Interesting thread. Love the honesty. They are many real bisexual men. It's not fake news! And it's not about being in denial about being completely gay (although that can happen).
How can someone really know what you like sexually anyways? And why would they care? Ask yourself that.
Yes, some men are very, very gay with hardly any sexual attraction to women at all. But that is just a minority of men.
I'm friends on here with two bisexual men. Yes, everyone, I can tell you that they both love pussy, just like your car mechanic down the ride. I think the one, though, only likes romantic relationships with women, however. They both are also very aroused by big dicks - I can swear to you!
Interesting thread, interesting discussion.
It reminds me of my first same sex experience. After shagging him multiple times in his room he shared his opinion that "I was gay and didn't know it" and "welcomed me to the team" i.e. team gay. (He was proud and happy to have "converted" me knowing it was my first time with a guy--which I relished.) I took it all with good humor but neither confirmed or denied any sexual preference. Flamingly effeminate he was a guest at the hotel where I worked in college. A one time thing I never saw him again.
The next guy and I had a secret affair. We were in our fourth year as classmates at uni. He knew I had girlfriends and made no comment or inquiry about my preference. He was out. Everyone knew he was flaming gay. I appreciated his discretion. He appreciated me between his legs.
The point is I've never been out as bi. I advertise no preference because
I don't have one outside the individuals to whom I'm attracted who are attracted to me.
Identity creates in-groups, out-groups, cliques, discrimination, walls, prejudice and closed minds.
There are better ways to think and be.