What make a bottom good?

[novice_btm]

It totally depends on what the top is looking for, really. It's just like asking, "What's the perfect bj?" Different people like different things. I had one friend that wanted to just lay there, and have me do all the work, basically, so he could claim (justify in his head) that he didn't "do anything". Another buddy of mine told me, "No, don't fuck back. I just wanna see your hands grabbing the mattress, and hear you whimpering into the pillow." Both, afterward, told me how good it was. Um, ok... But it just goes to show that it totally depends.

 

[D_Furr_Muncher]

I think the question people are answering is more "what makes a good sub?" rather than "what makes a good bottom?"

Remember, being a bottom doesn't necessarily mean being submissive.

 

[D_EdgarAllenPooh]

great tops make better bottoms
farallon7 maybe its time you bend over & take it like a man

 

[latinluva]

Hey all these descriptions sound like me......YIPPY I'm a great bottom.

 

[D_Ambrosius Cottonballs]

And why are you assuming I haven't done it? did I tickled you ego? Get to the point of the blog and give your oppinion!

great tops make better bottoms
farallon7 maybe its time you bend over & take it like a man

 

[novice_btm]

...Remember, being a bottom doesn't necessarily mean being submissive.

I can be more aggressive, if you'd like to gimme a try. :tongue:

 

[nowayzomg]

And I wish I could be there to help you win that bet and go out for dinner after it!

Ha, I wish, I wish :slaphappy:

 

[Lex]

...
Face it, guys: ass fucking is varsity level sex. It doesn't justhappen. It takes a concerted effort from both sides to make it good. But when it's good . . . .

Agreed. Good anal sex is damn primal. Sweaty and rough (once the bottom is open and loose) and full of verbal and non-verbal communication.

great tops make better bottoms

And I think that bottoming can make one a better top. Learning to be versatile really make me a better top and I now know better what feels good versus what feels great. My man and I flip all the time--nothing better than knowing when I am getting it that I am gonna give it back at some point. WOOOF.

 

[CUBE]

Agreed. Good anal sex is damn primal. Sweaty and rough (once the bottom is open and loose) and full of verbal and non-verbal communication.



And I think that bottoming can make one a better top. Learning to be versatile really make me a better top and I now know better what feels good versus what feels great. My man and I flip all the time--nothing better than knowing when I am getting it that I am gonna give it back at some point. WOOOF.

Lex, you just keep on turning me on with your talk

 

[Beanie]

wow guys, what a thread this turned out to be! ahah well there are obviously differences of opinion but there are some common threads that are quite universal on what makes a good bottom.

although iv never had anyone tell me so, i do recognise things i do that people say they like, and things i could improve on. so yeah thanks guys, very hot thread!

 

[BigDallasDick8x6]

An unquenchable desire to obey my orders.

 

[BigDallasDick8x6]

Another buddy of mine told me, "No, don't fuck back. I just wanna see your hands grabbing the mattress, and hear you whimpering into the pillow."

I'm with him. Role play isn't a sometimes thing with me. I basically do role play everytime I fuck someone. The key is finding the right partner before bringing them home. Soimeone who's into it also. When I tell them I have a sling and they get all giddy, that pretty much tells me they like hardcore fucking. I've broken the sling twice (tore the rivets through the leather) from fucking too hard. The guy at the gay leather store in town that repaired it told me when I picked it up "This is the best sling in Dallas." (Brought it with me from Philly). When we had to repair it the second time we reinforced the corners and no problems since then -- the rivets have held. Or maybe I'm just slowing down? LOL

 

[BigDallasDick8x6]

I think the question people are answering is more "what makes a good sub?" rather than "what makes a good bottom?"

Remember, being a bottom doesn't necessarily mean being submissive.

It does for me. If you're not submissive we're not going to fuck. Can't stand bossy bottoms. Total turn off.

But like Novice_Btm says, it depends on the person. The key is the right people finding each other.

 

[D_Ambrosius Cottonballs]

Absolutely! A Bossy bottom is a total turn off for me as well. Leading and talking how he would like to be fucked is one thing, but giving orders's a big no no! I guess he probably should be a top! But a woman giving orders is a fucking turn on! Get on top and ride my pole how ever you want!

It does for me. If you're not submissive we're not going to fuck. Can't stand bossy bottoms. Total turn off.

But like Novice_Btm says, it depends on the person. The key is the right people finding each other.

 

[D_EdgarAllenPooh]

And why are you assuming I haven't done it? did I tickled you ego? Get to the point of the blog and give your oppinion!

Incredibly wrong of me to assume anything here on lpsg my appologies SIR.

now that i have swallowed my pride

please share with us your most memorable expierence as a bottom. we need details graphic hardcore details

 

[D_Ambrosius Cottonballs]

Hmm, I don't know! Why don't you tell us yours? I am too shy for those stories! Your story might inspire me, specially if it is really hardcore!

Incredibly wrong of me to assume anything here on lpsg my appologies SIR.

now that i have swallowed my pride

please share with us your most memorable expierence as a bottom. we need details graphic hardcore details

 

[dad4you]

I think the question people are answering is more "what makes a good sub?" rather than "what makes a good bottom?"

Remember, being a bottom doesn't necessarily mean being submissive.

I have to agree with this one. I am not "submissive" even if I do offer up my ass or mouth for sex. I am an active partner that happens to be an oral bottom, but I don't want someone to dominate me. To me Dom / Sub is a power thing that some men have going on but not me.:scratchchin:

 

[Lex]

Lex, you just keep on turning me on with your talk

I want you and I don't care who knows.

An unquenchable desire to obey my orders.

Hell fuckin YEAH!

It does for me. If you're not submissive we're not going to fuck. Can't stand bossy bottoms. Total turn off.

But like Novice_Btm says, it depends on the person. The key is the right people finding each other.

As a good friend told me long ago, even Daddies need daddies sometimes.

 

[D_Ambrosius Cottonballs]

It's getting hot in here!

 

[nealin]

You have to be able to read the man your with. If he a novice top he may need guidance and reassurance hes doing it right. He may be a man that wants it with romance and loving feelings so you need to show him care and tenderness.
It's best for me when you find that man who knows what he is doing. I want to know the next day that I had a proper fucking. You will be able to tell just how much I love it when you have a fistful of hair pulling me back against you and Im screaming for more. Your hunger for a man should show in everything you do for and to him.