What make you tick for a dick?

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Honest question here, I'm a straight dude and I want to understand something.

I'm interested in the opposite sex (women) because I don't have a vagina, I'm curious and intrigued by the opposite sex anatomy. It exciting to explore, feel and play with something I don't have.

You have a dick, so what make a dick interesting to you?

I do understand the emotional part, the attraction, but dick wise!?

I don't get it. Please explain.
 

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It might be the same thing, but exciting to explore and play with something that is the same but always a bit different. Kind of like "what do *they* have, and how do they use the same thing that *I* have?
 
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@huguest I am attracted to the same thing vs something opposite. Cocks simply fascinate me which is why I am here. I also enjoy knowing I got a guy off and feel so power in doing so while at the same time it feels good to be used to get a guy off. Anyway there it is.
 

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Thanks for the reply guys.
But at some point, you're surely going to compare your cock.
Isn't it always shame or ego boosting?
How do you deal with that?
So, is gay sex always an ego trip?
 

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Asking a gay man what makes him tick to want dick is same as what makes a straight man want pussy.. ( I’m bi so been down on both )…. What if we asked you what makes you tik to want pussy..

It’s a common answer and easy one at that… it’s the hormones in our bodies that makes us want what we want .. simple as that..

Don’t you find it awesome that even though you like girls.. that gay men like your cock just as much.. I am sure you get flattered by it
 
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Asking a gay man what makes him tick to want dick is same as what makes a straight man want pussy.. ( I’m bi so been down on both )…. What if we asked you what makes you tik to want pussy..

It’s a common answer and easy one at that… it’s the hormones in our bodies that makes us want what we want .. simple as that..

Don’t you find it awesome that even though you like girls.. that gay men like your cock just as much.. I am sure you get flattered by it
Hi IloveGames48, Like I said in my first post, I do understand the attraction, you can't control the hormone and it's a common thing for both sex.

But this is not my question. I'm asking what make you appreciate the same sex that you have.
I could answer your question by bragging about all the thing that make me fancy a pussy. But I'd rather give you guy the opportunity to show a straight guy what make a dick so special to you.

I'm a straight guy and I know I'm in the "ask a gay men" section, I'm here to listen to you guy's.

Isn't it always shame or ego boosting?
How do you deal with that?
So, is gay sex always an ego trip?

I big thanks to Kazimir to give me some light on the matter. But surely it's more than just "the same but different".
 

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Honest question here, I'm a straight dude and I want to understand something.

I'm interested in the opposite sex (women) because I don't have a vagina, I'm curious and intrigued by the opposite sex anatomy. It exciting to explore, feel and play with something I don't have.

You have a dick, so what make a dick interesting to you?

I do understand the emotional part, the attraction, but dick wise!?

I don't get it. Please explain.
Given you chose to post this in Ask a Gay Man, rather than Ask a Man, it strikes me that your question is more like "why are you gay" or "why did you choose to be gay".

That's why I want to ask you:

Why you attracted to a vagina?

I ask because given your premise that you are attracted to vagina because you don't have one, does that mean you would be attracted to an FTM? Someone who looks/acts like a man but has the vagina you don't?

That's the crux of the issue IMO: are you attracted to women or just vaginas?
 
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Given you chose to post this in Ask a Gay Man, rather than Ask a Man, it strikes me that your question is more like "why are you gay" or "why did you choose to be gay".

That's why I want to ask you:

Why you attracted to a vagina?

I ask because given your premise that you are attracted to vagina because you don't have one, does that mean you would be attracted to an FTM? Someone who looks/acts like a man but has the vagina you don't?

That's the crux of the issue IMO: are you attracted to women or just vaginas?
Hi Mister B,

Been a while, Figure that you feel strange by a straight guy asking a question in "ask a gay men" section.

I was just thinking about that, people always try to take the question as general as possible to give you the answer that you should conclude too instead of just give their personal preferences and let the OP do is own conclusions.

If you want to answer me as you always do by a other questions without participating in the OP original question. It would only deviate the subject.

If you want to validate my intentions by this question and have your approval, PM me I will be happy to elaborate with you. It's always a pleasure arguing with you.

Happy new years to you.
 

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Hi Mister B,

Been a while, Figure that you feel strange by a straight guy asking a question in "ask a gay men" section.
Hello to you! Hope you had a wonderful New Year's Eve!

You "figure" wrong; I'm glad to see folks who don't ID as gay ask questions about that which they are curious about, as you did with this thread.

I was just thinking about that, people always try to take the question as general as possible to give you the answer that you should conclude too instead of just give their personal preferences and let the OP do is own conclusions.
The way you chose to frame your post in your OP is what caused me to ask what I did. You stated:

I'm interested in the opposite sex (women) because I don't have a vagina, I'm curious and intrigued by the opposite sex anatomy. It exciting to explore, feel and play with something I don't have.
So then, are you attracted to women? Or just their vagina and anatomy?
If you want to answer me as you always do by a other questions without participating in the OP original question. It would only deviate the subject.
Hard for me to answer you given again the specific wording you chose I quoted above.

If you want to validate my intentions by this question and have your approval, PM me I will be happy to elaborate with you. It's always a pleasure arguing with you.
I asked what I believed to be simple and legit questions based on how you chose to style your OP.

And why would you choose the word "arguing"? I asked the questions I did because it's not my place to assume your intentions, again, given the specific wording you chose in your OP.

Let me answer your question:

You have a dick, so what make a dick interesting to you?

I do understand the emotional part, the attraction, but dick wise!?
I don't recall normally having seen a gentleman's penis prior to me finding him attractive and wanting to pursue getting to know him. I can assure you that it's not "any ol' penis will do" for me. I have to find the person a penis is attached to appealing before I'd consider getting naked.

Which then leads me to ask you: Will any ol' vagina do for you? You ready to get naked because you know that person has a vagina?

Happy new years to you.
Happy New Year to you! Hope 2024 is a good year for you and yours! :)
 

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Hello to you! Hope you had a wonderful New Year's Eve!

You "figure" wrong; I'm glad to see folks who don't ID as gay ask questions about that which they are curious about, as you did with this thread.


The way you chose to frame your post in your OP is what caused me to ask what I did. You stated:


So then, are you attracted to women? Or just their vagina and anatomy?

Hard for me to answer you given again the specific wording you chose I quoted above.


I asked what I believed to be simple and legit questions based on how you chose to style your OP.

And why would you choose the word "arguing"? I asked the questions I did because it's not my place to assume your intentions, again, given the specific wording you chose in your OP.

Let me answer your question:


I don't recall normally having seen a gentleman's penis prior to me finding him attractive and wanting to pursue getting to know him. I can assure you that it's not "any ol' penis will do" for me. I have to find the person a penis is attached to appealing before I'd consider getting naked.

Which then leads me to ask you: Will any ol' vagina do for you? You ready to get naked because you know that person has a vagina?


Happy New Year to you! Hope 2024 is a good year for you and yours! :)
The way I phrase my question is directly impacted by the fact that English is not my first language. Sorry if I miss lead you. I wouldn't ask this question in "ask a men" section since gay men can answer much better this question.

Your still not answering my question, It's a general consensus that attraction come first, and then physical attributes. But those attributes do have a impact on what you fancy.

I'm not attracted by the view of a other men dick. And the physical interaction between a men/women is not the same as men/men.

So what make you fancy a dick in particular?

I will answer the rest of your questions in PM, since it's out of the scope of this post.
 
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I am a straightish. [no labels] cisgender male that is attracted to cocks. My preference is cocks that resemble mine. Love to see them, love to imagine one in my hands and mouth. One day that will come true if that cock is attached to someone I can relate to and we have the same outlook on M/M sex. I have seen a ton of cocks that look great but are attached to a male that I have no interest in. It could be body type, attitude, age or any number of other factors that would be disqualifying for me.

Asking for an accurate rationale for why I or anyone enjoys cocks is never going to get a satisfactory answer. I like the idea of cocks because I wish to know what it is like to have a cock that is not my own in my hands. To feel it. To stroke or suck it to get it to blow. It's exciting to think that I can give as much pleasure to another male that I can to a woman. Plus cocks are just as cool as pussies.

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You may want to ask in the straight section as you may find surprising answers.....
 
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I am a straightish. [no labels] cisgender male that is attracted to cocks. My preference is cocks that resemble mine. Love to see them, love to imagine one in my hands and mouth. One day that will come true if that cock is attached to someone I can relate to and we have the same outlook on M/M sex. I have seen a ton of cocks that look great but are attached to a male that I have no interest in. It could be body type, attitude, age or any number of other factors that would be disqualifying for me.

Asking for an accurate rationale for why I or anyone enjoys cocks is never going to get a satisfactory answer. I like the idea of cocks because I wish to know what it is like to have a cock that is not my own in my hands. To feel it. To stroke or suck it to get it to blow. It's exciting to think that I can give as much pleasure to another male that I can to a woman. Plus cocks are just as cool as pussies.

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You may want to ask in the straight section as you may find surprising answers.....
Thanks for your input, It's a good feed back.

Greatly appreciated.
You may want to ask in the straight section as you may find surprising answers.....
I will not do that, are you suggesting that I'm better off asking a group that have zero interest in dicks, then a group that love them?!

Seriously, I'm a straight guy and I'm sickened of people thinking that straight = Bisexual.
As a 100% gay men I would be offended that someone propose to ask a question like that to someone that don't give a dawn about dicks.
 

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Thanks for the reply guys.
But at some point, you're surely going to compare your cock.
Isn't it always shame or ego boosting?
How do you deal with that?
So, is gay sex always an ego trip?
I doubt very much if dick size has ever played a part in my sex life, a dick is a dick is a dick and as long as it shoots spunk I'm happy to suck it, get fucked by it or frot with it.
Any strange ideas like sex being an ego trip is some weird thought, the only trip I get on is hoping I'll satisfy the guy I'm with and will be both be satisfied.
 

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Thanks for the reply guys.
But at some point, you're surely going to compare your cock.
Isn't it always shame or ego boosting?
How do you deal with that?
So, is gay sex always an ego trip?

No, it isn't. This sounds like an SPH fetish more than typical gay sex. SPH fetishisists are fairly rare in my experience. This website obviously attracts a disproportionate share of them, which isn't a surprise.

Obviously, because you have a more direct point of comparison. There's more room for mental comparisons, probably more so with an M/M (or F/F pairing) than an M/F pairing because it's fundamentally the same type of body. But that doesn't just go for dicks, it also goes for head hair, body hair, build, looks etc.

What I like about dicks is a combo of size, aesthetics (most important part), function and how each one is unique. They're sexy. It's also the thrill of you never know what it's going to be like fully. But the context makes them sexy. I'm unlikely to find a dick sexy without context. It's a bonus on top of a handsome face, appealing body, great personality and good connection. I find a man's dick sexy if I find something else sexy about him.

A dick isn't sexy if it's attached to a trans woman, or a man I otherwise don't find appealing. So even if I watch a male solo, it is sexy if it combines with a body I think is hot, a handsome face and how he masturbates/moves his body adds to it. The more I see of him the sexier it is.

So I'm also thoroughly in the camp of not thinking "any dick will do".
 
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It's probably more similar than you think.

Firstly, most gay guys LOVE sucking cock. Unless you are extremely lucky, it's not something you can do to yourself.

Secondly, your own penis is very different in look and feel to most other men, in the same way women's vaginas are all a bit different too.

Thirdly, it's much more fun for someone else to fuck you in the ass than it is to fuck yourself.

Fourthly, swallowing another man's cum is hot. Swallowing your own is a little sad.

Fifthly, it's not all about cock. Making a hot guy moan with your lips and tongue in his mouth/ass/nipple/ear/neck etc are all things you can't do on your own and once again all are different from your own.
 

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The upside of being gay or lesbian is that they know what feels good and can more easily replicate that feeling for their partners.

A common complaint for straight women in particular is that they don't orgasm during sex (or they have to fake it) because their partners haven't got a clue how to get them off.
 
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Honest question here, I'm a straight dude and I want to understand something.

I'm interested in the opposite sex (women) because I don't have a vagina, I'm curious and intrigued by the opposite sex anatomy. It exciting to explore, feel and play with something I don't have.

You have a dick, so what make a dick interesting to you?

I do understand the emotional part, the attraction, but dick wise!?

I don't get it. Please explain.
I have a bit of a problem with the question. are you solely straight because you like vagina? that is, is your sexuality only based on a physical attribute of the person opposite? sexuality for me is more than just the knob I'm on. it has to be a man. that's why I can't go for transexuals still in tact - no matter how hung they are. I'm not criticising but asking maybe you should be expanding your questioning - or even exploring other options yourself. maybe the women you are with may like sex more if the focus wasn't purely on what's down there. explore kissing, breasts [yours and hers], anal [again, yours and hers!].
 

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Honest question here, I'm a straight dude and I want to understand something.

I'm interested in the opposite sex (women) because I don't have a vagina, I'm curious and intrigued by the opposite sex anatomy. It exciting to explore, feel and play with something I don't have.

You have a dick, so what make a dick interesting to you?

I do understand the emotional part, the attraction, but dick wise!?

I don't get it. Please explain.
Haha well is there anything needed to get? Like, do you wonder or question a lesbian's desire for vaginas and breasts?

Is it curiousity you are looking for, such as just wanting to know what gay and bisexual men like about dicks or are you trying to look for a logical explanation? Because HOOOOO BOY is that last one never going to be answered definitively. Humans are VERY ILLOGICAL creatures! Lol