suaige: I am 7.75 maybe a bit more at times, but not much. I was longer than my ex and she found sex painful. Is the common? Many men have mentioned being long and getting in part or all of the way, but with out refrences. How many of you out there bigger then me have been able to get in all the way. Or if not all the way, how far did you get without pain. Did girth seem to pose a problem?