That's kind of my goal. Trying to upgrade the filth I watch to make it as girlfriend friendly as possible
Ah, well in that case, let me tell you what my pet peeves are!
If one aspect is especially good, I can overlook some of the other ones, so this is just a general guideline, not absolute rules:
Pet Peeves:
1. If the camera-work and "sexyface" acting make me feel like I'm a third person in a room with two people fucking. Example, they're doing it doggy style and the camera is facing her. Instead of looking at the man with his penis in her and looking sexy at him, she looks straight in front of her, into the camera, and she makes "sexyface" that seems to be completely unrelated to the actions of the man with his penis in her. It breaks through the "fourth wall" and instead of allowing me to imagine I'm the woman in the scenario, makes me feel like I'm in front of her watching her having sex while she seems to be unaware of what he's doing with his penis. I don't want to imagine I'm a third person in the room. I want to imagine I'm getting rammed by a hot stud.
2. If the guy isn't enjoyable to look at. Oh so many pornos with this issue. Men with tits. Men with beer bellies. Men with questionable hair. I've date men who are less than physically perfect and they had qualities that made me desire them, but I don't want to watch men I'm not attracted to in a porno.
3. Really Fake orgasms. Fake screaming. Fake dirty talking. Non-stop nonsensical fake sounding noises. Faking in general. If you can't act well enough to sell it, don't fake it.
4. Boredom. Maybe this is why they try faking it.
5. Not enjoying it. I can tell if she doesn't like his hands or his cock or his technique and it's a turn-off. There are a few pornos where I can tell that he's good at fucking, his got great hands, and I want to have sex with him. Turn-on!
Turn-ons:
1. Real enthusiasm
2. Real orgasms, or at least realistic fake orgasms
3. No acting, acting well enough that I'm not aware of the acting
4. Muscular/fit/young/hot actors
A lot of the reason why I enjoy gay porn and kinky porn is because there's less of my pet peeves and more of my turn-ons in them. I'm not into a lot of kinks myself, but the participants seem to enjoy their kinks so much that I get off on their enjoyment. Blowjobs given by men are usually much hotter, but I do love Heather Brooke. She is just adorable and seems to really enjoy herself.
I also dislike fake boobs and fake nails, but I can overlook them if the other things are really good. If a guy is really really hot, I can overlook the fact that he's obviously gay-for-pay and not as into it as he could be. If the orgasms and real sex is excellent, I can overlook imperfect bodies. My rules aren't absolutes at all, just a list of the things that generally bother me.
I'm not into stories, but I do love sensuality, like the sexy scenes in the movie Body Heat.
