what kind of woman are you?

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That is an Oxymoron

Not if you think about it....:smile: She is compassionate through her chosen medium of bitchiness.

I am enneagram 4. Sometimes called the diva or the connoisseur. I have a velvet lined toolbox and set the mood before I try to mend my kitchen sink. This is often mistaken for inefficiency, but when I get to the sink after six weeks, it's going to take me five minutes. :tongue: But then I get to grumble about it for six weeks more, oh boy!

It keeps me entertained with a minimum of external stimulus, which is good because I am easily overwhelmed. Though I canact correctly in a crisis it leaves me drained. I prefer mending what's in the pile.
 

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I'm alot like my star sign, Scorpio.... I'm very much a fire and ice girl....I can be very passionate and caring, but can also get mad really easily lol... If you meet me in person,depending on the day or place, you go away with the idea that I'm a caring people person, or a heartless bitch lol! Sometimes I can't elaborate or put my meanings across, but I'll damn well try... I'm not the best at making friends, because I also speak my mind....

I guess I'm like a bunch of grapes.... Some of me is yummy, some sour, and you never quite know what you are going to get lol
 

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I'd say I'm like a puppy. If we don't know each other I'll be distant and probably 'bark' a couple of times but it's only because I'm a little shy and unsure about people I don't know. But once you get to know me there isn't a thing in the world I wouldn't do to keep a friend happy.

But like any other girl, if someone pisses me off or picks on a friend of mine expect a battle.
 

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I'm alot like my star sign, Scorpio.... I'm very much a fire and ice girl....I can be very passionate and caring, but can also get mad really easily lol... If you meet me in person,depending on the day or place, you go away with the idea that I'm a caring people person, or a heartless bitch lol! Sometimes I can't elaborate or put my meanings across, but I'll damn well try... I'm not the best at making friends, because I also speak my mind....

I guess I'm like a bunch of grapes.... Some of me is yummy, some sour, and you never quite know what you are going to get lol

I thought that was a box of chocolates... I definitely can relate. With Scorpios things are pretty much black or white and no grey area. It makes us often an acquired taste. But for those who love us, they love us. I scored a 5 on the Enneagram test. I think that may be where I am right now. I am in hunker down mode. I as an oldest can be bossy at times and have an explosive temper which I think I have been tamping down so much it probably comes out in spurts. I am a caretaker and many times I really feel like getting off the merry go round but my greater sense of responsibility has been there at the detriment of some of my own wishes and desires. I am introverted and tend to try to avoid conflict sometimes to a fault. The anger however is stil very much there and I fester. IT usually comes out in my feeling depressed at times. I have many who depend upon me, but I often feel at a loss for who I can depend upon. I have a very active inner life to which only a few are really privy .I express myself in almost every area of the arts. I feel a change strongly coming soon....
 
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I would say I'm sweet and squishy on the outside and absolutely resilient at my core. At my best, I am charming, thoughtful and sociable and at my worst I am lazy, disorganized and depressed. Other people have told me I'm funny, smart, sexy, creative and rather desirable. I've been described as "Viagra on legs". A walking contradiction, I'm almost always "fashionably" late but hate waiting for others. I love to sleep but when I'm awake, I want to get up and go. I'm a terrible housekeeper but when I do clean, I wear something sexy and heels and blast Cuban cha-cha music to make it fun.

I'm a mother and tend to be protective of the people I love. And I am apparently poly-amorous because I seem to be able to love many! I will organize a dinner party for 20, stress about it up to the last minute, pull it off in spades and then quickly point out what went wrong when others commend me on a job well done. (Secretly, I'm proud of myself and pleased as punch!) I will pick up the ball and run with it if it's dropped. I like to get to the point. Indecisiveness makes me crazy. I aim to be unique and complicated and daring. I am a quintessential cat- soft and warm but with teeth and claws.

I'm a 2 on the enneagram.
 

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I should also mention some of my "odder" traits.
I must have tic tacs with me at ALL times ;p I panic without them
I sometimes wear bondage underwear to work
I secretly( well, not so secretly now lol) love sprouts.... Always have.... But hate broccoli
I can't stand having to wear a bucket/wide brim/ bowler/ etc type hat.. I just can't!
and my ultimate plan in life is to be the old cat lady you see on tv because she has 50 cats in her house lol ( and one dog hehe)
;D
 

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I'm usually friendly, but my line of work puts me into direct contact with people of every type who are in large groups that require direction. I have learned to accept that not everyone thinks the way I do and it's always best to give the benefit of the doubt. I can be very forgiving, but if I am deeply hurt by someone I care for more than once, I have the terrible trait of cutting them out of my life totally and forever. I want to forgive these people deep inside, but never have. I inherited this from my mom for sure. I do not want to be around people who like hurting other people. Otherwise, I am a typical Cancer....loving, sensitive, homebody, insecure (very) at times, etc. But that Super Bitch pops out every now and then and WHOA! I do not like her one bit!
 
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I'm nice, but would best fit misanthropy.
I struggle to feel for anyone in a romantic sense - and there are undertones of kink most do not at all expect.
I like my men big, attractive and able - preferably long haired also, with a bad boys rep to boot.
I go for the wrong kind of guy - and I don't seek out romance.
If someone hurts me though, I hurt them where it'll hurt the most emotionally.
I hold few people close, and I'm not suggestable on the internet.
 

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Thats a cool test. Im a 7 and it is definitely 100% true of my personality

Sevens are extroverted, optimistic, versatile, and spontaneous. Playful, high-spirited, and practical, they can also misapply their many talents, becoming over- extended, scattered, and undisciplined. They constantly seek new and exciting experiences, but can become distracted and exhausted by staying on the go. They typically have problems with impatience and impulsiveness. At their Best: they focus their talents on worthwhile goals, becoming appreciative, joyous, and satisfied.
 

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I just did a sample enneagram test and mine came out with highest score on #2 The Helper with a tie between #7 The Enthusiast and #9 The Peacemaker. What a combination I am. I sound like a helpful cheerleader hippie. Ha Ha.

I have always been told that I come across as "grandmotherly". This was what people said when I was 16 years old. I am a Virgo and I don't know that much about horoscopes, but maybe it means something.
 

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Which one are you guys taking? I had never heard of this test and was curious, so I thought I'd give it a go.

I went to here:

Free Enneagram Test

And I found their free test to be too hard for me to take. Like for instance:

1. I've been
romantic and imaginative.
pragmatic and down to earth.

I totally can't answer that. I am both, pretty much 50/50. Their more extensive test costs money, so I went to here:

Free Jung + Enneagram Personality Test

And that one looks good but I don't have the time to take a 100 question test right at the moment. Was wondering if that's what you all used. Or if you paid the money to take the extensive test.
 

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Great thread, Dolfy. Be careful when you drink a glass of coconut milk -- you might turn into a Pina Colada!

True story - I went on a blind date with this fellow who was definitely a few years younger than me and I would say 19 (I was 25). He was trying so hard to impress me when the waiter came to take our drink order he said just as plainly "and the lady would like a Penis Colada." The waiter asked him to repeat it and he did! I thought I was going to die! The waiter gave me a sly smile and later came back and said "and a Penis Colada for the lady."

Now whenever I read Pina Colada I always think of that poor fellow. I hope he eventually learned. I wasn't in the mood to teach him that evening. And yes, it was the only penis I got that evening.
 

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i went ahead and did the enneagram test i found at similarminds.com and i scored as a type 2 (the helper). that seems mostly appropriate for me.