Glad I found this forum a few days ago and have enjoyed reading lots of questions, answers, and just plain opinions. This isn't any big problem but just something I've wondered about from time to time. I'm basically heterosexual, leaning lately toward bi-curious and I'd like to know what you ladies and guys think about my preferences. Quite simply I do not enjoy giving oral sex to anyone, female or male. (I had some unpleasant early experiences with my partners' hygiene I still remember.) Most of my sexual experiences have been with ladies and, with them, I prefer straight vaginal intercourse, of course in many positions; but no anal at all. My fewer experiences with guys have been satisfactory with mutual masturbation, again no anal. Here's where the kicker comes in: I love a good blow job, have had them from guys and gals; however, I'm NEVER going to expect any partner to do something to me that I don't want to do to him/ her. Now, if either of them really enjoy giving me head, I'm not going to deny them their enjoyment. As always, with both genders, I enjoy lots of rubbing, caressing, and mutual exploration before, during, and after, I enjoy sleeping with my partner until dawn, and relish our mornings together (maybe some repeat performances?) with no hurry to leave or see him/ her leave. Anyone else out there feel this same way? Ladies and guys, how many of you have met someone like me?