What Made You Realise You Were Bi Rather Than Just Bi Curious Or Straight?

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Depending on your ages, I’d find an opportunity where you can somehow loosen him up so to speak. Like a night of drinking. Perhaps, as he becomes relaxed and a bit tipsy, he will open up more. Now I wouldn’t expect to hit a home run the first time, but open the possibilities slowly.

Maybe if at the urinal together and alone you glance at his dick and comment on how big it is. Or steer a conversation to sex and indicate how you want to get off tonight. Maybe mention but nobody around to hook up with. If at a house, maybe watch some porn.

you can get a better sense in these situations based on how he responds. If he knows your gay/bi, indicate how bad you want to suck a sick tonight or something. Or if he indicates how horny he is, offer a private blowjob or handjob.

I have encountered many first timers, but it’s been in hookup sites or them cruzing places where you are actively looking for sex. Good luck!


Thanks a lot man! You are the best!
 
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Hey thank you for responding.

Now you know you cannot leave us hanging on your story! So please, if comfortable, share it. I mean it when I say reading the postings on these threads have helped me from under a lifetime of confusion about myself. The more I read of how others struggle to fit in the binary sexual orientation the more I feel less like some sort of weirdo.
See post #82 above.
 
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When I was discovering myself, I discovered straight porn. And while I was attracted to the female being fucked, I was equally attracted to the man's strong erection penetrating the female's pussy. It was confusing at first, but it was at that young age that I realised that I'm probably attracted to both males and females. I am happily married now to a girl and love sex with her. I don't have eyes for any other girl, but I continue to be attracted by the male body form.
That’s how it had been for me for years....
 
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It’s funny that most people think they’re straight and then something makes them bi. For me it’s the opposite - I thought I was gay. I always wished I could hook up with girls,
I found them attractive, but for some reason I preferred guys and never made a move on women.

Then one day I had a threesome with a guy a woman, and from that point on I knew I was bi. To the point that now sometimes all I want is pussy.
 

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I was bi-curious for a long time. I have always been attracted to men and then finally felt like I needed to act on it to see if there was more to how I was feeling. It turned out that I enjoyed way more then I ever thought and now I am sexually attracted to both male and female the same.
If more dudes only knew how mind blowing man on man sex is, our world would be a better place.
 

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Definitely has to be my very first male-male experience when I had a massage. Being a lot younger and with the masseur being a lot older and experienced helped a lot for me to feel comfortable and at ease.

When my arse had very warm oil poured all over it while being massaged and that oil starts entering my hole while being probed, it turned me on immensely. The hand job that followed that first time when I flipped over, I blew my load ever so fast. I was shocked, stunned and excited.

I obviously love the "massages" so I kept coming back for more and they progressed further and further each time and I got to learn and taught various MM physical contact. Probably why it led me to becoming so submissive and a bottom. I enjoyed being told what to do and how to do it. It was nice to be able to be so sexually turned on and being so passive and reserved in nature.

When it eventually led to anal, I couldnt believe just how much pleasure I got from the experience, both personally and also being able to satisfy a sexual partner completely in every way.
 

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I find women beautiful ever since I found a copy of Playboy that was hidden by my dad and it turned me on. Also I realized that I got turn on by shirtless fitness cover models and also Playgirl Cover guys. I even drew nude men and women as a hobby as a kid and loved Ancient Greek Art. I was in the closet til 2009 and Mike C. Manning was my role model and inspired me to come out. My parents were accepting and except my brothers. They later accepted later and we get along now. My oldest sister tried to get me into that stupid conversion therapy and I shrugged it off. She also later accepted me. My other sister was accepting.
 

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I find women beautiful ever since I found a copy of Playboy that was hidden by my dad and it turned me on. Also I realized that I got turn on by shirtless fitness cover models and also Playgirl Cover guys. I even drew nude men and women as a hobby as a kid and loved Ancient Greek Art. I was in the closet til 2009 and Mike C. Manning was my role model and inspired me to come out. My parents were accepting and except my brothers. They later accepted later and we get along now. My oldest sister tried to get me into that stupid conversion therapy and I shrugged it off. She also later accepted me. My other sister was accepting.
I was a very straight guy... Or so I thought... But some of those Playgirls models... Looking at them when my girlfriend was in the shower started my 'addiction'...
 

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When I was discovering myself, I discovered straight porn. And while I was attracted to the female being fucked, I was equally attracted to the man's strong erection penetrating the female's pussy. It was confusing at first, but it was at that young age that I realised that I'm probably attracted to both males and females. I am happily married now to a girl and love sex with her. I don't have eyes for any other girl, but I continue to be attracted by the male body form.


Hey.. . Same story with me. :)
 

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I have always been turned on by attractive people, male and female alike. As a young person, I found this confusing and just dated girls. I didn't understand it wasn't an either or situation. I could enjoy both. I was fairly sheltered.
 

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I have always been turned on by attractive people, male and female alike. As a young person, I found this confusing and just dated girls. I didn't understand it wasn't an either or situation. I could enjoy both. I was fairly sheltered.
Time to try a cock and see how you like it!
 

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Time to try a cock and see how you like it!
I would, but I am in an exclusive relationship, so it might not ever happen. If I am ever single again, that will be my very next adventure.
 

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I would, but I am in an exclusive relationship, so it might not ever happen. If I am ever single again, that will be my very next adventure.

Lol Yeah Buddy
& while we love & respect that.

If you were in LA curious & single you'd have to beat gay bitches off with a stick.
Lol..

I find women beautiful ever since I found a copy of Playboy that was hidden by my dad and it turned me on. Also I realized that I got turn on by shirtless fitness cover models and also Playgirl Cover guys. I even drew nude men and women as a hobby as a kid and loved Ancient Greek Art. I was in the closet til 2009 and Mike C. Manning was my role model and inspired me to come out. My parents were accepting and except my brothers. They later accepted later and we get along now. My oldest sister tried to get me into that stupid conversion therapy and I shrugged it off. She also later accepted me. My other sister was accepting.
I know plenty guys like this.

Especially the conversion therapy deal.
But back to the topic
 

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Serpentlike maxmax25, Southlincsnudist, Brianneal74, 0010661,

Petnax, bigbull29, fuckyeah, X rated



You guys all have amazing contributions here.

In my professional life, for different reasons, I have guys telling me their shit & a good many times, it’s on topics like this.



It’s increasingly surprising for me, since the military during don’t ask don’t tell, while simultaneously doing research for this topic



& all your responses sound just like that of the guys who told me similar shit during research, or now, especially in the past 4 years, privately.



It just knows me on my ass, just to walk around the barracks & see the guys “openly” looking at bit gay shit on their phones. Joking about more.



I never thought I’d see that in my lifetime.
 

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I'm just sexual, and as far back as I remember (i.e., looking at my dad's Playboy, Penthouse magazines, etc) being turned on looking at couples going at it. I wanted to see the hard cocks and yea, the women who were in the couples pictorials getting nailed.

IDK, during my college years is when I realized I am bi if I had to pinpoint a time in my life for that.
Tight_End_SC,
Now this is what I’m talking about that I’m used to

when I make topics like this.



https://www.lpsg.com/threads/letting-a-buddy-play.3874611/



& the PMs I get here & good many on my tumbler, weighing in that they’re that type of guy that lets a buddy play.

It’s fun being around what jokingly refer to as sick bastards.

But mind you, these Joes consider themselves Str8. Still, I find it amazing when they say things like Tight_End_SC does.


“I’m just a highly charged sexual man. Nobody’s gonna question my sexuality.
And if a gay/ bi bro wants to work out, let’s do this.


But if I pick up a vibe, he’s checking me out, I’m pulling my dick out & saying, okay, you wanna suck my dick or work out, I’m down for both. I just don’t believe in wasting time.”