity to learn about sex with girls. Ask her what she likes, what gets her off, play with her anatomy, try different positions, learn how to get her off. That way, when you find a girl who doesn't want to be just fuck buddies, you'll be a good lover. That's hard to find in guys around your age.

    OTOH, it sounds like you're falling in love with her and if that's the case, then she has to make a choice soon because you can't be fuck buddies with someone you're in love with when they're not in love with you. It will seriously fuck you up. Stay cool and follow your conscience.
     
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    If she's playing with you with that thing you have between your legs, she's nuts. Drop her.
     
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    People that are kind and nice don't play mind games with you...you need to move on to someone that can appreciate you. This girl is a waste
     
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    She's not that into you. Drop her.
     
  13. got_lost

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    Well firstly, I agree with Jason - you have a huge crush on her and/or are falling in love.



    With regards to her and the 'games', I'm of 2 minds. Part of me agrees with the others but part of me wonders whether she's just a girl with a strong moral code towards her friends.

    Girls are often terrible to their friends when it comes to boys and will drop them like a ton of bricks yet come running back to them once it's all over and they're on their own again. Peer pressure for girls is not to do this. Maybe she's just bowing to that?

    Maybe she's anxious to see you again cos you were big?
    Maybe she's scared or getting involved with anyone right now?
    Ask her!
    Tell her you don't understand why she keeps blowing you off. Ask why it is.
     
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    don't expect her to change anytime soon. then decide if you are willing to accept her behavior. Bottom line: take her as is and don't bitch, OR walk and don't look back.
     
  15. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    Use your instincts.:yup: Im sure you already know in your mind if she is using you for a friendly fuck or if she is serious. Either way don't let yourself be anyone's bitch. Have more respect for yourself then to let some shitty girl play games with you and make you feel stupid and used
     
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    Maybe if you had friends and a life of your own you wouldn't be so worried about what this chick does with her time. Clearly she's not interested in what you're after. If she were you wouldn't still be in the same situation. Why not try leaving the video games alone for 5 minutes and meet someone you can chill with. I think once you don't have all this free time on your hands you'll be able to step back and realize she's not doing anything wrong and you were just being a bitch the whole time.

    She already has girl friends. You don't need to act like one.
     
  17. Gnashin Teefe

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    It's a sad reality of life but ... chicks dig rejection.

    Because you have made yourself too available for her, she has lost interest because she knows she can have you.

    If your heart is already too involved, then I'm not sure what you can do to fix the situation other than walk away.

    Ideally, you should take things at a more reasonable pace that matches her expectations. If she wants you just for the occasional booty call - well, then consider yourself lucky to have a FWB you can call on. Lots of guys would be thrilled to have sex without the complications of a relationship.
     
  18. Kassokilleri2ff

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    Actually I rarely play video games. I also chill with my friends quite a bit but I'd much rather try and chill with her instead.

    Also I've met 2 girls that i could easily chill with, but I have zero interest in neither of them. They are annoying and slightly crazy. They bother me alot and one keeps sending text messages even though I never talk to her.

    My friend hooked me up with a girl. She wanted sex, I hung out with her one night and didnt like her at all, so we didnt do anything. Then the girl this thread is about started talking to me again and I lost even more interest in the other girls lol.

    Edit: I just thought of something. The girl who my friend tried to hook me up with. She has 3 kids, works a full time job, AND goes to college 3 days a week i believe. Yet she constantly wanted me to come over and do stuff with her, even though she was so busy. Sigh, figures I don't like girl who is all about trying to see me.
     
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