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For me I'm still in the stage of understanding if I'm bi or straight with a dick obsession. It's all new to me. What was the turning point for you to accept it?
So, for me, the turning point and realization was when I messed around with a friend of mine when we were both in college. Before I go further, let me step back a bit. In all honesty I didn't "discover" the term bisexuality until I was in college - for me it was either you were gay or you were straight. Period. Growing up as a teen in the early to mid 1980s and going to school I couldn't understand why I was attracted to both sexes. It was like there was this tug of war within me where I was on a wall and the gay side was trying to pull me over and at the same time the straight side was trying to pull me over - it didn't make sense. I felt pretty confused. I'd always had an interest in girls and had girlfriends, but my eyes also landed on the boys as well. I can actually pinpoint the period in my life where I developed a crush an another boy (he in 6th grade, me in 5th). I guess you could say that's when the fire first sparked. Fast forward to the early 1990s and I'm in college / university. Technology was rapidly changing and, with the help of satellite tv (my parents had one of those huge satellite antenna dishes), porn started to become more readily available. If the fire had been sparked way back when, it was now burning bright blue. Once I had my first sexual experience and admitted to myself that I was bi, I really felt more at peace with myself - it was like the proverbial heavy weight had been lifted off my shoulders.