I so get your point..." But, I am a member on a few other high traffic forums.." I hope I spelled that right.." But, as I was saying.." I been a Member for a year or so at three of them.." Trolls come and go.." Then their are the NUT JOBS.." Then the freaks that you don't want to even talk to..and so on.." I have met people in person from my other groups.." It is like a family to me.." But, here.." Being new.." I been talking to a lot of people.." I see that this place has a buddy list area..." I am a talker and I would just like to talk to the REG. folk that I have stuff in commen with and like to talk to.." They can be Male or Females.." I also wondered about you alls feeling on these list here.." My other sites, like I said ....some of those members are like FAMILY.." We respect each other.." I would like the same kind of people on MY list here..."