What kind of gains can I expect from just jelqing?

[basincreek]

If I were to add a pump to what I'm doing what would be the best way? Should I pump after jelqing? Before? On my off days?

 

[D_Myer_Dogasflees]

ffs get a stretcher and wear it while you sleep and studying/if ur working @home. only jelk when it's convient, don't do it seriously, FAR too much time and will power. it will destroy your life's economy

 

[D_Myer_Dogasflees]

Check this site:Favourite penis size - Stripper Web Exotic Dancer Community
30% like 6" or less; 65% like 7" or less. Clear your head.

8.5 x 6.25 is most preferred by woman
http://www.penissizedebate.com/images/doc/penis_size_preference_chart1.gif

 

[TDurden1979]

8.5 x 6.25 is most preferred by woman
http://www.penissizedebate.com/images/doc/penis_size_preference_chart1.gif

Looks to me like the range on that chart is 7.5" to 8.25" in length by 6.25" to 6.5" in girth. All those measurements fall into category "A".

 

[basincreek]

ffs get a stretcher and wear it while you sleep and studying/if ur working @home. only jelk when it's convient, don't do it seriously, FAR too much time and will power. it will destroy your life's economy

I'm already an avid exerciser (of regular muscles) so a routine of jelqing is not too onerous.

8.5 x 6.25 is most preferred by woman
http://www.penissizedebate.com/images/doc/penis_size_preference_chart1.gif

I'm thinking that sounds a bit big for the average woman.

 

[green26]

Dude, you need to relax, if a woman wants you only based on the size of you dick, then "run Forest run". Don't let one rejection destroy your sex life, its all part of being a man.

 

[MattBrick]

What is clamping?

Clamping is getting a hardon and putting a cable clamp from the home depot around your dick. This forces the blood to stay in your penis. More blood enters, but it goes in faster than it can go out. The theory is you get a super erection, and eventually it gets bigger from this. They also use silicone as a padding between the clamp and skin.

But importantly, don't try this. At least not now. It can be dangerous.
If you want to, wait say a year, until you have mastered other excercised and know how not to injure yourself

 

[basincreek]

Dude, you need to relax, if a woman wants you only based on the size of you dick, then "run Forest run". Don't let one rejection destroy your sex life, its all part of being a man.

Most of what few single women we have around here are strippers. It's hard to relax around them.

Clamping is getting a hardon and putting a cable clamp from the home depot around your dick. This forces the blood to stay in your penis. More blood enters, but it goes in faster than it can go out. The theory is you get a super erection, and eventually it gets bigger from this. They also use silicone as a padding between the clamp and skin.

But importantly, don't try this. At least not now. It can be dangerous.
If you want to, wait say a year, until you have mastered other excercised and know how not to injure yourself

Okay, thanks. It does sound a bit dangerous.

 

[MattBrick]

Most of what few single women we have around here are strippers. It's hard to relax around them.



Okay, thanks. It does sound a bit dangerous.

Stripppers, nice!
Alright I see maybe where you are coming from.
Maybe start meeting girls at a vegetarian potluck or something, or your religious community?

 

[green26]

Most of what few single women we have around here are strippers. It's hard to relax around them.



Okay, thanks. It does sound a bit dangerous.

It doesn't matter that they are strippers. Have confidence in yourself, act and feel like you have a 10 inch dick, believe me it will make a difference how they see you.

 

[D_Hammond Happydipper]

Looks to me like the range on that chart is 7.5" to 8.25" in length by 6.25" to 6.5" in girth. All those measurements fall into category "A".

that chart is unrealistic

 

[basincreek]

Stripppers, nice!
Alright I see maybe where you are coming from.
Maybe start meeting girls at a vegetarian potluck or something, or your religious community?

I think people put vegetables on the plate around the animals they kill every now and then. But I think a true "vegetarian" would probably be arrested on sight.

As a rather militant atheist I doubt I would be accepted into any of the local religious communities. Especially since I was pretty much the only guy locally that campaigned against Prop 8. We still have the Klan around these parts.

It doesn't matter that they are strippers. Have confidence in yourself, act and feel like you have a 10 inch dick, believe me it will make a difference how they see you.

I don't doubt that would help get me dates. It's what comes after that I'm worried somewhat about.

 

[mexdude]

basincreek
basincreek
basincreek, its ok if u want to do some PE to get results in the long therm, but to get u a girlfriend, u need to stop being afraid, yea some girls may be mean to u, others wont even talk u, but eventually u will find the right one, but u have to try more, even if it takes some time dating several girls

 

[double_digit]

ffs get a stretcher and wear it while you sleep and studying/if ur working @home. only jelk when it's convient, don't do it seriously, FAR too much time and will power. it will destroy your life's economy

Patently BAD advice. Never ever wear ANY device that applies pressure, tension, vaccum or restricts the normal movement of blood through tissues in your sleep. NEVER.

8.5 x 6.25 is most preferred by woman
http://www.penissizedebate.com/images/doc/penis_size_preference_chart1.gif

Look at the source of information. A site interested in selling poorly made and rather expensive for being so CHEAP vacuum devices. Take that chart with a grain of salt. Hell, borrow my licking block all you want as you ponder that point.

Okay. I've gone to those sites. They are filled with information.


Is getting myself to a 7x 5.75 a good goal to ensure that I won't have to worry about being too small to get a girlfriend anymore?

I'm comfortable to admit I'm doing this more for me than for women.

And here I think we finally pinned the problem. Indeed. Do it for yourself. Do not do it for a girlfriend or companion. But by wearing the mantle of confident success NOW will likely clear up some of your issues and likely make you forget that there was a "problem" in the first place. A big dick will not rope the girl. 9/10ths of everything in life that is successful is attitude. The other 10% is timing and preparedness. Figure that out and you're in the game. ;>

 

[redbear52]

Is getting myself to a 7x 5.75 a good goal to ensure that I won't have to worry about being too small to get a girlfriend anymore?

A bone-pressed erect length of 7" and a maximal base erect girth of around 5.75" is just about exactly where I was before marriage. And I don't think any woman I slept with ever considered me small. I may not have created "shock and awe" but those women who did express an opinion considered me at least "well-endowed".

Rest assured, a great many men much smaller than that have been successful in finding girlfriends and keeping them happy.

As for the penissizedebate women's preference chart, if you read the measuring instructions on that site, you will find that the measurements in the chart refer to BPEL and maximal erect girth. I would like very much to believe in the chart, because presently I just make it into the "A" category. But that chart gets rediscovered just about weekly and posted in various blogs. When it attracts comments from women, they are almost invariably of the "WTF" nature, as in "I'm not letting anything that big get near my coochie!"

 

[basincreek]

I'd like to get a pump. But on a budget. Does anyone have any suggestions?

I'm not quitting the jelqing.