What kind of man asks his woman to masturbate for him while he refused to see her?

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We are in a long distance relationship. He asks me to touch/masterbate myself and record the video for him. When I was in his city, he refused to see me. What kind of man he is? Is he sick? Does he love me?
 

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How legitimate do you consider the relationship? Have you ever met in person? Do you actually know him well? If not, it may be that he's uncomfortable bridging that gap between virtual sex buddy and genuine girlfriend. Maybe he fears rejection if you meet face to face. Or he might consider the relationship far more trivial than you do, as others suggest, which would be quite selfish. Or worse, he could be hiding something, like that he's married. Instead of asking what kind of man this is, I would ask him why he refuses.
 

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How legitimate do you consider the relationship? Have you ever met in person? Do you actually know him well? If not, it may be that he's uncomfortable bridging that gap between virtual sex buddy and genuine girlfriend. Maybe he fears rejection if you meet face to face. Or he might consider the relationship far more trivial than you do, as others suggest, which would be quite selfish. Or worse, he could be hiding something, like that he's married. Instead of asking what kind of man this is, I would ask him why he refuses.

He said he was busy. He had a new job. So he didn't have holidays. But I think it's just excuses.

I really don't know him. The only thing I know is that he used to have a 7-years gf. She left him. Everytime I mentioned her, he was mad. He also had serval other not long not short relationships. But all ended painfully. He is not willing to let me know him and his family. If you have ever watched Sex and City, he is Mr. Big in reality.
 

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If I am reading this right you have not met him yet...? If that is the case give and ultimatum and end it...and stop sending him videos. Sounds like he's playing you and you're way more invested than he is.
 

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Sounds like he can't find anyone/thing to get him off wherever he is, so he relies on YOU to get him off, but won't return the favor. Get rid of him; It shouldn't be a one sided relationship, and don't listen to any bullshit "Baby, it was good" stories either.
 

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If I am reading this right you have not met him yet...? If that is the case give and ultimatum and end it...and stop sending him videos. Sounds like he's playing you and you're way more invested than he is.

Not in reality. Only video chat. But he almost doesn't talk anything else but sex.