What Is Your Stance On Porn?

[JakeCornish]

I also really enjoy porn and I consider it one of the coolest things that a man can have in their lives. But there is a period when you need to start thinking about more serious things. When we grow and became mature, porn starts to make us weak from more point of views. We start to waste time, we are less motivated to find a girl and more other things. I don't want to say that we need to exclude porn, there are many Free Premium Porn HD which deserves to be watched, but we need to understand that there is a limit. If porn becomes an usual thing for us, then it stops to be interesting for us, just a daily dose.

 

[MilfBanger78]

Agreed ^^

Porn can be a big time waster, and when it gets to the point where it limits u from pursuing sex partners, or going to the gym etc so you are more equipped to pursue new sex partners then it becomes a problem.

I've always used porn as a motivator, if i watch a really hot scene it gets me amped up to hit the dating apps, slip a hot cashier my number etc and get laid. And to get in the gym build more muscle so its easier to get pussy

 

[Infernal]

It's good for inspiration sometimes. I've got a huge collection, but I watch very little of it. I won't watch anything that's abusive though. There is a difference between someone enjoying rough sex and someone being abused. If the participants aren't enjoying it, then I can't either.

 

[DavidSea]

A lot of people abuse it and are addicted without even knowing it.

Truth is amateur homemade porn is way better and relatable compared to professionally shot porn. With the fake storylines and exaggerated reactions to pleasure.

Ive consciously decided to cut down on porn.
In the past it has definitely been problematic and took me away from doing important things.

To the point I’m watching it out of boredom or to procrastinate from important work.
That’s when it becomes an issue.

I think it’s more damaging for young people who aren’t having sex or having regular sex as it distorts their view when they’re consuming pork with their favourite pornstars.

I get more pleasure out of watching my own little clips or videos/pics women have sent me of them

 

[404goldie]

I love it but realize it can be addictive to certain people. I believe it desensitizes you, maybe some more than others (?) and that is sad to me. But it is part of modern life now. If I had kids, I would be very strict about their access to their phone. Too easy for them to look at porn while their brains are still developing and they are impressionable. I tell my young guy friends not to watch it too much. Go out there and connect with people.

 

[Milkdudd]

I feel like if you've made your way to this sight, you've probably got a pretty positive viewpoint on porn

 

[Hot-n-Heavy69]

I only catch glimpses when I come up for air! Terrible music though..

 

[Capitolhillguy]

I love porn and collect it everyday. I no longer get off everyday. My problem is I am very very picky and rarely rarely ever find porn I can get off to. I don't understand the insistence on a fucking cumshot, which is always always always at the expense of seeing the partners having the type of sex I would like to have at the baths or a hotel room. WHY WHY WHY can't a sex partner be gotten off by the ministrations of their partner's ass or inside his mouth rather than having to always unromantically jack off. NO top ever ever gets off except by getting themselves off in any major studio porn, with the rare exception by of an occasional Helix, Cockyboys and the Say Father incest conglomerate. Sean Cody used to have about 60 scenes with great internal cumshots, but now maybe once a year. I HATE the fake cum shots that never look like real cum!!!! I also only ever do oral sex in real life, but find 95% of oral sex in porn is not done in a way that could ever get a partner off, and the top almost never ever explodes in the mouth of his partner. I would never ever ever ever want someone to give me a fucking facial. If I am sucking your dick you blast off in my fucking mouth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Needless to say I view hundreds of porn videos a week before I ever find one that meets my strict criterium.

 

[LQC]

Well, Nicholas Kristoff and The New York Times are on their anti-porn crusade again (he claims it’s not anti-porn but that’s exactly what it is). His new target is XVideos, and other sites owned by the same company. After the evisceration of Pornhub, people migrated to XVideos, and now, he’s going after them too. Me thinks he doth protest too much. Far far too much.

 

[LunaDel]

I love porn and collect it everyday. I no longer get off everyday. My problem is I am very very picky and rarely rarely ever find porn I can get off to. I don't understand the insistence on a fucking cumshot, which is always always always at the expense of seeing the partners having the type of sex I would like to have at the baths or a hotel room. WHY WHY WHY can't a sex partner be gotten off by the ministrations of their partner's ass or inside his mouth rather than having to always unromantically jack off. NO top ever ever gets off except by getting themselves off in any major studio porn, with the rare exception by of an occasional Helix, Cockyboys and the Say Father incest conglomerate. Sean Cody used to have about 60 scenes with great internal cumshots, but now maybe once a year. I HATE the fake cum shots that never look like real cum!!!! I also only ever do oral sex in real life, but find 95% of oral sex in porn is not done in a way that could ever get a partner off, and the top almost never ever explodes in the mouth of his partner. I would never ever ever ever want someone to give me a fucking facial. If I am sucking your dick you blast off in my fucking mouth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Needless to say I view hundreds of porn videos a week before I ever find one that meets my strict criterium.

I know right, it's such a hassle they have to turn us off in the middle of doing our business because of those cut offs some scenes just looks perfect and most of them looks so fzrn superficial

 

[LQC]

I love porn and collect it everyday. I no longer get off everyday. My problem is I am very very picky and rarely rarely ever find porn I can get off to. I don't understand the insistence on a fucking cumshot, which is always always always at the expense of seeing the partners having the type of sex I would like to have at the baths or a hotel room. WHY WHY WHY can't a sex partner be gotten off by the ministrations of their partner's ass or inside his mouth rather than having to always unromantically jack off. NO top ever ever gets off except by getting themselves off in any major studio porn, with the rare exception by of an occasional Helix, Cockyboys and the Say Father incest conglomerate. Sean Cody used to have about 60 scenes with great internal cumshots, but now maybe once a year. I HATE the fake cum shots that never look like real cum!!!! I also only ever do oral sex in real life, but find 95% of oral sex in porn is not done in a way that could ever get a partner off, and the top almost never ever explodes in the mouth of his partner. I would never ever ever ever want someone to give me a fucking facial. If I am sucking your dick you blast off in my fucking mouth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Needless to say I view hundreds of porn videos a week before I ever find one that meets my strict criterium.

The cum shot is the MONEY shot. That’s why. If I watch a porn, and I don’t get to see the ejaculation, I am pissed and feel ripped off. I don’t steal porn, I pay for the porn I watch, and I expect to see the jizz spurting. It’s hot. What I hate is when it’s just a close up of the dick and I don’t get to see the facial expressions of the guy when he shoots. The best porn is when the climax/ejaculation is shot from multiple angles with multiple cameras so I can see a close up as well as facial expressions and at least two different angles of the spurting, as well as the close up of it.

 

[CharmingBilly]

No problem for me

 

[borntobeking]

I think porn is great. I watch it pretty much daily and still have an active and satisfying sex life with my wife. Its all good.

 

[deleted5700751]

i love it and i have no problem with the wife watching it, i encourage it.

 

[merc41]

I love porn. It is an outlet for my sexual fantasies. I've learned something's too, positions, methods ,how to talk to women about sex , the difference between love and sex, how sex is supposed to be fun,enjoyable and satisfying. It has helped with my curiosities, big tits, anal , and fetishes.

 

[dreamkendrafuckME]

porn is good. people shouldn't see it as like real sex.
this is like thinking playing FIFA is like playing real football.

 

[EllieP]

To me porn is like horror movies and video games. I know a lot of people that like them, but I have no interest in any of them.

I just wish those that like porn would realize that like horror movies and video games there's very little in it that mirrors real life.

 

[18wheeler]

I’d say in addicted. I’m more addicted to coming to this site.
I also think it’s affected my relationships with my significant others.

 

[kronos]

Hot take: When I do watch it I have a very difficult time watching anything that isn't real people filming themselves having a good time (as opposed to business as usual), genuine emotions, experiences. Most porn is sex negative, unhealthily parasocial and reinforces weird beauty standards (no offense meant to anyone here who might make studio-style porn).

 

[LQC]

Hot take: When I do watch it I have a very difficult time watching anything that isn't real people filming themselves having a good time (as opposed to business as usual), genuine emotions, experiences. Most porn is sex negative, unhealthily parasocial and reinforces weird beauty standards (no offense meant to anyone here who might make studio-style porn).

I mean, yeah, “studio porn” can be really empty and boring. For example, look at Sean Cody from before, and then after, he sold it. After it was bought and became “studio” porn, the videos just became so empty and superficial. Me? I gravitate to more everyday amateur guys/sites that use more amateur type guys off the streets and who respond to ads, rather than the empty mannequins in “Studio Porn”. The only time “studio” porn works for me is when it’s from very minor (usually) lower budget “studios” that are specializing in niche fetishes or fantasies (because whatever niche or fantasy it is I have an interest in), but even then, sometimes they do it really badly.